I've been reduced to....

[Boxlicker101]

Re: But....but......but............

Isn't that why you're all HERE?
I mean, masturbate, of course, but with a little help in the fantasy department

All my illusions are shattered
I am truly alone

I have to agree with Huck on this. I write stories designed to help people get off by wanking or frigging, and I beat my own meat too.

I mean, what else is this site for?

 

[rikaaim]

My wife HATES that I masturbate. Now that I'm married she wants every desire I have to be filled by her. There is just one problem, she can't do everything I desire. She won't be with another girl, she won't do a lot of things that I would like to try. So, I have my imagination and masturbate to the things she won't/can't do. But that pisses her off so much.

 

[carsonshepherd]

My wife HATES that I masturbate. Now that I'm married she wants every desire I have to be filled by her. There is just one problem, she can't do everything I desire. She won't be with another girl, she won't do a lot of things that I would like to try. So, I have my imagination and masturbate to the things she won't/can't do. But that pisses her off so much.

Oh dear.

Of course, fortunately for you, your wife doesn't need to know every little detail of how you spend your time.

Does she now?

 

[rikaaim]

Oh dear.

Of course, fortunately for you, your wife doesn't need to know every little detail of how you spend your time.

Does she now?

I hide nothing from her and tell her every time. And every time my heart breaks because I disappointed her. It hurts me so much to have those needs and I want to go to her, but she just can't be another woman or even a man if I so desire. It just tears me up inside because I want nothing more than for her to be happy but I have my uncontrollable urges.

 

[SeaCat]

Yui,

I may have to try my hand at it again, if I have your permision to have your image in my mind while doing so? (Hmmmm, might be an idea here for a story.)

Cat

 

[minsue]

I hide nothing from her and tell her every time. And every time my heart breaks because I disappointed her.

There is such a thing as being too honest.

 

[rikaaim]

There is such a thing as being too honest.

Never in my book dear goosey. Never. If she doesn't know, I still do. And I tell her for me. I promised I would never hide anything. Promised to myself.

 

[BlackShanglan]

There is such a thing as being too honest.

Nah, I'm with the goose on this one. If you can't stop yourself, then you're just torturing her telling her. Either drop the habit or drop the announcements; otherwise it starts to look like you're taunting her with it or punishing for not fulfilling your fantasies.

The shower's there for a reason.

Shanglan

 

[Belegon]

Never in my book dear goosey. Never. If she doesn't know, I still do. And I tell her for me. I promised I would never hide anything. Promised to myself.

I actually agree with Min, but I also know that there is no way anyone can tell either of you what your particular too much is. The two of you will have to discover for yourselves...don't ever lie, you just don't have to give the detailed version all the time. You will find a balance eventually.

My wife does not know many things about me (mostly about the times before we met). If she asked, I would tell her. I would prefer she not ask about some things though....

 

[Boxlicker101]

I actually agree with Min, but I also know that there is no way anyone can tell either of you what your particular too much is. The two of you will have to discover for yourselves...don't ever lie, you just don't have to give the detailed version all the time. You will find a balance eventually.

My wife does not know many things about me (mostly about the times before we met). If she asked, I would tell her. I would prefer she not ask about some things though....

I have to agree with Goosey and Horsie and Belegon on this one. Don't lie about anything but you don't have to volunteer the info either. That is strictly my opinion, though. I have never even seen your moccasins, let alone walked a mile in them.

 

[robynwildchild]

oh yea..

why don't you tell me bout that.. eh..

 

[alyxen]

There is such a thing as being too honest.

Have to disagree with that...the only way for true happiness to be open and honest with yourself. And then to be just as open and honest with your SO..

Trying to hide will just lead to the eventuality of her finding out on her own. Then she has the added pain of thinking you don't trust her/lover her etc enough to share it with her.

 

[yui]

Yui,

I may have to try my hand at it again, if I have your permision to have your image in my mind while doing so? (Hmmmm, might be an idea here for a story.)

Cat

Dear Cat,



You have my permission as long as my image doesn't, at any time, say "sucky", "fucky" or "me love you long time."

Luck,

Yui

 

[SeaCat]

Dear Cat,



You have my permission as long as my image doesn't, at any time, say "sucky", "fucky" or "me love you long time."

Luck,

Yui

ROTFL

Yui,

I would never lower myself, or any other person by using those terms in one of my stories. I will make sure to send you the story before I try to post it, that way you can have final say on it.

Cat

 

[Bridget69]

I put my thoughts into writing and I masturbate.

 

[arienette]

Masturbation. Lots and lots of it.

 

[BlackShanglan]

Dear Cat,



You have my permission as long as my image doesn't, at any time, say "sucky", "fucky" or "me love you long time."

Luck,

Yui

Oh, please no. If I were an Asian woman, I would quite seriously castrate with a cheesegrater anyone who said those words or even looked like s/he was clearly thinking them.

I used to teach with a woman from Indian who was petite and attractive. She was also intelligent, charming, assertive, and about to de-nut the next man who asked her out on the date under the theory that Asian women were submissive and docile. Despite my shared distaste for that behavior, I rather pity the next one who tried it on her. It makes me wince just thinking of the likely repercussions.

Shanglan

 

[rikaaim]

I must report, seeing that my issue went on for a while, that my wife and I came to an understanding. She won't judge me. I'll continue to be honest. She'll try to understand. So, all is right in the marriage again. She knows she's my first, but sometimes, I just want to go solo. She doesn't get that, but she won't punish me for it anymore either. So, yay me.

 

[Lucifer_Carroll]

Oh, please no. If I were an Asian woman, I would quite seriously castrate with a cheesegrater anyone who said those words or even looked like s/he was clearly thinking them.

I used to teach with a woman from Indian who was petite and attractive. She was also intelligent, charming, assertive, and about to de-nut the next man who asked her out on the date under the theory that Asian women were submissive and docile. Despite my shared distaste for that behavior, I rather pity the next one who tried it on her. It makes me wince just thinking of the likely repercussions.

Shanglan

I used to have a great Asian friend who loved to toy with expectations. She would love to go up to the racists and misogynists and just go so far beyond them that they got uncomfortable. She was the anti-stereotypical Asian by American standards and the anti-stereotypical woman by American standards.

I think because of this, we became fast friends. Though the passing of time has forever separated us, I still know that she's somewhere safe running circles around someone who deserves it and having the time of her life doing it.

 

[she_is_my_addiction]

Fucking myself hard, with very specific fantasies running through my head.

 

[BlackShanglan]

Fucking myself hard, with very specific fantasies running through my head.

Admit it. They involve horsehair

Shanglan

 

[logophile]

Admit it. They involve horsehair

Shanglan

The best ones always do...

 

[Boxlicker101]

Oh, please no. If I were an Asian woman, I would quite seriously castrate with a cheesegrater anyone who said those words or even looked like s/he was clearly thinking them.

I used to teach with a woman from Indian who was petite and attractive. She was also intelligent, charming, assertive, and about to de-nut the next man who asked her out on the date under the theory that Asian women were submissive and docile. Despite my shared distaste for that behavior, I rather pity the next one who tried it on her. It makes me wince just thinking of the likely repercussions.

Shanglan

As the husband of an educated and intelligent Philippine woman who came to the US at the age of 40, I can say that is an absolutely false stereotype.

 

[BlackShanglan]

As the husband of an educated and intelligent Philippine woman who came to the US at the age of 40, I can say that is an absolutely false stereotype.

Yes, just a charming little crossroads of imperialism and patriarchy. Humanity is so ugly at times that ... well, I'm back to the Swift quotations. Bless him.

Shanglan

 

[curious2c]

When you've been ridiculously sex deprived...what have you been reduced to doing....

Overeating?
Watching music videos?
Calling a 900 number?
etc.

Why do you suppose I started writing erotic...hell...stroke stories? Heh...after more than two years...I had to do something or burst.