is this cheating?

[dasweeness]

i was just wondering if people think posting pics on here is cheating if you're in a relationship. i didn't ask my b/f before i posted the first pic of myself but was going to before i put more when a friend of mine said it was "cyber cheating."

anyone else deal with this before?

 

[Kickboxer]

Lol no it's not cheating! Cmon, whats this world coming to lol.

 

[albertaboy]

I think we need to see more pictures of you before we can give a proper answer.

 

[Cpttoesucker]

No it is clicking, and unless you have the house up your vagina it is not cheating. If you do on the other hand... it may be.

 

[Lueretius]

It all depends on how a person view cheating.

some people view cheating as anything behind the other persons back, however others see cheating as only happening when you do something sexual in a physical sense (such as having sex etc).

me personally, if my partner started to post pictures it wouldn't bother me, if she told me, and if it was something she wantted to do, something she wantted to explore. however if she were to have sex with someone else, then i'd be pissed off.

It all depends on how you and your partner look at it, be open, let him know that it's something you want to try, who knows he might get off on it as much as you do, and atleast you'll have someone to hold the camera, and if he doesn't like it, but its something you really want to try, you then have to ask yourself which is more important.

just trying to give a view, rather then cop a view

i hope to see the outcome, but there are other parts of this board then the Amateur Pic Feedback.

remember there is no black and white, just shades of Grey.

 

[Glacialis]

Luretius makes good points. If you feel guilty, stop. If your partner knows and is okay, great. If theyd don't know because you won't tell them...well, why won't you? etc etc. Just thoughts to make you think.

 

[jhe1950]

i was just wondering if people think posting pics on here is cheating if you're in a relationship. i didn't ask my b/f before i posted the first pic of myself but was going to before i put more when a friend of mine said it was "cyber cheating."

anyone else deal with this before?

I don't know you, your circumstances or motives. I don't think any opinions I or others express in the form of arguments express anything than our points of view. So I ask a question. In the quiet of posting ask yourself the same question you ask of us, don't answer it with any rational thought, just pay attention to how you feel after asking it. If you feel uncomfortable and ill at ease then you have the answer and know what that answer is.

 

[human_male]

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[ReggieDiggs]

Idk if its cheating really, but I'd feel upset that my gf shared something intimate without letting me in on it. It says something about your relationship that you shared pics of yourself without his knowledge imo. Doesn't make you a bad person or anything, but probably means you aren't with the right guy if you need to ask the question & feel the need to post pics without his knowledge in the first place. My 2 cents.

 

[Pinktacokitty]

i was just wondering if people think posting pics on here is cheating if you're in a relationship. i didn't ask my b/f before i posted the first pic of myself but was going to before i put more when a friend of mine said it was "cyber cheating."

anyone else deal with this before?

If you are not married it is not cheating, unless you have a ring from him and are engaged.

Is it cheating when he looks at Playboy of course not, is it cheating when a girl bends over in front of him and he looks at her ass, of course not.

When you dress in short skirt and make sure a hot guy sees your panties when you sit, is that cheating, of course not.

Flirting is not cheating.

If he thinks this is cheating then dump him now!!!!!!!!! It will only get worse!!!!!!!! Don't let any guy rule your life!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Dreamliner]

Cheating, not in my opinion.

Have confidence........you should be able to enjoy your sexuality.

 

[FukenDubbin]

As long as you're including the gentleman in your little sex parade it's all in fun

 

[eat12]

I dont think its cheating...but I dont think you should hide it either...pinktacokitty..short skirt sitting and panties showing sounds nothing but smokin hot to me. I luv when my wife does that.

 

[ShazzSte82]

i didn't ask my b/f before i posted the first pic of myself but was going to before i put more when a friend of mine said it was "cyber cheating."

I'm sure i'm speaking on behalf of the majority if not all the people on lit, next time you see your friend will you slap him or her on their head and say this simple word for us:

"Muppet"

Thanks

Shazz xx

 

[voir]

It's a good question. I'm in sort of the same boat. My wife is just more conservative than I. I've just got her used to the idea of internet porn. The idea of talking with real people about sex would just be abhorrent. It really turns me on, though. I would never physically cheat on her, but some might say that posting on here or watching porn when I'm alone is still cheating. I think of it as a pressure release in the same way masturbation is. If I enjoy myself in the shower is it cheating? What about if I'm thinking about someone from work, or Lit or a hot scene from a porn? I think of Lit as my fantasy life, and I do my best to keep my real life and my fantasy life separate.

In the same way, if you get wet anonymously posting pics of yourself would it be different than wearing a really short skirt to the store and enjoying the thought of so many people enjoying what they see? Either way you end up at home and horny

 

[kiss4_2]

cheating?

Tell him, odds are he won't have a problem with it. Most guys like it when others lust after their woman, lol. Mine gets a real kick out of it!

 

[Tomas1961]

Kiss, I'm lusting after you right now. LOL

 

[kiss4_2]

lol

Kiss, I'm lusting after you right now. LOL

And it will get him hot when I tell him!

 

[Tomas1961]

Does it get you hot to know men are stroking over you?

 

[TallMan60]

Tell him, odds are he won't have a problem with it. Most guys like it when others lust after their woman, lol. Mine gets a real kick out of it!

How far does he want you to go with other men? FOr me, I would love it if my wife actually fucked another guy, so long as she told me about it. She does not want to, though I think she might fuck another women. She has talked about that. But she's pretty shy about those sort of things.

 

[ShazzSte82]

Does it get you hot to know men are stroking over you?

It certainly does for me, I pick the guys on lit who have the cocks out for the cam and fantasise about getting banged hard everywhere. And when Ste is with me my attention turn to the sexy female postings on lit. Gets me wetter than cock, even though cock is better (dont understand that myself BTW, so if your wondering WTF i'm on about, your in the same boat as me

 

[skitzoid]

My wife has no problem with me watching internet porn. But, she is against trading pics with others. I can post anything I want but to no one in particular. This she considers cheating, or at least a prelude to it.
As I'm sure many of you have experienced, it can be a great turn-on watching others. The mind wanders into devilish landscape. Taking matters into your own hands is a "normal" reaction. When I am affected in that maner, and she walks in, all I get is a small grin. Once,and only once, she sat on the desk in front of me and masturbated while I did myself. TOTALLY HOT.

Maybe what I'm saying is, it depend completely on you and your SO. Talk about it, set limits, and enjoy yourself up to those limits.

 

[voir]

My wife has no problem with me watching internet porn. But, she is against trading pics with others. I can post anything I want but to no one in particular. This she considers cheating, or at least a prelude to it.
As I'm sure many of you have experienced, it can be a great turn-on watching others. The mind wanders into devilish landscape. Taking matters into your own hands is a "normal" reaction. When I am affected in that maner, and she walks in, all I get is a small grin. Once,and only once, she sat on the desk in front of me and masturbated while I did myself. TOTALLY HOT.

Maybe what I'm saying is, it depend completely on you and your SO. Talk about it, set limits, and enjoy yourself up to those limits.

Sounds like you are lucky enough to be with a woman who is confident enough to talk and think openly. I love my wife very much, but open she is not. She'll demonize others for doing the exact same thing she'll enjoy. It's not as hipocritical as it might sound - there's too much 'recovering Catholic ' guilt in the way, I think, for her to be comfortable with others who are comfortable with their sexuality. We can watch porn together, but she really had a problem when she discovered once that I was watching internet porn. She'll usually talk about how slutty a woman is for wearing a low-cut shirt, for instance, but will do so when we're alone to excite me.

The upside is that on the rare occasion she actively wants something sexual it's a huge turn on for me.

 

[skitzoid]

voir

Sounds like you have a lady in public and a slut in private. That's not bad, not bad at all. Many guys wish their wife would just do "something" to excite them.

I have noticed on this forum that people are much more open. This is a rare breed or maybe just that this attracts the open-minded ones. Even though there are many ladies here that are desirable in their words, I still prefer my wife. I have seen her at her best and her worst and can handle both.

Relish the fact that she will excite you. Time may change things, hopefully to the better.

 

[mpworking]

i was just wondering if people think posting pics on here is cheating if you're in a relationship. i didn't ask my b/f before i posted the first pic of myself but was going to before i put more when a friend of mine said it was "cyber cheating."

anyone else deal with this before?

I choose to see it as an advanced fantasy