Is there such a thing as hot husband lifestyle?

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You see hotwife lifestyle fairly common when the married women may fuck other men with husbands support then come home to be reclaimed by her husband. Are tiles ever reversed where the wife wants the husband to go out and fuck and return home to an aroused wife?
 
You see hotwife lifestyle fairly common when the married women may fuck other men with husbands support then come home to be reclaimed by her husband. Are tiles ever reversed where the wife wants the husband to go out and fuck and return home to an aroused wife?

It does happen and I was a "hot husband" during one phase of my first marriage. However, my experience is that often wives still get upset if their husbands are with other women, even if they themselves are slutty
 
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You see hotwife lifestyle fairly common when the married women may fuck other men with husbands support then come home to be reclaimed by her husband. Are tiles ever reversed where the wife wants the husband to go out and fuck and return home to an aroused wife?

It does happen and I was a "hot husband" during one phase of my first marriage. However, my experience is that often wives still get upset if their husbands are with other women, even if they themselves are slutty
 
I may be in a minority and while I would not want my husband to fuck other women without my presence, I have watched him with other women many times and it is , at least for me a turn on. And more often than not I join. I know what they are feeling and I think that is part of the turn on for me.
 
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Obviously every individual is different, but my own 'anecdotal' observation is that men are more comfortable with 'hotwifing' than women with 'hot-husbanding'. I don't however, claim that to be a fact. I'm curious to read others' observations.
 
Obviously every individual is different, but my own 'anecdotal' observation is that men are more comfortable with 'hotwifing' than women with 'hot-husbanding'. I don't however, claim that to be a fact. I'm curious to read others' observations.

I am sure that this is true -- but not sure why exactly
 
During the early years of our marriage, we have had many times where hubby was the "hothusband" . It never bothered me at all. I was always there and was very satisfied before the night was over.
 
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I see a theme where the wife is present. Wondering if anyone has comments on husband meeting his play date elsewhere leaving wife behind only to return home to her being horny or upset?
 
I see a theme where the wife is present. Wondering if anyone has comments on husband meeting his play date elsewhere leaving wife behind only to return home to her being horny or upset?

You'd probably find the answers to that in the Divorce Lawyers thread! :D
 
I may be in a minority and while I would not want my husband to fuck other women without my presence, I have watched him with other women many times and it is , at least for me a turn on. And more often than not I join. I know what they are feeling and I think that is part of the turn on for me.

I agree. Wife has to be the center of attention. I would only be with another if my wife wanted it.
 
My wife and I both have fun with others. Usually with a group of long time friends that we “swing” with. There have been the odd time where I have had a date with her encouragement. I love the look in her eyes when she reclaims me!
She has also been in the same room watching me with another lady. She has called me her slut for years .
 
I'm sure it's a thing for some people. Wouldn't be for me. I know that my ex screwed around on me, but he told me I was crazy when I mentioned it. He did finally admit it to our daughter after the divorce.

My thing is... If you want to crew around, don't get married. Yeah, I know people are in open marriages. Just not my thing.

I don't get jealous, I just figure if he wants to be with someone else, then he should be. But he also shouldn't be married to me then. Please note that I also distinguish between marriage and just being with someone. Different things totally.
 
My ex wife was a closet cuckqueen.

It got to the point, the rare times we actually had sex, she couldn’t help herself but to go deep into her fantasy of catching me me with another woman. She’d start by having me describe a young girl we’d both find attractive and how she’d come home and find the two of us already in the bedroom. She’d walk in to watch how I’d fuck her and touch herself in the corner. Then she’d go out into the next room to leave us together again to fuck as hard as we wanted, leaving only the sounds of our sex for my ex to listen to and imagine with. Then when our time was up she would walk back in and join as we shared her young pussy together.

This fantasy would get her so wet and horny and like I said she brought it up constantly. My cock couldn’t penetrate her without her wishing it was somewhere else. It was hot and I loved to play along as I enjoyed it just as much. However that’s about as far as things went. Problem was in real life she was incredibly self conscious and insecure. She’d accuse me of checking out other women for no reason and during fights would throw back the things I said during sex in my face as proof I was some kind of unfaithful scumbag. Did I mention she was bi-polar??? Lol

It’s a shame cause she came so hard from thinking of me fucking other women. I never did do anything behind her back but with 20/20 hindsight I probably should of, lol. Towards the end of our marriage she did bring up a friend of hers who admitted to sharing interest in both of us. Of course she brought it up during sex and even showed me pictures of her, but by that time things were so rocky I dared not to show too much interest. Wasn’t worth the wrath later. :)
 
Hot husband and hotwife match as a like-minded pair. It's good to be your wife. Either one of the pair may go free for separate privacy. Your pleasure is my pleasure. Sharing each others' respective experiences is refreshing and penetrating.

Not talking about life off-line or the negative aspect of it. Playing On Lit only.
 
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