I've started to ignore my straight friends.

[bisexualsmoker]

I find that I'm now avoiding all of
my straight friends.It just seems to be a pattern where I don't need
any homophobic views or any
straight laced male 'stud' cliches.
I've been pretty out as a bisexual
for a few years, I just seem to have decided to avoid certain people lately, yet somehow I'm still
worried about what they think of
me.
Going though all the 'He's turned
fag' etc tirade isn't easy, but I'd like to erase certain people from my life, but I just know I'll run into
them later.
Doing without them now would be much easier though. This is just
something I'm going through.
to get it out of my system.

 

[Laplaciana]

That happens. Sometimes we change and some of our friends and acquaintances decide that this isn't who we should be. There's nothing we can do about it.
Just be honest and they will naturally drift away.

 

[newmikeman]

People will come in and out of your life for whatever reason. Usually small stuff in my experience. If your friends can't accept you or have not tried to-- it is time to call off the relationship.

Some people may have a change of heart and some you're probably just better off without.

 

[bisexualsmoker]

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Thanks for your replies.
Hopefully they stay away for
good.
I'd like to move but I have too
good of a deal where I am. It
would be nice to move to the gay
village but unfortunately not
practical.

 

[JaxRhapsody]

If they run in to you, they run in to you. Let that be the only time you see these "friends".

 

[beingtrue2me]

It has taken me awhile to tell friends other than my closest ones and as far as I have been able to tell, none have looked at me differently. Hope things get better for you soon and you find more friends that accept you for the person you are.