Just one, no lies

[Whispersweetly]

I'm looking for just one man who enjoys great conversation, getting to know each other, building trust, and who has no interest in playing games or lying to me.

Make no mistake, I will be demanding.

I demand you treat me with respect. I will do the same.

I demand you focus on me in our time together, or be honest about needing to chat with more than one woman at a time. I will do the same.

I demand you be honest with me. Especially when it comes to posting on Lit WHILE WE ARE CHATTING. (Spoiler alert: I can see you! ) I will do the same.

And finally I demand that you not get angry about "trust being important", "building trust" and then run away angry when you break any of the above.

OK needle. Where the hell are you?

 

[coloradaninlouisiana]

well stated. Wish all were as straightforward!

 

[Whispersweetly]

well stated. Wish all were as straightforward!

Likewise!

 

[Rhetoracle]

I'm looking for just one man who enjoys great conversation, getting to know each other, building trust, and who has no interest in playing games or lying to me.

Make no mistake, I will be demanding.

I demand you treat me with respect. I will do the same.

I demand you focus on me in our time together, or be honest about needing to chat with more than one woman at a time. I will do the same.

I demand you be honest with me. Especially when it comes to posting on Lit WHILE WE ARE CHATTING. (Spoiler alert: I can see you! ) I will do the same.

And finally I demand that you not get angry about "trust being important", "building trust" and then run away angry when you break any of the above.

OK needle. Where the hell are you?

Sounds reasonable enough. Good luck with your search!

 

[ArthurW]

On here you want guys to tell the truth. Not even the ladies do and they are far fewer here. I wish you luck but ask the other ladies here if they get only what they ask for. Sorry

 

[barefootgirl69]

Oh, but she's right! Common courtesy....

 

[ArthurW]

I am not saying she is wrong barefootgirl69 I am pointing out guys out number you ladies better than 15 to one. And to those desperate for love and sex truth goes out the window.

 

[girlyboi85]

Interesting that women can demand this, but if men do it, they're viewed as being pushy.

 

[ArthurW]

I hate to tell you girlyboi85 many guys ask the same questions. They get few to no responses so they take what ever they can get from the ladies. They have learn not to care to get at least one response.

 

[SquishyBits]

I hate to tell you girlyboi85 many guys ask the same questions. They get few to no responses so they take what ever they can get from the ladies. They have learn not to care to get at least one response.

This is a sad outlook on the state of the dynamics of Lit.

 

[julybaby04]

I disagree about the ladies here.

I too would appreciate just one man who CHOOSES to spend his time with me. Posting on threads in public can be done very easily with respect in knowing that the special person they are speaking with privately, can see the posts. Fun can be had here, but if the op is like me, there is no desire to be part of a harem.

Friends can be made with anyone, but to have that connection, that attraction, the desire to know the person more deeply and share things with them, that is not going to be with every person one meets.

Everyone who comes here has their own reasons to be here. Being honest about expectations is important. I have spoken to many men in my years here. Very few Have I chosen to get close to as they prefered to be close to many. Their choice....my choice.

 

[ArthurW]

Squishybits it's not just here but in all places that chat sex and none sex. Men just out number the ladies. Women out number us in real life but places like this we out number them. Wish you all the best ladies and thank you for being here.

 

[MikeMayham87]

Hope you find the man your looking for. We all need to be trustworthy and to have someone.

 

[DevilKitty]

I disagree about the ladies here.

I too would appreciate just one man who CHOOSES to spend his time with me. Posting on threads in public can be done very easily with respect in knowing that the special person they are speaking with privately, can see the posts. Fun can be had here, but if the op is like me, there is no desire to be part of a harem.

Friends can be made with anyone, but to have that connection, that attraction, the desire to know the person more deeply and share things with them, that is not going to be with every person one meets.

Everyone who comes here has their own reasons to be here. Being honest about expectations is important. I have spoken to many men in my years here. Very few Have I chosen to get close to as they prefered to be close to many. Their choice....my choice.

Can I please offer you my own standing ovation???

 

[Whispersweetly]

I disagree about the ladies here.

I too would appreciate just one man who CHOOSES to spend his time with me. Posting on threads in public can be done very easily with respect in knowing that the special person they are speaking with privately, can see the posts. Fun can be had here, but if the op is like me, there is no desire to be part of a harem.

Friends can be made with anyone, but to have that connection, that attraction, the desire to know the person more deeply and share things with them, that is not going to be with every person one meets.

Everyone who comes here has their own reasons to be here. Being honest about expectations is important. I have spoken to many men in my years here. Very few Have I chosen to get close to as they prefered to be close to many. Their choice....my choice.

Thank you! This is exactly my point.

He knew this. He chose not only not to respect what I asked, but to lie about it and then get pissed off when I asked him about it.

 

[Whispersweetly]

Can I please offer you my own standing ovation???

This!

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Don't trust anyone you meet online, darlin'.
You might find someone claiming to be a stallion, but you sure as shit won't find a unicorn.

Good luck.

Sorry you dealt with some riff raff...

 

[Chimptron]

Well, I think this is a fair and reasonable request. How will you know if this is out there (or here on Lit) if you don't ask? I, for one, appreciate candor and setting the expectations.

Whispersweetly, if you would like to talk, let me know.

 

[julybaby04]

Can I please offer you my own standing ovation???

Thank you ma'am!

Thank you! This is exactly my point.

He knew this. He chose not only not to respect what I asked, but to lie about it and then get pissed off when I asked him about it.

It is easy to get swept up, but also just as easy to move on when things do not go well.

I wish yo so much luck as you move forward.

 

[Semler]

I'm looking for just one man who enjoys great conversation, getting to know each other, building trust, and who has no interest in playing games or lying to me.

Make no mistake, I will be demanding.

I demand you treat me with respect. I will do the same.

I demand you focus on me in our time together, or be honest about needing to chat with more than one woman at a time. I will do the same.

I demand you be honest with me. Especially when it comes to posting on Lit WHILE WE ARE CHATTING. (Spoiler alert: I can see you! ) I will do the same.

And finally I demand that you not get angry about "trust being important", "building trust" and then run away angry when you break any of the above.

OK needle. Where the hell are you?

Isn't this obvious?

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Isn't this obvious?

*forehead slaps*
Of course it's obvious!
Lit= not the place to be looking

 

[DevilKitty]

Isn't this obvious?

You would think so, but after almost a year of being here, I'm going to go with a "No"

 

[Whispersweetly]

You would think so, but after almost a year of being here, I'm going to go with a "No"

Agreed. If it didn't need to be said, and if it were really that obvious, no one would be saying it.

 

[cliteatingman]

I wonder if lit is the best haystack to look in...

I'm looking for just one man who enjoys great conversation, getting to know each other, building trust, and who has no interest in playing games or lying to me.

Make no mistake, I will be demanding.

I demand you treat me with respect. I will do the same.

I demand you focus on me in our time together, or be honest about needing to chat with more than one woman at a time. I will do the same.

I demand you be honest with me. Especially when it comes to posting on Lit WHILE WE ARE CHATTING. (Spoiler alert: I can see you! ) I will do the same.

And finally I demand that you not get angry about "trust being important", "building trust" and then run away angry when you break any of the above.

OK needle. Where the hell are you?

 

[Whispersweetly]

I wonder if lit is the best haystack to look in...

Who says it's the only one I'm looking in?

And besides, I have indeed met some amazing people here. It's the ones like...well read my posts and you can figure it out...who have lied to multiple women here that I'd really like to avoid.