Is there something wrong with me for feeling this way?

[lilminx]

I had a, uh, friend over before. When everything was done we laid there and watched TV for over an hour. I guess it was nice, but all I wanted was for him to leave. I was hungry, damnit!

Is that really bad that I wasn't into hanging out, kissing and cuddling? I mean, I know that typically, people think that guys think this way, but usually I find that I'm the one who wants the guy to leave.

 

[Cath!]

I think I want to know the details (don't leave any out) of what you mean by everything.

Then I will be able to give you a fully informed answer.

 

[koalabear]

no........

 

[PowerOfOne]

You have not found the right one that holds your interest. You will and when you do time together becomes precious and more fleeting. You will find that you cannot be with him enough. When you are not physically with him you will be thinking of him.

In the meantime, enjoy the journey of discovery to this special man!

 

[Azwed]

my gf used to be like that. As soon as she was done the guy was kicked out. She did not want him staying around. She was like this untill she got with me and now she says the whole cuddling afterplay part is the best part.

 

[christophe]

Well nice to hear you have found someone...I think. So far as cuddling its nice in many circumstances, I enjoy it but there are also nights where ordering a pizza pops into my mind...I think PoO has it summed up fairly well. When you find that special someone, and cant imagine life without them, then the post sex romance will have more appeal. But until then there isnt anything wrong with pizza....Extra pepperoni anyone?

 

[Cath!]

But until then there isnt anything wrong with pizza....Extra pepperoni anyone?

do ya have any mushrooms?

 

[seXieleXie]

yes... you weirdo!!!!!
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okay sorry, i couldn't resist.
of course there is nothing wrong with you minxie. don't fall into the trap of believing that what is concidered the social norm (ie the female sexual role where you're the cuddly snuggly one who needs emotional entanglements along with your orgasms) is the only way to go. i'm most of the women of lit have felt the same way, i know i have.

 

[MissTaken]

Well, minx,

That about sums it up when fucking friends. I have some who have taken me through a lonely night and when it is done, I want them out so I can get on with my life

nothing strange about that!

 

[lilminx]

Well nice to hear you have found someone...I think

Thanks, Chris, but it's someone who's been around for a while- we just haven't been able to arrange our schedules so that we can see each other for thepast couple of months.

Thanks everyone, for the confirmation that I'm not weird (well, not in ThAT sense, anyway).

 

[MissTaken]

Thanks everyone, for the confirmation that I'm not weird (well, not in ThAT sense, anyway).

Good point!

After all, we are all a bit off our rocker for being here to begin with !

Damn bunch of perverts!

 

[miles]

Maybe

...it was his shoes?

 

[lilminx]

Re: Maybe

...it was his shoes?

Hmm.... I don't think so- I didn't really even get to see what they looked like, as they were not on him for very long!

 

[lobito]

DAMNIT MINXIE!

I thought you knew that when you are trying to ditch someone, you are supposed to tell them - "Sorry, I'm headed over to Lobitos' house for dinner, he and the wife invited me, and as much as I'd like you to be there, they just don't like uninvited guests".

Now, print that response out, and keep it handy at all times. Eventually they will get the hint.

lo

 

[lilminx]

That's a great excuse, Lobito- I'll keep that in mind.

And would we just be having dinner?

 

[lobito]

two helpings of pie at the Y, for starters. I always like desert first. We'll think of something afterwards, I'm sure.

 

[koalabear]

Just goes with the 4 f's lil.......find em ....feel'em......fuck'em...forget'em

 

[bluntforcemama]

lol

Everyone needs their space. You weren't wrong in feeling that way.

 

[Mr. Bootie]

No no no lilminx

Just tell them the truth. You are waiting for kgbootie's call.

( *wink* Get it *weg* )



kgboot

 

[lilminx]

Just goes with the 4 f's lil.......find em ....feel'em......fuck'em...forget'em

What is that dripping out of your Koala Bear's peepee? It looks like he needs to get some antibiotics!

 

[koalabear]

What is that dripping out of your Koala Bear's peepee? It looks like he needs to get some antibiotics!

That's a fuzzy cock.....and I eat alot of eucalyptus.......minty!