Willing and Unsure
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a one true love? and if so, how likely do you think you would find it?
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i dont think there is one true love. You might think so at one time and just be crazy and cry over that person and have feelings for them that are deeper than youll ever think possible, but then someone else comes along someday and your feelings might be so much stronger and its just a big shock to you, cuz you had no clue it could happen.
There are loves, there deffinatly are, very special ones. But somethings always out there and nothing is for sure.
There are loves, there deffinatly are, very special ones. But somethings always out there and nothing is for sure.
Willing and Unsure
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I think that there is potential. Some people are lucky enough to nail it right off the bat and for them, yes. Some people have several loves and none of them invalidates the others, they just are.
My first girlfriend and I were together for 3 years and at the time, I would have sworn to you that I had found my one love and I would have been telling the truth. Now, later, I've felt deeply for other people, but it doesn't mean that that first time wasn't true.
I don't know how clear this is coming across, but I don't think that there are any hard answers for these questions. I think that the asking and thinking about them is the important thing.
Hold on Willing, like the man says, nothing good is ever easy.
My first girlfriend and I were together for 3 years and at the time, I would have sworn to you that I had found my one love and I would have been telling the truth. Now, later, I've felt deeply for other people, but it doesn't mean that that first time wasn't true.
I don't know how clear this is coming across, but I don't think that there are any hard answers for these questions. I think that the asking and thinking about them is the important thing.
Hold on Willing, like the man says, nothing good is ever easy.
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Unless you're a Morman.
Then there can be several.
Then there can be several.
Love WTF is it???
I don't believe that thereis such thing as one true love, although with most people thier first love is always thier strongest love. Thier first love is the one that they will remember for the rest of thier life and compare other loves to it, but saying this it doesn't necisarilly mean that your first love is the right one for you.
Feelings are fickel things, they change like the wind, even when you are deeply in love with someone you can wake up some mornings hating them and everything that they do, some days you feel trapped while other you feel like you couldn't possibly be happier.
Relationships aren't always as good as they look, I know what it is like to walk down the street looking at all the couples holding hands, hugging and kissing in the street, envying the love, the happiness and the passion that they seem to want to flaunt to everyone that walks past. Life isn't that perfect, when they get home they argue like the rest of us, they cry like the rest of us and they are as depressed as the rest of us.
The only difference is that they have someone to help them look happy to eveyone else. What people have got to learn is that they don't need someone else to make them happy, you can make yourself happy, do things that you like be a little selfish and do things just for you and no-one else and you will feel alot happier.
Then when you do meet that special person you will be even happier, don't rely on them to complete you, you are already complete, when you join together you won't be completing yourself you will be uniting two complete souls. Concentrate on making yourself happy and love will come.
Anyway I'm going to leave it at that I seem to have gone a little of track so I hope that I atleast answered the question that you asked or I am going to look stupid.
Peace and serenity,
Sad Man.
I don't believe that thereis such thing as one true love, although with most people thier first love is always thier strongest love. Thier first love is the one that they will remember for the rest of thier life and compare other loves to it, but saying this it doesn't necisarilly mean that your first love is the right one for you.
Feelings are fickel things, they change like the wind, even when you are deeply in love with someone you can wake up some mornings hating them and everything that they do, some days you feel trapped while other you feel like you couldn't possibly be happier.
Relationships aren't always as good as they look, I know what it is like to walk down the street looking at all the couples holding hands, hugging and kissing in the street, envying the love, the happiness and the passion that they seem to want to flaunt to everyone that walks past. Life isn't that perfect, when they get home they argue like the rest of us, they cry like the rest of us and they are as depressed as the rest of us.
The only difference is that they have someone to help them look happy to eveyone else. What people have got to learn is that they don't need someone else to make them happy, you can make yourself happy, do things that you like be a little selfish and do things just for you and no-one else and you will feel alot happier.
Then when you do meet that special person you will be even happier, don't rely on them to complete you, you are already complete, when you join together you won't be completing yourself you will be uniting two complete souls. Concentrate on making yourself happy and love will come.
Anyway I'm going to leave it at that I seem to have gone a little of track so I hope that I atleast answered the question that you asked or I am going to look stupid.
Peace and serenity,
Sad Man.
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one true love........no. I think not, but true love yes.
true love is when you think about the other person before you think of your self, this therefore is not limited to just the once.
The problem is finding someone who reciprocates that feeling,
when you find that then ...... ahhhh may be what we are all searching for?
true love is when you think about the other person before you think of your self, this therefore is not limited to just the once.
The problem is finding someone who reciprocates that feeling,
when you find that then ...... ahhhh may be what we are all searching for?
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