Is there counseling available for "recovering" Ho's?

[lobito]

I just wonder, because several of my friendships have been affected by my board ho-ing. AND it's not worth losing a friend, over something like that.

I have LOTS of Q's, but to start with:

If I'm a recovering HO, does that mean I can't flirt anymore?

If I stop flirting, does that mean I'm not fun anymore?

If I took Ho-ing too seriously at times, does that mean that I'm dumbfuck?

If I ask all these questions asking for help, does that mean I want pity?



Just wondering.

 

[lobito]

Well I can see that since I usually have too much FUN here at Lit, that no one knows when to take me seriously.

Thanks for all the GREAT advice everyone, I'll take it ALL under consideration.

Take care all,
R

 

[Cheyenne]

How about if I say I never thought of you that way in the first place?

I'm not sure what you want to change. You don't want to be fun anymore? You don't want to flirt? What?

 

[morninggirl5]

I'm very lost here, lobito. If you're serious in this thread, I don't understand how anyone who considers him/herself to be your friend has a problem with your fun-loving posts. I think you've done a really good job allowing the different sides of your personality to emerge here. You have had some wonderful, meaningful posts and others that were LOL funny. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. (I miss the Mr. Hard-ass now that HKBJ seems to be gone.)


If you're playing...... sure there's counseling available. The group sessions starts tonight at 10 pm. PM me and I'll give you the time and place.

 

[Rubyfruit]

lobito, I've never thought of you as a ho. You're fun, funny and flirtatious.

 

[lilminx]

I just wonder, because several of my friendships have been affected by my board ho-ing. AND it's not worth losing a friend, over something like that.

I have LOTS of Q's, but to start with:
If I'm a recovering HO, does that mean I can't flirt anymore?
If I stop flirting, does that mean I'm not fun anymore?
If I took Ho-ing too seriously at times, does that mean that I'm dumbfuck?
If I ask all these questions asking for help, does that mean I want pity?
Just wondering.

1) Hoing is not the same as flirting- if you think flirting is fun, then don't stop it.

2) If you DO decide to stop flirting (which I don't think you should), you can still be fun- you just have to find other ways to do it.

3) You're not a dumbfuck.

4) I don't know if you want pity, but I'm here as your friend.

 

[lobito]

Re: Re: Is there counseling available for "recovering" Ho's?

1) Hoing is not the same as flirting- if you think flirting is fun, then don't stop it.

2) If you DO decide to stop flirting (which I don't think you should), you can still be fun- you just have to find other ways to do it.

3) You're not a dumbfuck.

4) I don't know if you want pity, but I'm here as your friend.

Thanks Minx, I know you are the ONE person I can count on.

I know I don't want pity, it was just a question.

No, MG5, I'm not playing. It's really quite ruined my day, thinking about the events of this past week, and my attitude in general off of Lit., over the past few weeks. Put this together with what's happened in my "real life" this week with my wife, and it really makes a person THINK, just sit and THINK.

Thanks really to all four of you girls, you four are always good to me, here at Lit.

R

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Ok so explain please what you mean by the word "Ho-ing "

Lobito, I think you are a cool guy and fun to have around on the boards, I like your sence of humour

 

[Calamity Jane]

Lobito, I'm not sure what's been going on in your personal life offboard, but I don't think your attitude needs any adjustment on board. i think you're silly and flirtatious and intelligent. All good qualities as far as i'm concerned.

PM me if you want to, if you're having the off board problems that it sounds like you are, i can totally empathize.

 

[Debbie]

Lobito I don't think you are a ho at all.