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sophia jane said:
Today, it also fell on me to find a way to pay for ex's new apartment, which he'll move into January 1st.

My rant: Why is it so many ex's(men) con their ex-spouse(women) into thinking they(women) must pay for their(men) apartment. Yes he is the father of the children you had together. Yes you want him out of the house. He works, let him pay for the fucking apartment and kick his ass out on the street where he now belongs for trying to con you into paying his way in the world.

You have enough problems without him expecting a handout from you. He is obligated to help support the children. You are not obligated to support his sorry excuse for an ass.

Sorry, I just really hate hearing things like this. I would never expect my wife to support me in any manner after we had divorced. Luckly for us we don't have to face that challenge. I would rather live in the street than to depend on her. I just don't get it?!?

Rant over.
 
zeb1094 said:
My rant: Why is it so many ex's(men) con their ex-spouse(women) into thinking they(women) must pay for their(men) apartment. Yes he is the father of the children you had together. Yes you want him out of the house. He works, let him pay for the fucking apartment and kick his ass out on the street where he now belongs for trying to con you into paying his way in the world.

You have enough problems without him expecting a handout from you. He is obligated to help support the children. You are not obligated to support his sorry excuse for an ass.

Sorry, I just really hate hearing things like this. I would never expect my wife to support me in any manner after we had divorced. Luckly for us we don't have to face that challenge. I would rather live in the street than to depend on her. I just don't get it?!?

Rant over.

I agree with you, and I should have phrased what I said better. :eek: It's my job, at this point, to juggle the finances. I'm not paying for anything because he actually completely supports me and kids.
 
sophia jane said:
I agree with you, and I should have phrased what I said better. :eek: It's my job, at this point, to juggle the finances. I'm not paying for anything because he actually completely supports me and kids.
Ok, nevermind. :kiss: :rose: :heart: *hugs*
 
First and formost I am not grumpy, I just don't like people.

If one more person says Bah-humbug to me I'm going to stab them. I am a quiet person, that means I am not going to sing christmas carols while waiting in line or wish everyone I see a happy holiday.

I am not a scrooge or a grump, now leave me alone before I get out my trench coat.
 
carsonshepherd said:
Ahh, you don't know what you're missing... :catroar:

:D

Yes, I do. A penis. I'm only built like a boy. :rolleyes:

That's the pisser in our forbidden lurve. :D
 
Completely Isolated Blurt Unrelated to Anyone Else's Blurt

I've been thinking about what keeps people in situations that are bad for them. For instance, what keeps a woman in an abusive relationship, or a man in a relationship devoid of all emotion. What keeps people paralyzed in the past instead of moving forward with their lives?

I've been wondering what keeps me where I am and the answer I've come up with is fear. Fear keeps people complacent, fear of the unknown.

It's much easier to deal with a familiar realty --even if it is an unpleasant reality-- than it is to face an unknown future. It's much easier to wallow in comforting feelings of depression, hunger, need, melancholy and want than it is to face a reality where all things are possible, but nothing is guaranteed. Much easier to stay where the day-to-day is guaranteed, even if it is unfulfilling.

Well I say bollocks.

I might not be there just quite yet, but I'm getting there. I'm going to face that fear and I'm going to step out into the unknown. A leap of faith. A leap of hope. A leap that says I'm damned well worth something more, something different, something more fulfilling.

I took my wedding band off today. The scary thing is, I meant it. The feeling of wanting out has finally outweighed the feeling of fear. And as much as I care about Mr. McKenna, I'll not settle for anything less than a relationship where two people are equally committed to making a relationship work, a relationship based off of similar needs, wants, and life-goals. I'm done letting circumstances define who I am. I'm done being afraid. I'm done settling for anything less than what I truly want.

So watch out world, here I come.
 
McKenna said:
I've been thinking about what keeps people in situations that are bad for them. For instance, what keeps a woman in an abusive relationship, or a man in a relationship devoid of all emotion. What keeps people paralyzed in the past instead of moving forward with their lives?

I've been wondering what keeps me where I am and the answer I've come up with is fear. Fear keeps people complacent, fear of the unknown.

It's much easier to deal with a familiar realty --even if it is an unpleasant reality-- than it is to face an unknown future. It's much easier to wallow in comforting feelings of depression, hunger, need, melancholy and want than it is to face a reality where all things are possible, but nothing is guaranteed. Much easier to stay where the day-to-day is guaranteed, even if it is unfulfilling.

Well I say bollocks.

I might not be there just quite yet, but I'm getting there. I'm going to face that fear and I'm going to step out into the unknown. A leap of faith. A leap of hope. A leap that says I'm damned well worth something more, something different, something more fulfilling.

I took my wedding band off today. The scary thing is, I meant it. The feeling of wanting out has finally outweighed the feeling of fear. And as much as I care about Mr. McKenna, I'll not settle for anything less than a relationship where two people are equally committed to making a relationship work, a relationship based off of similar needs, wants, and life-goals. I'm done letting circumstances define who I am. I'm done being afraid. I'm done settling for anything less than what I truly want.

So watch out world, here I come.
You go girl. I'm proud of you. :rose:
 
yui blurt.....

I dunno, still needs work.... :(



Eyes and soul
Shaded by dark hair
Flows across her face
Smiling an enigma

Restrained by culture
And silk strands
Arms bound together
Ends held firmly in her grasp

Nude body flows gracefully
Into complex contortion
For her pleasure
Or just a static display

Of sensual delight
Offered in Oriental style
Colored by Western dreams
Feminine by any measure

Provocative with her innocence
Lascivious in her decadence
Offering of herself selflessly
To any and all

Except whom she is
What she desires
With shielded
Downcast eyes
 
McKenna said:
I've been thinking about what keeps people in situations that are bad for them. For instance, what keeps a woman in an abusive relationship, or a man in a relationship devoid of all emotion. What keeps people paralyzed in the past instead of moving forward with their lives?

I've been wondering what keeps me where I am and the answer I've come up with is fear. Fear keeps people complacent, fear of the unknown.

It's much easier to deal with a familiar realty --even if it is an unpleasant reality-- than it is to face an unknown future. It's much easier to wallow in comforting feelings of depression, hunger, need, melancholy and want than it is to face a reality where all things are possible, but nothing is guaranteed. Much easier to stay where the day-to-day is guaranteed, even if it is unfulfilling.

Well I say bollocks.

I might not be there just quite yet, but I'm getting there. I'm going to face that fear and I'm going to step out into the unknown. A leap of faith. A leap of hope. A leap that says I'm damned well worth something more, something different, something more fulfilling.

I took my wedding band off today. The scary thing is, I meant it. The feeling of wanting out has finally outweighed the feeling of fear. And as much as I care about Mr. McKenna, I'll not settle for anything less than a relationship where two people are equally committed to making a relationship work, a relationship based off of similar needs, wants, and life-goals. I'm done letting circumstances define who I am. I'm done being afraid. I'm done settling for anything less than what I truly want.

So watch out world, here I come.

Good for you Beautiful. :rose: You deserve the very best life can give and if you're not getting it where you are then it's time to move on. The first step is always the hardest and by making your decision to move on you've taken that first step. I'm proud of you. :heart:
 
McKenna said:
Well I say bollocks.

I might not be there just quite yet, but I'm getting there. I'm going to face that fear and I'm going to step out into the unknown. A leap of faith. A leap of hope. A leap that says I'm damned well worth something more, something different, something more fulfilling.

I took my wedding band off today. The scary thing is, I meant it. The feeling of wanting out has finally outweighed the feeling of fear. And as much as I care about Mr. McKenna, I'll not settle for anything less than a relationship where two people are equally committed to making a relationship work, a relationship based off of similar needs, wants, and life-goals. I'm done letting circumstances define who I am. I'm done being afraid. I'm done settling for anything less than what I truly want.

So watch out world, here I come.
Good on you, McKenna. :rose: That's why my ex and I decided to split and even tho my life is a huge pain in the ass at the moment, it was worth it to walk away from an easy reality that made us both unhappy.
 
The_Fool said:
yui blurt.....

I dunno, still needs work.... :(



Eyes and soul
Shaded by dark hair
Flows across her face
Smiling an enigma

Restrained by culture
And silk strands
Arms bound together
Ends held firmly in her grasp

Nude body flows gracefully
Into complex contortion
For her pleasure
Or just a static display

Of sensual delight
Offered in Oriental style
Colored by Western dreams
Feminine by any measure

Provocative with her innocence
Lascivious in her decadence
Offering of herself selflessly
To any and all

Except whom she is
What she desires
With shielded
Downcast eyes


Heavy on the "her" and "she," dear. Otherwise, vintage Fool-ishness. :kiss:
 
McKenna said:
I've been thinking about what keeps people in situations that are bad for them. For instance, what keeps a woman in an abusive relationship, or a man in a relationship devoid of all emotion. What keeps people paralyzed in the past instead of moving forward with their lives?

I've been wondering what keeps me where I am and the answer I've come up with is fear. Fear keeps people complacent, fear of the unknown.

It's much easier to deal with a familiar realty --even if it is an unpleasant reality-- than it is to face an unknown future. It's much easier to wallow in comforting feelings of depression, hunger, need, melancholy and want than it is to face a reality where all things are possible, but nothing is guaranteed. Much easier to stay where the day-to-day is guaranteed, even if it is unfulfilling.

Well I say bollocks.

I might not be there just quite yet, but I'm getting there. I'm going to face that fear and I'm going to step out into the unknown. A leap of faith. A leap of hope. A leap that says I'm damned well worth something more, something different, something more fulfilling.

I took my wedding band off today. The scary thing is, I meant it. The feeling of wanting out has finally outweighed the feeling of fear. And as much as I care about Mr. McKenna, I'll not settle for anything less than a relationship where two people are equally committed to making a relationship work, a relationship based off of similar needs, wants, and life-goals. I'm done letting circumstances define who I am. I'm done being afraid. I'm done settling for anything less than what I truly want.

So watch out world, here I come.


Three rules for change.

1. An "uneasiness" with the current situation.
2. A vision of something better.
3. A perceived method of getting there.



Best of luck and know that you have friends to help you get there.
 
impressive said:
Heavy on the "her" and "she," dear. Otherwise, vintage Fool-ishness. :kiss:


I'll fix it yet. yui is a hard one for some reason..... :p

Thanks for the read Imp.... :rose:
 
McKenna said:
I've been thinking about what keeps people in situations that are bad for them. For instance, what keeps a woman in an abusive relationship, or a man in a relationship devoid of all emotion. What keeps people paralyzed in the past instead of moving forward with their lives?

I've been wondering what keeps me where I am and the answer I've come up with is fear. Fear keeps people complacent, fear of the unknown.

It's much easier to deal with a familiar realty --even if it is an unpleasant reality-- than it is to face an unknown future. It's much easier to wallow in comforting feelings of depression, hunger, need, melancholy and want than it is to face a reality where all things are possible, but nothing is guaranteed. Much easier to stay where the day-to-day is guaranteed, even if it is unfulfilling.

Well I say bollocks.

I might not be there just quite yet, but I'm getting there. I'm going to face that fear and I'm going to step out into the unknown. A leap of faith. A leap of hope. A leap that says I'm damned well worth something more, something different, something more fulfilling.

I took my wedding band off today. The scary thing is, I meant it. The feeling of wanting out has finally outweighed the feeling of fear. And as much as I care about Mr. McKenna, I'll not settle for anything less than a relationship where two people are equally committed to making a relationship work, a relationship based off of similar needs, wants, and life-goals. I'm done letting circumstances define who I am. I'm done being afraid. I'm done settling for anything less than what I truly want.

So watch out world, here I come.

Peace and courage, McK. :rose:

The_Fool said:
yui blurt.....

I dunno, still needs work.... :(



Eyes and soul
Shaded by dark hair
Flows across her face
Smiling an enigma

Restrained by culture
And silk strands
Arms bound together
Ends held firmly in her grasp

Nude body flows gracefully
Into complex contortion
For her pleasure
Or just a static display

Of sensual delight
Offered in Oriental style
Colored by Western dreams
Feminine by any measure

Provocative with her innocence
Lascivious in her decadence
Offering of herself selflessly
To any and all

Except whom she is
What she desires
With shielded
Downcast eyes
Oh! Oy! If I were only worthy of your lovely words, Fool. :rose: In case I haven't told you lately; I love your words. :heart:
The_Fool said:
I'll fix it yet. yui is a hard one for some reason..... :p

Thanks for the read Imp.... :rose:
Hard? Me? I'm, like, the international spokes girl for fluffy.

One day I aspire to be worthy of your time and your words, Fool. One day, I will be so much more than that.
 
What affords greatest pleasure is also capable of greatest dissapointment.

You humans. Rum little beggars.
 
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