Just popping in to say hi

[Ms_Lilith]

Been away from this forum for a while.. my honey's and my interest in BDSM has come and gone.. and it's cropping back up for both of us, so we're playing a bit more with the physical aspects again.

We never really left the 24/7 part of it.. I'm still submissive to him in many ways outside of the bedroom, by choice, but inside the bedroom, we've experimented more with switching. Currently, he's allowing me to play online with someone, in a role-playing way, and it's liberating.. and educational... *smile* And he generally reaps the benefits.

Anywho, for those who know me, that's an update. For those who don't, an introduction.

How are you all? I certainly hope you're all well, and always, I'd love to hear from you.



-Lilith

 

[Ms_Lilith]

okay then.

 

[MissTaken]

Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Sounds like you are doing well. It gets slow around here, sometimes.



I think it is normal for interest and activity to cycle. Or, at least, it does with us. We remain D/s, but as for the actual physical play, things like jobs, children, fatigue, travel etc tend to put a damper on things.

I don't like to play unless I have the energy to do it well.

*sigh*

 

[Raeth]

I don't speak with much experience, but that's how it goes for me and my wife. She is almost always somewhat submissive to me in the bedroom... or bathroom/kitchen/balcony/living room/backyard/car...

You get the idea! But we don't always feel the need to make more of it... it just stays in the background much of the time. It's much better to save it for the chances we can both feel really into it.

In public I think most people would assume I was a sub if you told them we were into these kind of things. I'm rather passive, and she is very stong willed... but somehow it all works out for the best.

Anyways... I am glad that it sounds like you are having fun. Good luck with everything, it's nice to meet you.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I'm glad other people cycle as well... *grin* To be honest, I don't know how people manage to keep up the energy to be into the activity 24/7... we've had a lot to exhaust us, from injury, illness, money issues, etc... and with me searching for a new job, it's kinda stressful.

Glad to see you, MissT, and nice to meet you as well, Raeth

 

[MissTaken]

And stress!

His work sucks. Mine has sucked.

The school that my son goes to is a problem and then,


the good stress....

planning for the move and the nuptuals....

Busy, happy ass stress!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Originally posted by MissTaken


planning for the move and the nuptuals....

Busy, happy ass stress!

Oh my god, I missed that!!! Congratulations!

 

[MissTaken]

Oh my god, I missed that!!! Congratulations!

Thank you.

I haven't actually "announced" anything, but life is so very good.

 

[SkyBluAngelEyes]

Heya you beautiful woman!

Glad you're posting over here again.

I know it's a personal thing, but I just couldn't do a 24/7 thing. I don't think I'd have the energy. :nodding:

Glad to hear that things are going well for you and honey.

I went to the GB for a browse the other night and was frightened off by what I read! *shudder*

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Originally posted by SkyBluAngelEyes
Heya you beautiful woman!

Glad you're posting over here again.

I know it's a personal thing, but I just couldn't do a 24/7 thing. I don't think I'd have the energy. :nodding:

Glad to hear that things are going well for you and honey.

I went to the GB for a browse the other night and was frightened off by what I read! *shudder*

heyheyhey! I LOVE that av of yours.. so cute!

And thank you.. It's nice to check in now and again...

 

[Netzach]

I consider what M and I to do to be 24/7, actually. He's always my boy, but our protocols have to be very flexible and pragmatic when the world rears its hideous head, and that works for us quite well. It's not 24/7 if you look on the surface, but it's not something I feel like I pick up and drop either. Our activity levels vary a LOT though, and it's good to feel part of some kind of norm that way.

 

[lorddragonwolf]

welcome back.