iS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME???

[spyinghubby]

Ok so heres the situation...Me and my wife are 27 & 28 yr old latin couple and have been together for 10 years...

I have this strange urge to see her with another man or men... I dunno what it is...she alwas talks big like she would do it,but when a situation arises she always flakes...I think deep down she wants to..she has always been attracted to african american men, i think it is the legacy of the size of their dicks that inrigues her.. i am an average size, but when we watch interacial movies she really gets into it...

So I thought it would be fun to tease her a bit, so I went and bought her a 9" black dildo...i would always bring it into our sex sessions and at first she would complain that it would hurt her, so i would not work it into her too much but still enough to hear breathing heavy..but to see it moving in and out of her shaved pussy ..oh my GOD!! it would turn me on so much..Now we have been using it for a short time and now she tells me to use it and she starts gyrating her hips and opens her legs wider and tells me to push it in further...

Just the other night we were doing our thing and she took the whole thing into her, and I was moving it in and out pretty hard and she start orgasming on it ..ALOT and HARD and then she reahed her hands down and took it away from me and start fucking herself with it harder than I was...I was so turned on with what I was seeing I couldnt believe it...plus ...after I love getting into her and feel her pussy stretched and used.....






So in your opinions...where do u think this is coming from?? I mean y do I like seeing this?? and Have I started something bad here???

sorry for the long post......

 

[peachykeen]

There are, like, 500 other threads here about this, and if you go into the stories bit, probably about 40 million.

In short, no it is not unusual, in fact it's pretty common. However I will say, as I and others here have said repeatedly, there is a HUGE WHACKING GREAT BIG DIFFERENCE between fantasy and reality. So for fucks sake do not even think of trying to manipulate your wife, however subtly, into having sex with another man so that you can get your jollies.

Enjoy the fantasy, and work out between the two of you ways that you can indulge it through role play etc and maybe someday, IF she decides she wants to go further, fine. Until then, deal with it.

 

[Joseki Ko]

Hey Hubby

In a word, no. There is nothing wrong with you. That is just how you are kinked. However I wouldn't push your wife into it. She may just enjoy the fantasy of other men. And a fantasy is always better. It allows the moment to be perfect. It doesn't call you in the morning or have an accident and get your wife pregnant. It doesn't create feelings of jealousy or inadequacy. You guys have been married for 10 years. In this day and age that's something special. If you want the fantasy seize the fantasy. But I'd think long and hard about doing it for real. Especially if your wife has balked on not just one but several occassions.

Do not ring a bell that cannot be unrung.

Hope this helps -- Jo

 

[sheath]

Re: Hey Hubby

In a word, no. There is nothing wrong with you. That is just how you are kinked. However I wouldn't push your wife into it. She may just enjoy the fantasy of other men. And a fantasy is always better. It allows the moment to be perfect. It doesn't call you in the morning or have an accident and get your wife pregnant. It doesn't create feelings of jealousy or inadequacy. You guys have been married for 10 years. In this day and age that's something special. If you want the fantasy seize the fantasy. But I'd think long and hard about doing it for real. Especially if your wife has balked on not just one but several occassions.

Do not ring a bell that cannot be unrung.

Hope this helps -- Jo

VERY well said.

S.