Isn't just polite?

Zamdrist

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1. To answer an unsolicited PM.

2. Answer back an IM?

3. Reply to an e-mail?

Isn't?

Yeah, some people are freaky, say freaky shit...but otherwise, it's just plain RUDE not to answer! I'm not having a fun night really, and I was so looking forward to this weekend.

Blah.
 
I always answer all my emails, even if its just a short note saying that I'm not interested or don't really have time to write now..its only polite.

Maybe she/he hasn't recieved the emails?
 
I'm not trying to stalk you, Zamdrist...it's all Barbie. You don't write, you don't call. Talk about rude...
 
I take it by each P.M. if it warrants an answer or not, or if the person is just telling me something.
 
Thanks Zam!

This thread made me check my pm box and lit hasn't been sending me those cute little pop up notifications as it should be.

I nearly didn't reply to a pm ... :)
 
Private Vasquez said:
I'm not trying to stalk you, Zamdrist...it's all Barbie. You don't write, you don't call. Talk about rude...

I so dig brunettes.
 
Could be a scheduling problem

Many of my best Lit friends post during the day and I can't really until the night. Maybe give it a little more time? Sorry you're down.
 
Nah, some of those emails are just crap. PPL who send me chain letters get ignored....I answer my pms tho....I don't get many so I get excited when I get one...hey...that made me sad...:) ....there we go...
 
OpposingBalance said:
I read em all.
Whether I answer them depends on the contents of said PM…

If it isn't sleazy then it's just rude to not answer back IMHO.

But that's your right not to answer.
 
MissTaken said:
Thanks Zam!

This thread made me check my pm box and lit hasn't been sending me those cute little pop up notifications as it should be.

I nearly didn't reply to a pm ... :)
Why does it do that sometimes? I pop in thinking to read a bit, I post here, there, next thing you know it's been 2 hours, and I realize I should check and lo and behold there's a PM in there getting stale.... so, Mr Greek Gimp, what's up with this technology, anywhat?
 
'least you get PM's/emails/IM's....
I just get spam...or nothing most of the time....HELL if i blocked all the spam my account might die from no messages!
 
Almost all of my PMs will be replied too if I can say anything at all. I also always answer IMs too. E-mail is different, I get a lot of crap e-mail, but if it sounds like it's from an actual person I will respond.
 
Silverluna said:
'least you get PM's/emails/IM's....
I just get spam...or nothing most of the time....HELL if i blocked all the spam my account might die from no messages!

I think you've got it the wrong way around. No one is answering me.

Edited to say: Well, OK, not everyone...but you get my drift.
 
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I always answer PM's and IM's...E-mail too if it isn't spam or those damned chain-letters.
 
Zamdrist said:
1. To answer an unsolicited PM.

2. Answer back an IM?

3. Reply to an e-mail?

Isn't?

Yeah, some people are freaky, say freaky shit...but otherwise, it's just plain RUDE not to answer! I'm not having a fun night really, and I was so looking forward to this weekend.

Blah.

If you've done all that and the girl hasn't responded... maybe you freaked her out??
 
Re: Re: Isn't just polite?

red_rose said:
If you've done all that and the girl hasn't responded... maybe you freaked her out??

LOL. It does sound like that doesn't?

But really, it isn't.
 
Re: Re: Isn't just polite?

red_rose said:
maybe you freaked her out??

Well he did scare the hell out of me;) JK!

How could Opie FREAK anyone:p
 
Zamdrist said:


I think you've got it the wrong way around. No one is answering me.

Edited to say: Well, OK, not everyone...but you get my drift.
Gah...im such an introvert...
 
Re: Re: Re: Isn't just polite?

Kitte said:


Well he did scare the hell out of me;) JK!

How could Opie FREAK anyone:p

Well, unfortunately I've been guilty of doing that with one person. Though I firmly believed my heart was in the right place. Nevertheless, the person felt the way they felt and I couldn't change that. Something I'll regret for a long while I think.

But...gotta move on and keep trying, or not try so hard, whichever may be appropriate.
 
What's real rude is when someone PM's you, twice, but you can't respond because their box is full. *cough*metal_minx*cough*
 
Private Vasquez said:
What's real rude is when someone PM's you, twice, but you can't respond because their box is full. *cough*metal_minx*cough*

oops...damn that thing gets smaller & smaller :-/
 
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