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Where did you go to, anyway?scheherazade_79 said:I noticed, KendoWhere did you go to, anyway?
Isolated blurt - something odd has happened to the cast of the L Word in the second series. Their faces have all changed shape, and suddenly Shane has hobbit ears.
kendo1 said:I turned up as an alt and then came back and when I looked I hadn't so I had to go and do it again.
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...and then it did and I came back again.
Hence the 'Oops!'
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Seconded. I'm going to do do something non-traditional for Christmas, like sleeping through it.carsonshepherd said:No more family get-togethers, mine or anyone else's, until Christmas please.
sophia jane said:a blurt you can all feel free to ignore. I just have things that need saying and this is as good a place as any.
I think I lost a friend, a good one, and it was through neglect. No drama, just busy lives and neglect. I'm sad about it, but it occured to me today: I didn't fight harder to keep in touch because I didn't think I was worth the effort for my friend. And that makes me pretty sad, too.
And the other thing that has been nagging at me for a long time: I wish I could be a less nice person. I wish I weren't the kind of person who does so much for everyone else, the kind of person who is afraid to ask for anything from anyone, the kind of person who analyzes everything and sees, in the end, that I'm lacking. But I am that person, and so everyday I live with my insecurities, my baggage, my niceness. I live with the fact that I'm constantly trying to earn approval and love, even though I know that love can't be earned, isn't earned, will never be earned. And so I give and I do, and at the end of everyday I know that I've failed because it's an impossibility, but I don't know how to be any different.
I'd like to be different, though. A whole different person. Unfortunately, it doesn't work like that.
Too bad.

My name is Roxanne Appleby and I approve of this post, this poster, and the person to whom this poster is responding.Skip1934a said:I couldn't ignore this. You don't need to do anything to 'earn' approval. Every single person on this forum, male and female, 'approve' of you. You are a wonderful person. Don't let your thoughts bring you down. As for the friend you feel you've lost, all you can do is try to restore it if it's that important to you. Life is too short not to. If you ever need to talk in private to a sympathetic listener, PM me. I'll listen, and I NEVER judge, nor do I divulge what is said in private.![]()


Roxanne Appleby said:My name is Roxanne Appleby and I approve of this post, this poster, and the person to whom this poster is responding.![]()
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im in the process of looking at this scenario. please dont worry about it for now. so many other things going on.lucky-E-leven said:I wonder when I'll get around to putting up the Christmas lights this year.

I'm not worrying about it. Just wondering.vella_ms said:im in the process of looking at this scenario. please dont worry about it for now. so many other things going on.
i love you
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But I really don't want to hire someone else to do it.