Roxanne Appleby said:Define "selfish."
Doing more for others than what I'm currently doing. Not letting my friends and family down because I'm not sharing my time as much as I could. Should? I dunno.
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Roxanne Appleby said:Define "selfish."
McKenna said:Doing more for others than what I'm currently doing. Not letting my friends and family down because I'm not sharing my time as much as I could. Should? I dunno.
If it makes you happy, then it's not selfish. If it causes you to sacrifice your own happiness, then not doing it isn't selfish, but is self defense, since your purpose in life is your own happiness. Of course "happiness" is a complex amalgam of many things, and by no means is just instant gratification. It requires living a virtuous life, and knowing how to balance things such as being a good friend/family member vs. being taken advantage of, or sacrificing your own happiness. Wisdom is making good judgements as to where that balance lies.McKenna said:Doing more for others than what I'm currently doing. Not letting my friends and family down because I'm not sharing my time as much as I could. Should? I dunno.

...suck.Nirvanadragones said:Timezones . . .
It aches without Her.cloudy said:...suck.
what are you doing out of bed, young lady? *arches eyebrow*
Nirvanadragones said:It aches without Her.

MagicaPractica said:*smack, smack, smack* This cloaking device keeps turning on by itself.![]()
cloudy said:pssst....I see you.
RedHairedandFriendly said:Yeah, that's right, go away. . . I don't want to cyber fuck you. Got that? Thank you. Don't let the IM hit you on the way out. . .*sigh* Idiots have a bad habit of breathing.

I haven't gotten the "asl" question in a long time. lol. I almost miss them compared to the "colorful" crap I've gotten lately.cloudy said:I actually got an "asl?" one today.
I laughed then said, "you must be very young."![]()
cloudy said:I actually got an "asl?" one today.
I laughed then said, "you must be very young."![]()
RedHairedandFriendly said:I haven't gotten the "asl" question in a long time. lol. I almost miss them compared to the "colorful" crap I've gotten lately.
babie u r hot. i so want 2 fck u.
Goldie Munro said:I hate the asl question - its so shallow! (maybe just me!)

MagicaPractica said:I don't know if it's sleep deprivation but, I can't think what in the hell "asl" would stand for.![]()
cloudy said:age/sex/location
Guess I don't get that cause it's pretty well answered in my profile.I got one today from a 20 year old... he was very articulate, even telling me he knew I didn't have any interests in young men his age. lol... I gave him the link to my "Worst/Best IM/PM thread" telling him that he could post there.cloudy said:even after he told me he was 20, and I told him I had a daughter older than he was, he still said, "so are ur kids there?"
*snort*
let me make this very clear: I have a man, thank you, and no, I don't want to cyber.
RedHairedandFriendly said:I got one today from a 20 year old... he was very articulate, even telling me he knew I didn't have any interests in young men his age. lol... I gave him the link to my "Worst/Best IM/PM thread" telling him that he could post there.
Lee Chambers said:u r so hot, ldy r u rd hed 4 rlz? u wnt 2 trd pics?
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RedHairedandFriendly said:LMAO! Thanks. *snickers* You wrote that out very well. Kinda scared of ya now.![]()
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*chuckles*Lee Chambers said:Mwuhaha then my quota for evil for the evening has been filled.![]()
