Isolated Blurt Thread

[sophia jane]

I'm sitting with her on the couch, too.
It's like a vigil.

I think he seemed interested as well.
And it's possible that he is/was, and is just an idiot when it comes to this stuff.
Or it's possible that he was faking / being insincere.
Either way, he's about to lose out on the best thing that was ever offered to him.

You're nice. And I mean that in a good way, not just in a dismissive you're full of shit way (which is also what I mean).

I think the vigil is almost over. Tho I'll probably still kinda wonder tomorrow. Silence is never the right answer, in my opinion.

 

[Guest]

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[fieryjen]

I'm sitting with her on the couch, too.
It's like a vigil.

I think he seemed interested as well.
And it's possible that he is/was, and is just an idiot when it comes to this stuff.

That's entirely possible, and actually quite likely, from what I've learned about men.

Or it's possible that he was faking / being insincere.

If so, he's a very good faker. And a complete ass.

Either way, he's about to lose out on the best thing that was ever offered to him.

Damn right. I don't know exactly what the situation is with this waiting, but I can't help feeling quite nervous and upset myself now.

 

[sophia jane]

That's entirely possible, and actually quite likely, from what I've learned about men.
If so, he's a very good faker. And a complete ass.

Damn right. I don't know exactly what the situation is with this waiting, but I can't help feeling quite nervous and upset myself now.

You're sweet.
The basic overview: I was feeling a little uncertain about the state of our relationship. I sent a long, honest, and maybe a little...needy? email asking him for some reassurance.
That was yesterday. No contact at all since. And that makes today, literally, the first day since I've known him with no contact at all.
Kind of a tell, I think.

 

[MaeveoSliabh]

You're sweet.
The basic overview: I was feeling a little uncertain about the state of our relationship. I sent a long, honest, and maybe a little...needy? email asking him for some reassurance.
That was yesterday. No contact at all since. And that makes today, literally, the first day since I've known him with no contact at all.
Kind of a tell, I think.

He made need time to consider what was said, and what his response should be. He's a man. That's what they generally do.

 

[logophile]

He made need time to consider what was said, and what his response should be. He's a man. That's what they generally do.

He's had time.
He's being a pussy.

Period.

 

[MaeveoSliabh]

He's had time.
He's being a pussy.

Period.

Maybe. Or maybe he's being slow and careful.

 

[sophia jane]

He's had time.
He's being a pussy.

Period.

This is reason 5,683 that I love you.

 

[logophile]

This is reason 5,683 that I love you.

I love you, too.
You and me - we're right about this.

 

[MaeveoSliabh]

-unrelated- Well THAT's fucking welcoming...

-related- Maybe so. And if so, then... well... another will come. And if not, then be a bit forgiving.

 

[fieryjen]

You're sweet.
The basic overview: I was feeling a little uncertain about the state of our relationship. I sent a long, honest, and maybe a little...needy? email asking him for some reassurance.
That was yesterday. No contact at all since. And that makes today, literally, the first day since I've known him with no contact at all.
Kind of a tell, I think.

I do hope he just needs time. I have a bit of a flight reflex myself when I notice that someone is interested in me. It's weird.

But then again...

I don't want you to be unhappy.

 

[Guest]

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[sophia jane]

I do hope he just needs time. I have a bit of a flight reflex myself when I notice that someone is interested in me. It's weird.

But then again...

I don't want you to be unhappy.

Thanks. I'll update you if anything changes. I'm alternately pissed and sad, and I'm trying really, really hard not to start my old pattern of self-criticism.

I really liked him. Still like him. *sigh*

 

[OneLustyWench]

I have to BLURT this out

I'm straight, I'm married, I'm not into whips and chains and clothespegs...


beginning to feel like I don't belong here at all.

First, this posting isn't pointed at starrkers but to the several posts that are starting a trend . . . .


You know, some things are being said more than they should. Part of that I'm attributing to youth and excitement. I have no problems talking about my actions. Anything I've said about my actions, I'm OK with posting but I don't want others talking about what I might have said or done. I don't see too many of those posts, but yes, there are a few. But I do know a lot of what happened and what was discussed has not been posted on the boards. I know there weren't "orgies" as the naive will assume. Discretion wasn't the by-word but as anyone reading these boards will note, not every post is the truth. Flirting, teasing, etc. is going on rampantly. Why? People met, clicked and had fun. The newness and excitement are at a high now, don't worry, it will die down shortly. Or worse from posts like these, people will just take it underground.

My questions is why would you even start to question why you belong or wouldn't belong? A few postings are taking a BDSM turn. There is nothing wrong with that or people wanting to discuss newness. Sexuality in and of itself is wide and varied. You don't have to be into it to be curious and ask questions or talk about it. You don't have to participate in the conversation. I'm sorry but open expression of sexuality and emotions and life should be celebrated and not shut down with "I don't belong".

Lit is all about sharing sexual expression, about sexual freedom. I'm not into incest, animal or sci fi. I don't read those stories or go to those boards out of my own interest. But I also don't think I need to tell them to get their heads examined or you are sick. That's not up to me to judge them. To know the people behind the postings, talk to them, don't judge them.

If you look at the stories and the boards, BDSM, bi-sexuality and other items are posted to a lesser degree than "straight" postings/stories. So by your definition above and a couple of other posters, you "belong". We all belong but need to understand and embrace the diversity and inclusion of a place like Lit where you aren't ridiculed for lliking to be tied up. You aren't taunted because you like boys and girls.

I think we are all adults (or should at least have the age to be considered "mature") and can handle a few people talking about having fun.

 

[starrkers]

Didn't mean to get anyone's back up or start a storm.

Seems I was right. Sorry Bel, Crim. Guess I should take a time out.

 

[damppanties]

That was interesting. But I can't help feeling sad that I had to wait all these years for it.

 

[Chantilyvamp]

My new boots have arrived

 

[damppanties]

My new boots have arrived

New av? *hopes*

 

[Chantilyvamp]

New av? *hopes*

i'll try and do a photo later *shakes toast crumbs out of keyboard*.

 

[S-Des]

My new boots have arrived

I'm very happy to see you cheery (and even more happy to be able to look at your ass and not feel bad about it ).

To Starkers...You totally belong. I'm single, straight, and have only participated in one "daring" sexual relationship in my life. It might never happen again because for me it's about the person (so since I dated someone into things that were new for me, I was happy to try them). People being a little overly flirty and exaggerating events over the weekend shouldn't bother anyone.

To Wenchie...I agree 100%. I've tried to be careful, so hope I'm not guilty of letting anything private slip (about anyone). If so, I apologize in advance. Keeping confidences is very big in my life.

 

[Chantilyvamp]

As promised the boots...

I'll do an av later when I have more time, but here you go dampy

http://i193.photobucket.com/albums/z283/chantilyvamp/boots2.jpg

http://i193.photobucket.com/albums/z283/chantilyvamp/boots3.jpg

 

[S-Des]

I'll do an av later when I have more time, but here you go dampy

Oh trust me, it's not just Dampy appreciating it.

 

[Guest]

Oh trust me, it's not just Dampy appreciating it.

i'll second that

 

[sophia jane]

I have to keep telling myself that this is for the best, that I won't settle anymore for someone who can't meet my needs, that this is clearly a sign that your emotional availability was not what I want.
But it's hard because I really thought you were what I was looking for. And it's hard not to blame myself or find some fault in me that made you not interested. It's hard not to feel like it's my inadequacy here instead of yours.

I hope I make it through the day in tact.

 

[ABSTRUSE]

I wonder if next week the garbage men can get the garbage actually inside the truck.