I've given many blowjobs...

[LoVeLyLiSaBeTh]

I have a guy trying to get me interested in throat fucking. I have a pretty good understanding of how that happens but have never known anyone personally, as far as I know, who has done it. Just looking for some feedback from men who have done it to a woman, or women who have recieved from a man.

 

[UhlBWett]

Hmmmmm

I have a guy trying to get me interested in throat fucking. I have a pretty good understanding of how that happens but have never known anyone personally, as far as I know, who has done it. Just looking for some feedback from men who have done it to a woman, or women who have recieved from a man.

I have only been with one woman who could truly allow me to fuck her throat. She used to go into a Zen like state when we started, relaxed yet very focused......... I could fuck her throat slow or pound her hard, it didn't matter. As a foot note, she also enjoyed getting facials.

 

[LWulf]

There was one guy in college that was interested in deep throating me. He was an alright guy and we became friends but I wasn't interested.

The point is, he mentioned that he had very low gag reflex, which seems to agree with what I have heard on the subject matter. If you have a high gag reflex, you might not be able to do this.

Some people suggest an oral desensitizer (maybe chloraseptic? no others come to mind). I believe they recommend that you start out laying on your stomach on a bed with your head at the edge, then raising your head so your mouth is in line with your throat. The point is you, as uhlbwett mentioned, you have to be ultra relaxed. You should also have ultimate trust in the guy cutting off your air supply while he orgasms. Maybe you should have some sort of bell or something that will let him know "Stop!" because you wont be able to talk... Um, silly thing to point out, don't take a ruffie or alcohol or the like, to "relax", you want to be totally clear headed when/if you do this. make sure your cell phone is fully charged and within reach (Sorry, I'm a worry wart). make sure to go over the whole procedure with him especially if he says he has done it before (100's of times).

Just throwing out ideas from a "How to..." movie I think I watched about 28 years ago... I think it was by Ginger Lynn.
pls get a confirm on the above before attempting it. (natch)

 

[LoVeLyLiSaBeTh]

thank you LWulf

 

[fadrosa]

I have done it on numerous occasions with an old girlfriend. I wouldn't say that it was a regular part of our sex life, but it wasn't a rarity either. Anyway, it was something that we worked up to in the sense that we didn't just go in the bedroom and I started fucking her throat--lots of foreplay to get us both aroused. Eventually she would lay on her back with her head propped up a bit on a pillow and slightly hanging over the edge. I would stand and slowly work my shaft further down her throat.

The 'trick' is that you can't just jam it in there and start thrusting (I guess that's a good rule for sex in general, right?). Instead your partner will just have to ease it in. Once it's good and wet and slippery and it's clear that you're both enjoying it then he can begin to thrust a little harder and faster. If I was going too deep or too hard she would sort of tap on my thigh which meant 'take it a bit' so I'd slow down or pull out for a minute before starting again when she was ready.

It really can be fun if you trust each other enough.

 

[gabriel16]

Throat fucking

Hi Lisabeth

I'd be glad to talk to you about this.

I love holding a lover's head and hair and fucking her mouth like it was her pussy. And love a girl who enjoys that.

Someone above was right about this having to be prepared and in the right moment, and her having to be turned on enough to enjoy it, etc.

G

 

[hangdawg]

I have a guy trying to get me interested in throat fucking. I have a pretty good understanding of how that happens but have never known anyone personally, as far as I know, who has done it. Just looking for some feedback from men who have done it to a woman, or women who have recieved from a man.

I rarely post on the site but I had to reply to yours as this is a weird coincidence. My wife will give me blow jobs, rarely to a cum shot, more as foreplay. But, she can't take me very far because of her gag reflex. She hasn't really said it out loud but I don't think she gets super into giving me blow jobs. It's more of a "he likes it so I do it" thing.
But, a couple weeks ago she was laying on the bed on her back and I was standing on the side of the bed. I told her to slide over so her head of off the side of the bed. So I slid my cock into her mouth expecting the usual minute long foreplay blow job.
Because her head was off the bed she couldn't really move her head to give me a blow job so I started moving like I was fucking her doggy style. At first she had her hand around my cock and was keeping me from going any deeper than usual. But, it didn't take long and she was pulling me further and further into her mouth. By the end I was almost deep throating her and fucking her mouth pretty hard.
After it was over she said that she really liked that and it turned her on alot. Haven't done it since because I want it to remain a bit mystical for awhile lol.
After I went online and found out it was called Throat Swab. I found a website that had animated videos and one of them is this.
From what I read from the comments on that site the throat in this position lines up making it easier to not gag and to take a cock deeper into the throat.
Hope this helps!

 

[Que]

I rarely post on the site but I had to reply to yours as this is a weird coincidence. My wife will give me blow jobs, rarely to a cum shot, more as foreplay. But, she can't take me very far because of her gag reflex. She hasn't really said it out loud but I don't think she gets super into giving me blow jobs. It's more of a "he likes it so I do it" thing.
But, a couple weeks ago she was laying on the bed on her back and I was standing on the side of the bed. I told her to slide over so her head of off the side of the bed. So I slid my cock into her mouth expecting the usual minute long foreplay blow job.
Because her head was off the bed she couldn't really move her head to give me a blow job so I started moving like I was fucking her doggy style. At first she had her hand around my cock and was keeping me from going any deeper than usual. But, it didn't take long and she was pulling me further and further into her mouth. By the end I was almost deep throating her and fucking her mouth pretty hard.
After it was over she said that she really liked that and it turned her on alot. Haven't done it since because I want it to remain a bit mystical for awhile lol.
After I went online and found out it was called Throat Swab. I found a website that had animated videos and one of them is this.
From what I read from the comments on that site the throat in this position lines up making it easier to not gag and to take a cock deeper into the throat.
Hope this helps!

I used to use this position with good results with my ex (who could also deepthroat and control her gag reflex pretty well)

 

[naturegirl97]

It is NOT for every girl. I'd suggest he takes it super slow with you. Kind of like anal, until you see where your gag reflex is. I've had friends who rushed into it and had more vomit than fun. Definitely, hang your head over the side of the bed and let him do it that way, not with you on your back and him on top of you. I'm a big fan of this position. I love when we're really into it and the guys balls are slapping against my forehead. such an erotic sound and feeling. Best of luck and let me know how it goes.

 

[irishpadraig]

My girlfriend finds it very easy and enjoyable to do either with her head off the edge of the bed like the other person mentioned or while 69ing with me on top so she can get her head back a little.
Obviously take your time with things and it may assist for you to be really turned on at the same time if you don't think that would be too distracting.

 

[tonguedancer]

I knew only one woman who could truly deep throat. It took her a bit of time to sort of work up to it and sometimes she'd either be on her knees playing with herself or we'd be 69'ing and she'd gradually work into a really horny state where she'd just go for it. Of the many women I've known, she was truly the biggest lover of sucking cock. I'm sure she'd have done 20 in a row and swallowed it all if she had the chance.

 

[LauraWilling]

There have been a couple of good suggestions here and several that just do not work. Laying on the bed is a good idea, but lay on your back, not your stomach! This aligns your mouth and throat as much as possible. Also when the man's cock enters your mouth, stick your tongue out as far as possible. This opens your throat more. Try and keep his cock from just going in all the way. You control is and slowly work it past your gag point and get your breathing in synch with his strokes once it is in your throat. It is somewhat hard to breath and just the stroking in and out wants to trigger the gag reflex.

This is not something anyone I have ever known was able to do with out gagging and sometimes throwing up the first few times. Including me, and I have swallowed a lot of them. Which reminds me of something I meant to mention above. If you can try and swallow as he enters your throat. This is something that takes practice. I would suggest you get a lifelike dildo (smaller one) and use it to practice with before hand. Make sure it cannot be fully swallowed. One with balls molded on it is good. Just so the base is much bigger than you could possible open your mouth.

In my early 20's, I was living in Los Angeles, in Burbank and a roommate of mine worked as a stunt woman for the movie studios. One of her "talents" was sword swallowing and she taught me how to swallow "things."

 

[nudeguy76]

There have been a couple of good suggestions here and several that just do not work. Laying on the bed is a good idea, but lay on your back, not your stomach! This aligns your mouth and throat as much as possible. Also when the man's cock enters your mouth, stick your tongue out as far as possible. This opens your throat more. Try and keep his cock from just going in all the way. You control is and slowly work it past your gag point and get your breathing in synch with his strokes once it is in your throat. It is somewhat hard to breath and just the stroking in and out wants to trigger the gag reflex.

This is not something anyone I have ever known was able to do with out gagging and sometimes throwing up the first few times. Including me, and I have swallowed a lot of them. Which reminds me of something I meant to mention above. If you can try and swallow as he enters your throat. This is something that takes practice. I would suggest you get a lifelike dildo (smaller one) and use it to practice with before hand. Make sure it cannot be fully swallowed. One with balls molded on it is good. Just so the base is much bigger than you could possible open your mouth.

In my early 20's, I was living in Los Angeles, in Burbank and a roommate of mine worked as a stunt woman for the movie studios. One of her "talents" was sword swallowing and she taught me how to swallow "things."

You are right about laying on your back. With your head hanging back over the edge of your mattress. But the best tip you mentioned is trying to swallow as you take his cock deeper into your mouth. When you cant take anymore, with your tongue flat under his shaft...swallow. you will be able to take more, feel him start to enter your throat. Take your time. You will most likely gag. Remove him from your mouth...catch your breath. And get that cock back into your mouth. Take your time. Explain to him how you want him deep in your throat. You will be able to swallow his stiff dick with some practice. He will reward you with a mouthful of warm ,slick, tasty cum. Do you have a tip to share on how to deep throat?

 

[LauraWilling]

Nudeguy, Doing it as I described, I have had guys balls on my nose and forehead. You can't get much deeper (throat) than that. And some have been extremely well endowed and I am a small woman.

 

[nudeguy76]

Nudeguy, Doing it as I described, I have had guys balls on my nose and forehead. You can't get much deeper (throat) than that. And some have been extremely well endowed and I am a small woman.

I will always love,after swallowing a well hung guy...."not many have deep throated my whole cock like you just did". How big is the biggest you have pleased?

 

[sterculius]

I LOVE giving blowjobs!!! And I love the wonderfully erotic sensation of having my throat completely stuffed with cock! The bigger the better. And I agree that being on my back on a bed with my head hanging off the side is a very good way to get throat fucked. What I especially like is the fact that I have very little control! He can hold onto my head and fuck my throat as hard and as deep as he likes!

 

[LauraWilling]

Nudeguy, the largest I ever swallowed, is hard to say, because I don't normally measure guys playing with me. But I know, my husband fully erect is an honest 7 inches and a little thicker than average, so based on this and being very familiar with his size, I would think about 9 or 10 inches. I've sucked bigger one, but was not asked to swallow them or the position didn't happen.

 

[literal]

I rarely post on the site but I had to reply to yours as this is a weird coincidence. My wife will give me blow jobs, rarely to a cum shot, more as foreplay. But, she can't take me very far because of her gag reflex. She hasn't really said it out loud but I don't think she gets super into giving me blow jobs. It's more of a "he likes it so I do it" thing.
But, a couple weeks ago she was laying on the bed on her back and I was standing on the side of the bed. I told her to slide over so her head of off the side of the bed. So I slid my cock into her mouth expecting the usual minute long foreplay blow job.
Because her head was off the bed she couldn't really move her head to give me a blow job so I started moving like I was fucking her doggy style. At first she had her hand around my cock and was keeping me from going any deeper than usual. But, it didn't take long and she was pulling me further and further into her mouth. By the end I was almost deep throating her and fucking her mouth pretty hard.
After it was over she said that she really liked that and it turned her on alot. Haven't done it since because I want it to remain a bit mystical for awhile lol.
After I went online and found out it was called Throat Swab. I found a website that had animated videos and one of them is this.
From what I read from the comments on that site the throat in this position lines up making it easier to not gag and to take a cock deeper into the throat.
Hope this helps!

Forbidden fruit and riding the north face are my favs

 

[nudeguy76]

Nudeguy, the largest I ever swallowed, is hard to say, because I don't normally measure guys playing with me. But I know, my husband fully erect is an honest 7 inches and a little thicker than average, so based on this and being very familiar with his size, I would think about 9 or 10 inches. I've sucked bigger one, but was not asked to swallow them or the position didn't happen.

I like how you said there is no real measuring...true! Biggest for me was 9. I was on my knees in front of him and gagged on each inch as i tried to take more. I wanted to please him and felt he was getting frustrated. I layed on my back, head hanging off his table. I was able to take him deep in my throat....thrust after thrust. We met up often after that first time !

 

[nudeguy76]

why?

I LOVE giving blowjobs!!! And I love the wonderfully erotic sensation of having my throat completely stuffed with cock! The bigger the better. And I agree that being on my back on a bed with my head hanging off the side is a very good way to get throat fucked. What I especially like is the fact that I have very little control! He can hold onto my head and fuck my throat as hard and as deep as he likes!

What turns you on about giving head to a guy? Why do you love it?

 

[sterculius]

What turns you on about giving head to a guy? Why do you love it?

I'm not exactly sure why it is that sucking cock excites me so much. I suspect it has something to do with the fact that I'm normally a take-charge and in-control sort of guy and becoming submissive and allowing myself to be "used" and sexually subjugated is a radical and welcome change of pace for me. The taboo nature of "being" a "cocksucker" also thrills me. For whatever reason, I just love the slutty way it makes me feel!! I'm extremely proud of my ability to become passive and control my gag reflex to allow another man to very aggressively fuck my throat until he ejaculates deep inside my throat. This is such an amazing turn on for me!! I have actually had an orgasm purely from being throat fucked like this!

 

[BradBigBrain]

Shutting off gag reflex...

I stumbled upon this.

 

[bluesky496]

I have a guy trying to get me interested in throat fucking. I have a pretty good understanding of how that happens but have never known anyone personally, as far as I know, who has done it. Just looking for some feedback from men who have done it to a woman, or women who have recieved from a man.

i have been throat fucked by a couple of guys , their cocks were average sized and after getting in to a suitable position i managed quite easily , i had to make sure my head was tipped well back and they seemed to enjoy themselves but i cant say i did that much although i was proud i had done it .

 

[rainsol]

Shutting off gag reflex...

I stumbled upon this.

Thanks for that, I have a huge gag reflex at the dentist. Will try that next tie he starts poking in my mouth.