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McKenna said:
I took my wedding band off today. The scary thing is, I meant it. The feeling of wanting out has finally outweighed the feeling of fear. And as much as I care about Mr. McKenna, I'll not settle for anything less than a relationship where two people are equally committed to making a relationship work, a relationship based off of similar needs, wants, and life-goals. I'm done letting circumstances define who I am. I'm done being afraid. I'm done settling for anything less than what I truly want.

So watch out world, here I come.

I wish you all the best in the entire world McK...
hard thing...I know.

Be strong baby!
:kiss:
 
McKenna said:
I've been thinking about what keeps people in situations that are bad for them. For instance, what keeps a woman in an abusive relationship, or a man in a relationship devoid of all emotion. What keeps people paralyzed in the past instead of moving forward with their lives?

I've been wondering what keeps me where I am and the answer I've come up with is fear. Fear keeps people complacent, fear of the unknown.

It's much easier to deal with a familiar realty --even if it is an unpleasant reality-- than it is to face an unknown future. It's much easier to wallow in comforting feelings of depression, hunger, need, melancholy and want than it is to face a reality where all things are possible, but nothing is guaranteed. Much easier to stay where the day-to-day is guaranteed, even if it is unfulfilling.

Well I say bollocks.

I might not be there just quite yet, but I'm getting there. I'm going to face that fear and I'm going to step out into the unknown. A leap of faith. A leap of hope. A leap that says I'm damned well worth something more, something different, something more fulfilling.

I took my wedding band off today. The scary thing is, I meant it. The feeling of wanting out has finally outweighed the feeling of fear. And as much as I care about Mr. McKenna, I'll not settle for anything less than a relationship where two people are equally committed to making a relationship work, a relationship based off of similar needs, wants, and life-goals. I'm done letting circumstances define who I am. I'm done being afraid. I'm done settling for anything less than what I truly want.

So watch out world, here I come.

All the best for you, McKenna.

I'm sure this was not an easy decision.

Be strong. Find happiness. :rose:
 
So the fricken tree is up and not enough lights....which means a trip to the store again. At least they are on sale.
Still have shopping to do and I hate the thoughts of going out. I want to start making cookies but I know I'll eat most of them before Christmas.
Have packages to send out and cards.
Now I just need motivation. :rolleyes:
 
Blackie Malone said:
So the fricken tree is up and not enough lights....which means a trip to the store again. At least they are on sale.
Still have shopping to do and I hate the thoughts of going out. I want to start making cookies but I know I'll eat most of them before Christmas.
Have packages to send out and cards.
Now I just need motivation. :rolleyes:

Go buy the fucking lights so you can come home and make cookies. :)

( Hint- If you eat them before Christmas, it's a good excuse to make more)
 
sophia jane said:
Go buy the fucking lights so you can come home and make cookies. :)

( Hint- If you eat them before Christmas, it's a good excuse to make more)
Wow...You're a powerful motivator. I think I should go out into the cold cruel world now.
I'll pick up the lights before a major anxiety attack sets in...then contemplate what kind of cookies to make as I try desperately to clear counter space. I'll use dymamite.
 
Blackie Malone said:
Wow...You're a powerful motivator. I think I should go out into the cold cruel world now.
I'll pick up the lights before a major anxiety attack sets in...then contemplate what kind of cookies to make as I try desperately to clear counter space. I'll use dymamite.
At least you have counter space.
 
Blackie Malone said:
Good idea....maybe Ill set the iguana loose too!!!
Unless it's a large iguana, you might want to watch and make sure the rats and the seagulls don't eat him.

On another note, I want a dog for Christmas.
 
sophia jane said:
Unless it's a large iguana, you might want to watch and make sure the rats and the seagulls don't eat him.

On another note, I want a dog for Christmas.
He's about 3ft long and can whip his tail like Zorro. I love him.

I would give you a puppy but I've been fixed and can't have anymore litters.
 
Blackie Malone said:
He's about 3ft long and can whip his tail like Zorro. I love him.

I would give you a puppy but I've been fixed and can't have anymore litters.

My kids would love that. We have a rat named Wesley and I hate him.
 
sophia jane said:
My kids would love that. We have a rat named Wesley and I hate him.
He's funny because I can pet him like a cat. I can't wait until I can get him used to walking outside his tank. I'm going to take him every where with me, llike those purse dogs.

Want a snake, I have three???
 
Blackie Malone said:
He's funny because I can pet him like a cat. I can't wait until I can get him used to walking outside his tank. I'm going to take him every where with me, llike those purse dogs.

Want a snake, I have three???
Um, no. And I have to be nice to Wesley because he survived the hurricane. Besides, he's going to live with the ex in January. :nana: :nana:

But I really do need a dog for company.
 
sophia jane said:
Um, no. And I have to be nice to Wesley because he survived the hurricane. Besides, he's going to live with the ex in January. :nana: :nana:

But I really do need a dog for company.


Rough rough
 
sophia jane said:
Um, no. And I have to be nice to Wesley because he survived the hurricane. Besides, he's going to live with the ex in January. :nana: :nana:

But I really do need a dog for company.
Lots of dogs are in need of adoption, take the kids to the Humane society and pick one out. :rose:
 
Blackie Malone said:
Lots of dogs are in need of adoption, take the kids to the Humane society and pick one out. :rose:
Yep. Ex works at Petsmart so I can go thru the adoption agency thru them. Lifeforce or Humane Society. I don't know how my 2 yr old would do with one, tho.
 
impressive said:
I don't wanna go out in the cold!
You don't want to stepout into the wind and feel the chill creep in through the layers, like a lover who won't listen to your whispered "no", but slides his icy fingers in to stiffen your nipples and...ooops. Sorry, brandy in my coffee, blah blah excuse excuse....
 
Belegon said:
You don't want to stepout into the wind and feel the chill creep in through the layers, like a lover who won't listen to your whispered "no", but slides his icy fingers in to stiffen your nipples and...ooops. Sorry, brandy in my coffee, blah blah excuse excuse....


And just when have you known me to whisper "no" ???


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