Just got it up the ass

[Teddybear1626]

ok ladies spill it! I just got it up the ass and well im hurtin! lol is it always that bad or what? It was alittle messy is it always messy like that? Give me the goods on anal im very curious becuase after awhile it was kinda good but well regular sex is still my fav...anal has not wow'ed me like i had hoped!

 

[ChromeCollar]

I've yet to have the privledge. *eyes the SO* Did you enjoy?

 

[Teddybear1626]

like i said it was alittle ...wait..it was very different!! totally different feeling than normal sex. it will take me a very long time to do it again gotta recover!! LOL

 

[KaliGrrl]

Darn!!

That's something I have been thinking about trying again.......maybe I'll hold off on it now. You said you're hurting........maybe a little more lube? It did work wonders for me on my first attempt at anal sex, but like you, I haven't been in a big hurry to try it again. While I did cum, it was more from the stimulation of knowing I had a cock up the ass than from the actual sensation.


Could someone with a little more experience post and give some advice?

 

[Jezebelle1458]

teddybear,you got to go slow and have a partner who can take the time.ohhh,it is very different.but can be very enjoyable.just relax and savor the difference.

 

[Lynxie]

Going slow is the key. The first time I tried it hurt like hell too... I do agree that half the pleasure comes just from the thought of what you're doing - but take it slow, use plenty of lube, and make sure you're in a good position to reach your clit and you'll be on your way

 

[Teddybear1626]

and what about him cumming in your ass? a friend that i discussed this with told me that is bad and it could cause problems w/ your system what is the truth of this?

 

[Meat Whistler]

You need to go slow and utilize lots of lube. It will hurt the first time (even the first time in a while).

I think you should try it again.

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Teddybear1626
and what about him cumming in your ass? a friend that i discussed this with told me that is bad and it could cause problems w/ your system what is the truth of this?

anal sex is a high risk behaviour and a condom should be used...*although I'm aware a lot of people don't practice safe sex in this regard*

 

[Chi-Guy31]

I know you asked for the ladies' opinions on this one, but as I guy I am aware of how it might hurt my wife so I always take it slow, warm up her ass slowly with tonguing and a finger or two, until she is relaxed in that area. Then with lots lube I can slowly enter her ass with my penis, a bit at a time, and sometimes just let it rest there before I start moving back and forth. Eventually, my wife really does start to enjoy the sensations, my thrusting can get a bit more intense, which is marvelous for both of us. I have never cummed inside her ass, she said no, but I asked on another website where many people said it would be fine...

 

[Astrum]

That topic gave me an instant hardon... And I was just about to go to bed too .

 

[ReadyOne]

and what about him cumming in your ass? a friend that i discussed this with told me that is bad and it could cause problems w/ your system what is the truth of this?

Sperm in the bowels is not a problem unless it contains a STD, in which case sperm anywhere can cause a problem. People have been treated for gonorrhea in the arm pit and mouth because that's where their partner cumed.

Unless you have Irritable Bowel Syndrome or such (and you will know it if you do) then anal sex, of itself, isn't a problem.

 

[Tat2mom]

Everyone is right about taking it slow but Chi-Guy is exactly right. He needs to go a little at a time and let you relax and get used to it each time he goes a bit further. It is never too much lube. You always have to remember that YOU are in charge here. This is your booty and you should direct him on exactly what to do. (when to stop, when to go, slow down, etc...)
About the mess...... If it wasn't prepared for I would suggest using condoms to control getting any messes in places they shouldn't be. If you are planning it than eat lightly the day before and make sure you have gone to the bathroom at least 3 hrs before. (I have read 1 hr but that just seems too soon to me).
There have been enemas mentioned on this board before but I've never tried those.
Give yourself time to "heal" and give it another try as soon as you feel comfortable. (A night of drinking does it for me lol)
Good Luck!

 

[Jezebelle1458]

chi-guy has done this before,u think? go slow,lots of lube,go slow,go slow go slow!

 

[BoredinCA]

My wife and I are getting to the point where we do it about once or twice a month or at least we are working twords it. I cant stress enough that you need enough lube first of all. The other thing we do is that I incorporate ass play into a sensual rub so that I can sort of lube her up and relax her at the same time. This goes on for a really long time but I am able to loosen her up with my fingers. Sometimes, I take some Oral Jell and put a little bit on my finger with KY and work it in with a single finger. The Oral jell numbs everything for about 5 minutes or less which helps get things loosened up so that by the time I am ready to penetrate her she is compleatly loosened up and can feel everything and so can I. I usually start out with doing long gliding strokes going from the top of her spine all way down around the cheeks of her ass and her asshole ocasionally sticking one finger in. Once she is relaxed enough with the rub I begin getting more aggresive with the finger making sure that I am loosening her up by going in small slow gentle circles instead of in and out. Usually while this finger work is going on I am continuing the rub with my other hand. She says that doing it with the rub is more natural and confortable because it is a part of rub and it dosnt feel so forced. Anyways after I get her loosened up I usually roll her over on her back and get between her legs so I have full access to her front. Then I gently ease into her ass slowly. I usually dont do much back and forth movement at first.... I mainly concentrate just getting inside her. I also transform things from rub to passionate kissing and what not. Her ass is really really tight so it can take some work getting in there so I usually whisper in her ear to push gently... that sort of opens her up and lets me in. When we first met she had only taken it in the ass once... now like I said its a couple times a month and one time after we went about 6 months without doing it she actually climbed up on top of me in the middle of the night and remarkebly forced my entire length up her ass in one short stroke which really blew my mind. Oh and I cum in her ass all the time and love it.... although she does like me cumming in her ass she does like it better when I pull out and drive it really hard into her pussy and cum.... she only likes this a real lot when I dont penetrate her pussy at any time durring the rub (usually my rubs make her orgasm a lot and she is actually proud of her ability to orgasm nearly every time we have sex) Also with me on top in her ass I can rub her pussy slowly while gently moving in and out of her ass... I dont penetrate her pussy with my fingers I just go in slow circles around the opening and her outer lips with my fingertips. She also uses an ennema regularly because of the ass play durring rubs which is a regular part of our sex. Also on the rare ocasion that she orgasms durring rectal sex (very strong orgasms when mixed with the pussy rub) she can move into an orgasm my rubbing her clit fairly easily usually within about 5 minutes. Let me know how things work out. and dont alternat pussy and ass because that can lead to a bad infection. we just do it ocasionaly when we are willing to accept the doctors visits. Sorry about the bad writing I have to go jack off now because of all this aimless mind wondering (somehow I think my wifes ass is going to get it tonight....LOL)

 

[Jezebelle1458]

i somehow think a lot of people will be getting it tonight.great graphic!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Two things:

1) A little while before having anal, use some ambesol (anbesol?) around your asshole, and even into your asshole a little. Be sure to wash it off right before you do have anal. Then use tons of lube. I recommend Slippery Stuff. The anbesol will serve to numb some of the pain.

2) Use a condom. I cannot stress this enough. First, it will help when it comes to the mess you're talking about, because I know EXACTLY what that's like, but second, it will ensure that your boy won't get any horrible infections due to the bacteria that lives in your colon.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Sperm in the bowels is not a problem unless it contains a STD, in which case sperm anywhere can cause a problem. People have been treated for gonorrhea in the arm pit and mouth because that's where their partner cumed.

Unless you have Irritable Bowel Syndrome or such (and you will know it if you do) then anal sex, of itself, isn't a problem.

Sperm in the bowels. Ever had sperm in your bowels? SPerm in the bowels serves to loosen up everything that's in there, and in my experiences without a condom, I had to make a mad dash to the bathroom as soon as his dick was removed. And that was ALL before I developed IBS. Now, we just pretty much avoid it.

 

[codependent]

I've yet to have the privledge. *eyes the SO* Did you enjoy?

you will soon I defintely shouldve taken advantage of that scenario we just had *nods*

 

[LuvAznNurses]

Lucrative amounts around
Uranus *hehehe*
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Erections

Also big tip always go pussy to ass never ass to pussy without changing condoms. If you go for your ass to pussy with the same condom you are likely to have a yeast infection. im not sure about not having a condom on i would think it would be the same thing

First have him maybe give you a back rub and lick your pussy like with any sex foreplay is number one. If he isnt wearing a condom put on a good layer. Then have some around your asshole then lube up his fingers and and have him insert his pointer slowly into your ass after awhile of finger fucking add the middle have him make circles with his fingers to loosen you up all the way around if you want you can add a thrid more to cum soon

Edit: Great site for anal sex www.analsexyes.com love that site has it all.

Ok if you can get 3 fingers inside of you then you are ready for is cock. withdraw the fingers and relube the asshole and his cock. probably the best was is if your on top. slowly let the head of his cock poke in just barely the head. then relube put more in around the end of the head you should stop and reload put a lot of lube on his shaft since it doesnt preduce precum like the head of the cock. go around half of the cock and then relube your asshole. then push a little bit more into until you get to the end of the shaft now slowly pump up but major thing dont let his cock get out of your ass. it would make it hard to get back in. then slowly and gradutly increase pumping speed.


About cumming inside the ass. you can do it if you want i mean it gonna cum out some time. i found that you have the urge to go to the bathroom kinda soon after anal sex. But if you dont want him to cum inside your ass a kinky thing to do is have him take it out of you ass and have him cum on your back. it will feel wierd and good then he could lick it off if he wanted too or you both can go into the shower and take a shower and you two could do some more foreplay.

Hope it helps post pictures

 

[Jude2]

Two things:

1) A little while before having anal, use some ambesol (anbesol?) around your asshole, and even into your asshole a little. Be sure to wash it off right before you do have anal. Then use tons of lube. I recommend Slippery Stuff. The anbesol will serve to numb some of the pain.

You really shouldn't try and numb the pain. Pain is a bad indication and trying to ignore this will just lead to hard to explain damage!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

You really shouldn't try and numb the pain. Pain is a bad indication and trying to ignore this will just lead to hard to explain damage!

Yes and no.

If you numb the pain, and then just jump right into it, penis going hilt deep, yeah, that's a bad idea.

If you use a little anbesol to DULL the pain, you still can listen to your body, but it's more of a soft knocking than a banging on the door, if you get my drift.

 

[Teddybear1626]

Thank you ladies and gentleman!! My ass is healing wonderfully! Im willing to give this another go but i think i will try a new way of approaching this situation...VERY SLOW and lots of lube next time!! Thank you! If you have anymore suggestions let me know!

 

[ChromeCollar]

you will soon I defintely shouldve taken advantage of that scenario we just had *nods*

Agreed.

 

[Jezebelle1458]

sometimes a little bit of pain is O.K. well,preferably on someone else...not me.