Just going for it!

[dawgfan22]

It is so intimidating to post a thread here, but I will try and make it at least something worth reading. As a 44yo dad, almost grandpa, it's been hard to keep my outgoing masculinity. Maybe that's weird, but I definitely put my kids above myself. I've always been kind of a man whore, just never been comfortable with my sexuality. I definitely like women, just struggled with being that Alpha Male. I love the sensuality and closeness of a true relationship, but I don't know how to deal with those women(which there are a lot of) who want something a little rougher or even just something disrespectful. I'm no pussy, I just don't know how to advance into what most adult women seem to want?

 

[barefootgirl69]

It is so intimidating to post a thread here, but I will try and make it at least something worth reading. As a 44yo dad, almost grandpa, it's been hard to keep my outgoing masculinity. Maybe that's weird, but I definitely put my kids above myself. I've always been kind of a man whore, just never been comfortable with my sexuality. I definitely like women, just struggled with being that Alpha Male. I love the sensuality and closeness of a true relationship, but I don't know how to deal with those women(which there are a lot of) who want something a little rougher or even just something disrespectful. I'm no pussy, I just don't know how to advance into what most adult women seem to want?

The most important thing in any relationship is communication. If you aren't comfortable doing something, then don't. The right woman will respect that. There is something to be said for 'give and take' in relationships, too, but there are limits for each individual.

 

[JennyNo1]

It is so intimidating to post a thread here, but I will try and make it at least something worth reading. As a 44yo dad, almost grandpa, it's been hard to keep my outgoing masculinity. Maybe that's weird, but I definitely put my kids above myself. I've always been kind of a man whore, just never been comfortable with my sexuality. I definitely like women, just struggled with being that Alpha Male. I love the sensuality and closeness of a true relationship, but I don't know how to deal with those women(which there are a lot of) who want something a little rougher or even just something disrespectful. I'm no pussy, I just don't know how to advance into what most adult women seem to want?

If that's not you, then it's not. Trying to be an Alpha or whatever you want to call it will just make things unsatisfying for both parties. You be you, and the right woman will appreciate you just as you are.