Is there...

[Art H.]

A way to dominate while being physically disabled? I have cerebral palsy and have realized I'm a switch through online play. I know this doesn't translate to actual scening and/or real life situations. Knowing my inclination to Dom online, I'm wondering how it would work face-to-face... Thanks and sorry for the slight rambling

 

[RJMasters]

Art,

I do not know if I can give you any direct advice as I would not have any expereince in what you are asking. However, I can offer you this link to look at.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=291958


Here is another link to a post that was mentioned over a year and half ago that made an impression on me and has always stuck.

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=9703029&postcount=13

I am sure there are others on the forum here who could speak to you about their experiences.

Good luck

 

[Art H.]

Art,

I do not know if I can give you any direct advice as I would not have any expereince in what you are asking. However, I can offer you this link to look at.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=291958


Here is another link to a post that was mentioned over a year and half ago that made an impression on me and has always stuck.

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=9703029&postcount=13

I am sure there are others on the forum here who could speak to you about their experiences.

Good luck

Thanks RJ

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Not knowing how severe your afliction is it would be difficult to say just what activities you can engage in.

But you can always use your mind. The mental aspects of D/s happen to be what most turn me on. Make her masturbate while you watch, demanding she stop each time she comes close to orgasm until she's begging to cum.

Or you can direct her through a series of submissive positions for inspection which can make even a seasoned submissive blush like a virgin if the right words accompany the direction.

There are many things you can do. Use your imagination and have fun!

A way to dominate while being physically disabled? I have cerebral palsy and have realized I'm a switch through online play. I know this doesn't translate to actual scening and/or real life situations. Knowing my inclination to Dom online, I'm wondering how it would work face-to-face... Thanks and sorry for the slight rambling

 

[Art H.]

Not knowing how severe your afliction is it would be difficult to say just what activities you can engage in.

But you can always use your mind. The mental aspects of D/s happen to be what most turn me on. Make her masturbate while you watch, demanding she stop each time she comes close to orgasm until she's begging to cum.

Or you can direct her through a series of submissive positions for inspection which can make even a seasoned submissive blush like a virgin if the right words accompany the direction.

There are many things you can do. Use your imagination and have fun!

I've had the pleasure of hearing friends beg via phone before and I must say that it has become an addiction of sorts That said, my concern mainly relates to punishing a sub while having some difficulty grasping items... Now then, if only I could sate my addiction

Lovely avatar, BB

 

[chris9]

I've had the pleasure of hearing friends beg via phone before and I must say that it has become an addiction of sorts That said, my concern mainly relates to punishing a sub while having some difficulty grasping items... Now then, if only I could sate my addiction

Lovely avatar, BB

Punishment doesn't always involve spanking. For many this would actually be the wrong thing to do punishment-wise, because some subs enjoy the spanking. If you really want to punish you can find some custom-tailored methods that suit the sub, the relationship and the offense.
And since there are subs who don't like being spanked, they wouldn't miss it. And those, too, can be punished by other methods.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

You could always make the sub spank herself while you direct?

I've had the pleasure of hearing friends beg via phone before and I must say that it has become an addiction of sorts That said, my concern mainly relates to punishing a sub while having some difficulty grasping items... Now then, if only I could sate my addiction

Lovely avatar, BB

 

[Art H.]

You could always make the sub spank herself while you direct?

Would a sub enjoy doing to themselves? My sub side really isn't spanking, sorry

 

[Vixandra]

First off- love the AV.

Okay, now to buisness.
My first thought was- why not two subs? One that's a standard (if there is such a thing) sub and the other either a switch or a sub with switchy tendencies. Perhaps controling thier play together would satisfy.

On a more one-on-one basis- find what you sub loaths. We'll use closepins for this example.
If she does something displeasing, or needs punishment for whatever reason, have her apply closepins under your direction. From what I've heard, between the toes is less then fun, not to mention the "tender bits" are ripe for such things.

 

[HL55]

Actually Art u can

Art, one of the moderators of the local Munch in WI I used to attend is also a Switch and in a chair an he does have workarounds that work well for him an his sub quite well..... if interested PM an will send along the contact info I have for the group there an good luck
pax
HL
SS&C always

 

[raven2]

You could always make the sub spank herself while you direct?

If she is flexible enough.

 

[Art H.]

If she is flexible enough.

Always a plus

 

[Art H.]

First off- love the AV.

Okay, now to buisness.
My first thought was- why not two subs? One that's a standard (if there is such a thing) sub and the other either a switch or a sub with switchy tendencies. Perhaps controling thier play together would satisfy.

On a more one-on-one basis- find what you sub loaths. We'll use closepins for this example.
If she does something displeasing, or needs punishment for whatever reason, have her apply closepins under your direction. From what I've heard, between the toes is less then fun, not to mention the "tender bits" are ripe for such things.

Your AV is very pretty The dual sub idea sounds great as does your example. Only issue is that I don't currently have a sub...

 

[raven2]

Always a plus

You bet.

 

[Art H.]

You bet.

Safe bet every time

 

[Vixandra]

Your AV is very pretty The dual sub idea sounds great as does your example. Only issue is that I don't currently have a sub...

Welcome to the club.
Maybe a sub couple?

 

[Art H.]

Welcome to the club.
Maybe a sub couple?

I could only hope Want an online sub?

 

[Lilith]

Hi Art,
Not knowing to what type of CP you have I was just thinking about all the accommodations and modifications we made for my son (who has CP as well) as he was trying to learn new skills, I would think that if you have decent use of your hands or hand (you could use your mouth to help tighten) you may want to start with some bondage. I am thinking if you left enough of a tail on whatever you use to tie them up with you could use that to help direct the play.

 

[Art H.]

Hi Art,
Not knowing to what type of CP you have I was just thinking about all the accommodations and modifications we made for my son (who has CP as well) as he was trying to learn new skills, I would think that if you have decent use of your hands or hand (you could use your mouth to help tighten) you may want to start with some bondage. I am thinking if you left enough of a tail on whatever you use to tie them up with you could use that to help direct the play.

Ironically, the only accommodations I get are ramps into the house Other than that, I'm pretty much on my own. Your idea is quite valuable, Lilith, given that I only have one good hand anymore. How old is your son, may I ask?

 

[Blushing Bottom]

mmmmmmmmm.......perhaps

If she is flexible enough.

 

[Art H.]

mmmmmmmmm.......perhaps

Forgive me this, BB, but if that is you in your av I could spank that bottom for hours

 

[Andante]

Forgive me this, BB, but if that is you in your av I could spank that bottom for hours

And I would happily stand by to take the next turn

 

[Art H.]

And I would happily stand by to take the next turn

Be prepared for a loooong wait

 

[Andante]

Be prepared for a loooong wait

Some things are worth waiting for!

 

[Art H.]

Some things are worth waiting for!

Agreed