Isolated Blurt Thread

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rgraham666 said:
I ask myself, clean break? Or less exposure?

Oh, stop it! Why in the world would you want less of the only place (per your own assertion) that you've been able to be yourself without reservation? Whatever's bugging you, let go of it. Air it out, if necessary. You're loved here & if you don't KNOW that in the depths of your soul by now, then nothing anyone here can do or say is gonna convince you otherwise.

So there! :p
 
impressive said:
Oh, stop it! Why in the world would you want less of the only place (per your own assertion) that you've been able to be yourself without reservation? Whatever's bugging you, let go of it. Air it out, if necessary. You're loved here & if you don't KNOW that in the depths of your soul by now, then nothing anyone here can do or say is gonna convince you otherwise.

So there! :p

Thank You. You put my feelings so much more eloquently.
 
Sophia, I don't know what to say, so I'll just hug instead. :heart:

Rora? You know who your friends are on here. Really. :kiss:
 
matriarch said:
Sophia, I don't know what to say, so I'll just hug instead. :heart:

Rora? You know who your friends are on here. Really. :kiss:
listen to matski ie: matvader...she knows all
*(the force is wiff you)
 
SJ -you'll make it through. take each day as it comes love, you can do it just one day at a time *hugs*

Aurora *hugs* I'm your friend -I'm around if you want to chat, okay?

vella -pick up an old favourite -thats just as good as a new book :)

AF -sorry I haven't a clue *L*

My Blurt : relieved. I managed to get it written -at last!!!!
 
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sophia jane said:
I just don't think I can do it anymore.

The alternative is unacceptable. You CAN and you WILL do it -- for as long as your kids need it. It won't be easy, of course, but I have confidence in you.
 
sophia jane said:
I really just don't think I can. I'm falling apart and I know I'm being a horrible mother.
And as the ex says I'm also being "irrational" and "blowing things out of proportion."

In that case, have yourself a nervous breakdown. (I'm not being facetious, here.)

Of course, while that WILL give you a few days' vacation & probably some drugs, it will also either: (a) jeopardize any potential custody case; (b) open your exes eyes to the effects his actions are having; or (c) both. It's a risk.
 
That's a good step, if it is right.

One of the joys of being a parent is realising that when you get mad at them, more often than not it's not the kid's fault. It's because we are upset.

Take a step back and consider the situation anew.
Don't be afraid to talk to them

Your kids' love for you is a special thing. Cherish it. :heart:

Ken
 
Evil alpaca has not been seen for about a month.
Shanglan has disappeared. (Probably gone to OZ)


Is something eating our four legged friends? :confused:
 
I must go.
Tiredness raises its ugly head.

Night peeps. Sweet dreams when they come.

Ken
 
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