Issues in the bedrom

[Aphro]

Wear a condom. There will be no "cross contamination" that way.

 

[Sugartitties]

In my experience the majority of guys or maybe two thirds won't go down unless specifically asked, and I think a lot of women don't ask either. Now I have the opposite problem and have a boyfriend that begs to go down on me lol

In regards to the OP, I don't like kissing after my boyfriend goes down on me, he has to brush his teeth quickly after or we don't kiss during sex, which is fine as we tend to end up in doggy style anyway. I'm very sensitive to smells so I don't like to smell or taste my own, unless I'm drunk, and I haven't had a drink for about a year and a half so it's been a while since I've done that.
I think most people do oral before intercourse anyway? But if you want to do it the other way then why not just have a shower together after sex and you can do the rest there?

I am very much the same way and my husband is very much like the OP, yet we have a sex life that is uniquely ours and very satisfying.

OP, you're allowed to be who you are and like what you like.

 

[someoneyouknow]

A quick follow up to your comment about what is "normal" sex. I can't remember the exact quote, but in the show CSI (the original, Vegas one) the lead character has to go to a house of ill repute as part of a murder investigation. However, this is not your standard brothel but one involving whips, chains, latex, and so on.

The Lady poses the question to him about what he thinks of her place as what happens there wouldn't be considered normal sexual behavior.

His reply is a quote from Proust to the effect, normal is what you sre willing to experience (go look up the quote to get the full meaning.

Essentially, whatever happens between consenting adults is normal. The fact that your mate shares your foot fetish is good. It means she's open go new ideas. Talk to her, let her know of your concerns and I'd be willing to bet your next paycheck she would very willing to help you along.

Communication, or lack thereof, is the main reason couples have problems. Talk to her. Be completely open and you'll be amazed at how things go.

 

[subwannabe]

I say dump her and find a girlfriend that doesn't suck cocks or want oral sex on herself. Problem solved.