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Dear MissT:

Congratulations! As long as you're happy, that is the main thing.

I've never been married....but I've been in long-term relationships BORN IN THE BOWELS OF HELL.........so I know the liberating effect that it has once you move on. I also understand the feeling.....of unaccoplishment...of another thing that I couldn't make work - lots of opposing feelings do go on.

I, as others before me, opt for the flirting......

"Excuse me, Miss...I seem to have lost my phone number....can I have yours?"

And they say that you don't learn things when you've tended bar. Riiiiiight...... ;)

Congratulatory hugs,

Nigel
 
I am smiling!

AS I sit here and chew out the income tax preparers who told me my refund would be here today and are now saying it will be another week. Rent is due, phone bill needs paying, and some groceries need be purchase.

Ahhhh singledom! (Two incomes was rather nice :) )

However,

I am still smiling!
 
ROFL

Ball boy and Nigel!

I think it is almost time for another pick up line thread!


*snickers*


Thank you for your well wishes, Nigel.

My phone number?

For a price ! lol
 
MissTaken said:

Thank you for your well wishes, Nigel.

My phone number?

For a price ! lol
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I've got 7 bucks and some odd change.....and you're NOT getting into my laundry quarters jar....unless, during our rendezvous, you let me borrow your laundry room. Hmmmm.....I've never....hmmmm....spin cycle.....hmmmmm..... ;)

By the way....did it hurt?? You know...when you fell down from heaven?? :D

Nigel
 
Having been in your current situation before *ahem*, I know that congratulations are not exactly the best fit for the range of emotions you must be feeling. But since you invited them, I'll send mine along with all the others.

Keep on smilin', anyway. And you can consider this a flirtation, if you like.

;)

Good luck to you,
~H~
 
Take time for yourself

Enjoy your freedom, and explore yourself like you couldnt before.
You can now find your identity again and gain strength from it. Dont be afraid, use this time for it may not last long :)

Cheers and Good luck.
 
MissTaken said:
Yes, my divorce is final. I am single again.

You may congratulate me.
You may flirt with me.
You may ignore me.

It is up to you.

:)
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How about all of the above...EXCEPT the ignore part.;)

Congratulations on being free!!!!

Celebrate.........:)

:rose: :kiss: :rose:
 
MissTaken said:
Yes, my divorce is final. I am single again.

You may congratulate me.
You may flirt with me.
You may ignore me.

It is up to you.

:)
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Yeahhh!! for you!!! Congratulations! :)
 
We could start a club for divorcees.
One with laughter, and occassional
tears and frustration. :)

I am remarried but I so remember
the weird feeling of being single again.

:rose:
 
Yes, hameltsmachine, there certainly is a mixed bag of emotions. I suggested congratulations are in order as it is something we had both been waiting for and becasue it is ultimately a very good thing.

Starting fresh at my age is a bit awe inspiring in many respects.

Thank you all for the good wishes.

Now, I hope no one reading this thread thinks I am glorifying divorce. I certainly am not. No one goes into marraige thinking this is the outcome.

There is no euphoria. There is, however, relief.
 
Congrats Miss T, and warm hugs and perhaps a few tears along with it over the trials.

Hard to believe I was in your shoes almost a year ago now. Seems an eternity sometimes, and a split second others. Enjoy the freedom, as others have said. Take the lessons you've learned so far and use them to make yourself stronger!

Peace and happiness to you!
Drink deep,
mae
 
debbiexxx said:
We could start a club for divorcees.
One with laughter, and occassional
tears and frustration. :)

I am remarried but I so remember
the weird feeling of being single again.

:rose:
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I agree with you. I sooooooooooo remember that awkward feeling of "I am single again and have to learn how to date again" ................what a trial that was. Heck I am still dating and all (not remarried, yet) and it just blows my mind how the heck I "learned" it all over again and all the nuance's (sp?).

If it weren't for my sense of humor, well...........I will leave that to imagination, but let me say it might not have been pretty. :eek:
 
Well, I have certainly learned a lot of lessons.

I am learning how to flirt again *smirks*

I have learned a lot about sex *big smirks*

And......well I certainly have learned how not to enter into an marraige.
 
Aren't you the lucky one! Mine is just starting - he called tonight to say he is filing for divorce on the grounds of Adultry, so I have a long battle ahead!

I am just glad I have BasilDD to help me through it (and all my other Lit friends of course!)

:(
 
Chuckus said:


I agree with you. I sooooooooooo remember that awkward feeling of "I am single again and have to learn how to date again" ................what a trial that was. Heck I am still dating and all (not remarried, yet) and it just blows my mind how the heck I "learned" it all over again and all the nuance's (sp?).

If it weren't for my sense of humor, well...........I will leave that to imagination, but let me say it might not have been pretty. :eek:
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Chuckus this cracked me up! I laughed remembering the
funny dates I have had! The nerves etc.
A sense of humour is a great thing,
it helps in so many ways. :)
 
MissTaken said:
Yes, my divorce is final. I am single again.

You may congratulate me.
You may flirt with me.
You may ignore me.

It is up to you.

:)
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Congratulations on your new found freedom........I dont think Ive been on the board long enough to flirt with anyone.Good Luck!!!!!!
 
MissTaken said:
Thank you Jenny and Thumbs.

I am sure anyone who has been through this would also understand the conflictual emotions.

Yes, I am very relieved and excited. And then, a bit sad because of the enormity of the mistake I made.

And even though this is the best decision I ever made for myself and teh children, I certainly didn't get married planning for something like this.

Hmmmm

But yes! I am happy.

Thank you all.
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I do understand how you feel. Those conflicting emotions are natural. No matter how sure you are that the marraige needed to end , there is still that nagging voice in your head telling you that you have failed at one of the most important endeavors in your life. You have to refute that voice, accept that not everything is in your power to control, and, focus, as you are in this post, on the brighter future ahead.
Best wishes to you, from someone who has been there herself.
 
Love

I wish you love Miss T in whatever you choose to do. The end of one era and a new beginning. Be happy ;)





Wendy
 
Congratulations Miss Taken!

It's sad to see a marriage die but if it wasn't working then it's all for the best. Good luck with your newfound freedom. I hope you have a wonderful time.
 
My dear friend MissT,

Congrats on the ending of one chapter of your life and the beginning of the next. I have no doubt that this next stage will be all that you hope for. No one deserves it more.

A dozen roses and a bottle of champagne for a beautiful lady, a wonderful person, a loving mother, and one hell of a good friend. You are all of these and so much more

:rose: :kiss: :rose:
Js_g
 
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