Just out of a relationship, with prospects

[dmb101]

Hi,

I recently ended a 2 year relationship. No, to be fair it was more of a mutual ending. Details are not important as the fact that we were not connecting anymore.

The strange thing is, as sad as i feel, and heartbroken, i feel elated and free ! A feeling which is, i dare say, Great !

Only today, did i hear of this girl at work that is really interested in me, we had some harmless flirting and she asked me out on a date.

The thing is i don't know why, but as i am feeling sadness and loss for my failed relationship, i am thinking of this other girl and feeling alive and awakened !

I don't know if it right or wrong, it is very hard to describe my feelings at this point.

Anyone out there have a handle on this or similar experience ?

Many thanks to all.

D

 

[SweetErika]

Sounds perfectly normal! Enjoy the excitement and have fun, but it might be good to take some time to re-connect with yourself and be single. If you do date, make sure the person knows your situation and that you need to take it very slow (for both of your sakes). Good luck, and have a blast!

 

[dmb101]

thanks...

Sounds perfectly normal! Enjoy the excitement and have fun, but it might be good to take some time to re-connect with yourself and be single. If you do date, make sure the person knows your situation and that you need to take it very slow (for both of your sakes). Good luck, and have a blast!

Thank You SweetErika,

I have not as yet told the girl that asked me out on a date of my situation. I am not 100% sure i will accept her invitation. Thank you for your words