Juspar is gone again!

[bluntforcemama]

I'm lonely, and I hate it when he has to go. There's a pit of emptiness around my heart. This sucks!

 

[Aphrodisiac]

I know how you feel when I go to see my man we have a wonderful time but then comes the time we have to say good bye and my heart aches so much... *sigh*

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

I had much the same feelings when I would have my daughter for the weekend and then have to drive back home 500 miles to my lonely house, not being sure when I would next get to see her, or how much she would change in between. It totally sucked.

 

[Simply Me]

Been there, felt that.

 

[Shelby]

Duh, silk ties, binding hands to bed...he can't go then!

Sorry Myst!

The day will come. Some say patience is a virtue. Personally, even with your long distance relationship, you get it more than I do. I say patience sucks.

Hope you had a fabulous weekend.

 

[scylis]

ice cream? it's the Twix peanut butter stuff! mmmmm......

 

[Juspar Emvan]

I love that girl.

 

[Kasha]

You poor things...

I know how you feel. When my husband and I first met we were together non stop. Then I had to move back to Texas and we thought we wouldn't ever see eachother again. This was back when we were both teenagers. We didn't have computers at the time so we just had enormous phone bills. Which wasn't such a good thing since we both still lived at home, went to school and had no money. We got to visit twice that year. Right before I was 18, I decided that that was enough and I was going to be with him, even if it meant leaving my family and friends and all I had ever known.

It was the best decision I ever made. We are the best of friends and I can't imagine my life without him. We have been seperated at times since then and my heart and soul would ache. I felt like a huge part of myself was just missing, vanishing into thin air. Being seperated at those times has given me a lot of anxiety. We are married now and grown, so there is no way we would be seperated unless it was of course something we wanted. Anyhow, being apart those times leads me to have nightmares now. It really lets me see how strongly bonded we are.

I really understand the pain of seperation and really nothing any of us can say can make it better. If you two are truly meant to be together then you will definitely find a way. Love is funny like that. At least ya'll are able to communicate via the computer which of course is no match for the real thing but it is still a daily way to keep in touch. All this time apart will lead you to be ever so happy when ya'll can finally be together. It is just a magical time when all the dreams become reality.

Best of luck to you both.

 

[April]

Myst, he's not gone. He's right there, in your heart.

 

[MissTaken]

I do hope your weekend was all that you had hoped for and can certainly understand how you are feeling.

~hugs for you both~

 

[Guest]

Myst,
I'm sorry you are hurting. When my hubby and I first got together, online mind you, we spent several months doing the long distance thing. Once a month was often and it sucked big, fucking time. It got to the point to where I questioned if seeing him made it hurt worse. I mean, if I saw him and then we parted, it hurt badly. After a few days I would be ok and get back to some normalcy. As soon as I'd get to the ok point, the goodbye process was eminent once again. It hurts. But, it's so worth it. To find that person that makes your toes curls and lips hurt from smiling so much- damn, it's so worth it. Hang in there!

 

[bluntforcemama]

I love that man.

 

[sexy-girl]

i know how you feel myst but like raindancer says it can work out in the end


wishing you both luck for the future

 

[Angel]

I love that man.

So when is he coming back again?

 

[bluntforcemama]

January, maybe February.