Is there an art to breast and nipple sucking

[ctarrantella]

So… we’ve all heard and read about the art of going down on a woman and all the different things to try and do.

Can the same be said about sucking on breasts and nipples.

1. What are the go to moves?
2. Ladies, what drives you crazy when this is done to you?
3. How much is too much?
4. What’s over the top?

Let’s start to talk about this.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Over 30+yrs of marriage it has changed quite a bit. First it was hard suckling, later she preferred light flicking, now during Menopause I can’t even get near them!

Which really sucks because she’s taking some kind of hormone crème that has made her nipples a dark wine color, almost like they were when she was pregnant. The visual is stunning on her but I can’t touch as they’re just too sensitive and she says my machinations don’t do anything for her now.

 

[Britva415]

Is there an art to breast and nipple sucking

Yes but

You're not going to like this...

It's different for everyone. There's no single art. You have to learn as you go with each woman, and each day.

Pay attention. Communicate.

THAT IS the art.

 

[BongoGal]

It's different for everyone. There's no single art. You have to learn as you go with each woman, and each day.

I don't disagree with that, but I can honestly say that I never experienced it when it wasn't at least quite nice.

 

[windwater]

So… we’ve all heard and read about the art of going down on a woman and all the different things to try and do.

Can the same be said about sucking on breasts and nipples.

1. What are the go to moves?
2. Ladies, what drives you crazy when this is done to you?
3.How much is too much?
4. What’s over the top?

Let’s start to talk about this.

I have been far beyond breast obsessed for as long as I can remember.
Perhaps we can blame my 60's mother who pumped out 5 kids in 7 years when breast feeding was not in vogue.
Or just my love and need for that incredible female breast flesh.

As mentioned above, every women is different, but their need at the beginning can mold as your ministrations adapt to her.

First and foremost - nothing, and I mean nothing can match the power of pure passion and desire.
If she knows that she is providing for you - everything - you need at that moment, then specific techniques matter much less.

Look at her, look at them, let her see the hunger you have - open your mouth and let her see that you are empty with her breast in it.

As mentioned , sensitivity varies, but if she allows you to be free...

Suck the outer areola, long and slow and deep, so long that she cannot wait for you to pull the nipple in.
Then go over the nipple without sucking, then back to the outer areola sucking deeply.

Teeth - around the nipple gently - front teeth placed at the base of the nipple, then slowing, gently pull outward - at the very tip, just pinch with your teeth - that usually draws a sharp breath.

Open wider and press the nipple to you back teeth, gently, or not, gnawing like a starving animal.

All of these - longer of shorter as she responds.

The actual sucking - mouth open, them open wider so that she knows you want to get as much of the flesh in as possible, you want to pull her nipple intro the back of your throat.

Hold the breast with both hands - fingers around the base pressing in to make it as large and possible at the same time, making the areola swell.

When it get's down to the moment, let go with your hands - press your tighten lips into the edges of her areola against her chest wall, then suck in hard until you feel the root of the nipple, deep beneath the actual.
Once you have the root, you should have her pussy- she will feel this deep in her womb.

Then feed from her, pressing, then pulling, pressing then pulling - then she'll know that she is feeding you, providing what you need from her while at the same time, giving back to her.

Talk, Breath, Share - but Need.

I could go on....

 

[UtilityCurve]

I don't disagree with that, but I can honestly say that I never experienced it when it wasn't at least quite nice.

That's encouraging.

But you know how all the women's magazines scream "TELL him what you enjoy/want?"

That's pretty rare in my experience. Maybe it's a "preserve his ego" thing (because the implication is he could be doing [you] better, maybe some atavistic "I have to at least pretend to be a good girl/inexperienced," but it's been that way for me at least!

I would never have been threatened by "do that some more," or "no, not there/that." Being zeroed in to what the woman likes is my way of maximizing my chance of getting to do it/her again!

 

[Iwant2havefun]

I have been far beyond breast obsessed for as long as I can remember.
Perhaps we can blame my 60's mother who pumped out 5 kids in 7 years when breast feeding was not in vogue.
Or just my love and need for that incredible female breast flesh.

As mentioned above, every women is different, but their need at the beginning can mold as your ministrations adapt to her.

First and foremost - nothing, and I mean nothing can match the power of pure passion and desire.
If she knows that she is providing for you - everything - you need at that moment, then specific techniques matter much less.

Look at her, look at them, let her see the hunger you have - open your mouth and let her see that you are empty with her breast in it.

As mentioned , sensitivity varies, but if she allows you to be free...

Suck the outer areola, long and slow and deep, so long that she cannot wait for you to pull the nipple in.
Then go over the nipple without sucking, then back to the outer areola sucking deeply.

Teeth - around the nipple gently - front teeth placed at the base of the nipple, then slowing, gently pull outward - at the very tip, just pinch with your teeth - that usually draws a sharp breath.

Open wider and press the nipple to you back teeth, gently, or not, gnawing like a starving animal.

All of these - longer of shorter as she responds.

The actual sucking - mouth open, them open wider so that she knows you want to get as much of the flesh in as possible, you want to pull her nipple intro the back of your throat.

Hold the breast with both hands - fingers around the base pressing in to make it as large and possible at the same time, making the areola swell.

When it get's down to the moment, let go with your hands - press your tighten lips into the edges of her areola against her chest wall, then suck in hard until you feel the root of the nipple, deep beneath the actual.
Once you have the root, you should have her pussy- she will feel this deep in her womb.

Then feed from her, pressing, then pulling, pressing then pulling - then she'll know that she is feeding you, providing what you need from her while at the same time, giving back to her.

Talk, Breath, Share - but Need.

I could go on....

OMG....i NEED this. To suckle, nurse, nourish.....the feeling of complete and total reliance upon that nipple...to be held while i flick and suck....pure nirvana....

 

[NemoNautilus]

Watch how she plays with her own nipples, and emulate that

 

[Thought30]

I want to sort of echo what Britva415 said above:
Sex is--and all of life is--an artful expression. Or at least it can be if one is aware enough.
True art is a matter of SELF expression and that, for me, begins with following my desires and instincts honestly and then acting upon them.
My desire to arouse my partner or pleasure them is an aspect but it is most often secondary to this personal moving through desire.
But to be clear, my feelings about my partner don't lag behind my movements, they run alongside concurrently, almost in unison.
It's subtle.
Sometimes, exactly what I want to do perfectly aligns with what a partner wants done, but the bottom line is there is a deep intimacy--and often a vulnerability--in a person seeing who you are sexually as you express yourself and your desires in an open way.

In media I hear a lot about technique and while I acknowledge that the way you touch someone is important in the way they physiologically feel, I am most interested in the mental aspect of all of this.
Not in an intellectual way (well, sometimes I am but not in the moment), I am trying to get at the core of this person and why they like what they like. If they are just about sensation, I am not too interested in that. We wouldn't be a great match.
I guess a way to speak about it is that these desires and my actions as a result of them are coming from a HeartMind space, not a pure mind or body space.

Anyway, I am not really answering your question, but I think that if you are focused on a woman's breast, express the way it makes you feel through touch and even by talking about it, wholly connected in that moment.

 

[VinylLizzie]

Mostly I enjoy the whole of my areola to be sucked in! At times my nipples alone simply feel too sensitive . Yet at other times I like them to be pulled, nibbled and clamped. Depends how they’re feeling I guess. Whatever, sucking breasts feels the best

 

[svengali_decL]

So… we’ve all heard and read about the art of going down on a woman and all the different things to try and do.

Can the same be said about sucking on breasts and nipples.

1. What are the go to moves?
2. Ladies, what drives you crazy when this is done to you?
3.How much is too much?
4. What’s over the top?

Let’s start to talk about this.

Yes, technique and attention to detail...
And when she likes it, give her more, all the other stuff can wait__

 

[svengali_decL]

Strangely no further comments...?
Lets look at this another way... treating a brain (and the pussy attached to it) like you would a fresh super ripe juicy peach or nectarine, theres an art to not letting the sweet succulence of the juices get away while you're administering teeth to the flesh of the fruit and quietly, yet rabidly stripping it and teasing out some...

IS that a better picture..? decL

 

[Goldenfinger]

There can be. My wife’s nipples are real sensitive so I have to be very gentle if I’m playing with them. Mine, well she can bite them off and glue them back on the next day with some bag balm.

 

[hulmule]

I can say that it varies with each woman. Just like all of us have our pleasures - kinks that turn us on. Roll them with your thumb and finger, gently pulling them.But had a woman that wanted them pulled, bitten and u get the picture. But i think on the average most would ejoy just having their breast cupped, massaged , lightly circle the nipple then fondle the nipple... But all depends- Where are you? in the the car, bed, concert , firends house getting her ready for when you get home. But my best memory- Sucking on them and feeling that warm breast milk enter my mouth !! But thats another thread !!

 

[tnhardon]

So… we’ve all heard and read about the art of going down on a woman and all the different things to try and do.

Can the same be said about sucking on breasts and nipples.

1. What are the go to moves?
2. Ladies, what drives you crazy when this is done to you?
3.How much is too much?
4. What’s over the top?

Let’s start to talk about this.

First girlfriend I ever had was conservative and didn’t want us to be sexual at all with each other (at the time I was of a somewhat similar mindset, albeit not as strong as her). One thing that she somehow ended up being okay with was nipple play. She was able to orgasm from nipple play alone. When I was with her, it was pretty much trying to just make love to her small breasts and nipples. Kiss, licking, sucking.

My partners since have enjoyed nipple play to varying extents. My wife seems to enjoy it, but it is far less of a focus and more a move you briefly throw into the mix. It seems to help arouse her, but it isn’t the star of the show.

I know I’ve read other people who like really aggressive nipple play, while others don’t want their nipples touched at all. This is me giving a long answer to say, it completely depends on the person you are with. Try, explore, and take whatever feedback you get and hone in from there.

 

[StrongMaster7]

In my experience, it varies greatly, even for the same woman.

The women I have been with who had the biggest breasts, did not seem to be very sensitive in that area. Maybe it was me.
A woman I was only with once had b-cups and prominent nips that were her 'turn-on' buttons.

My wife has changed a lot over the years. Fortunately it has been for the better. Over the last five years or so, her breasts have become much more sensitive and her nipples seem to be connected to her clit. I always try to be as gentle as possible at first. The more gentle I am, the more excited she gets until she starts asking me to suck harder or to bite her nips. I love to pretend I am breastfeeding and she loves the feeling of it and actually participates in my being a 'big baby'. Once she is aroused in this way, she enjoys rubbing her tits on my chest and face, all over me.

If I'm lucky, she'll climb on top of me for a 69. As I eat her pussy, she will rub her big tits on my stomach and I will reach down and gently pinch and twist her nipples. This will bring her to a climax in a hurry and she will quickly mount and ride me. As I fuck her this way, she will often come again and as she does she will ask me to squeeze her tits harder and to bite her hard nipples. This makes me explode every time.

 

[svengali_decL]

In my experience, it varies greatly, even for the same woman.


My wife... her breasts have become much more sensitive and her nipples seem to be connected to her clit...

indeed, but I was most pleasantly rewarded when i found most lasses of 'British' heritage I came to know intimately, indeed had similar wiring... some reached orgasm very easily by such imaginative delight, to others who had some but not complete satisfaction.
I believe I described earlier a lady who, of Pacific ethnicity, not wanting full sex, agreed to a 'breast massage' and my guarantee of satisfaction. Indeed it was true, took an hour of concerted attention, sans licking the first time, but she truly warmed up! She agreed to expand the treasures and pleasures over the next few sessions weeks apart...

 

[svengali_decL]

**Pacific ethnicity, -- means Polynesian... a bit South of Hawai'i but warm too!

 

[live4thebj]

To me tit sucking is like eating pussy. Try different things and pay attention to her reactions and instructions. My fiancé has one breast more sensitive than the other.

 

[haventdonethat]

Watch how she plays with her own nipples, and emulate that

^^^ This!
My first wife was the best nipple sucker I ever knew.
We both loved sucking, biting, pulling, twisting her long nipples. Good thing females have two, there was one for each of us and we could switch around too.
There was many times our sex sessions consisted of only nipple play (and some masturbation to get rid of the built up pressure he he he) by both of us.

The sounds and sights . . . ah, great memories!

 

[sea7688]

I agree that it is necessary to read the reaction. sometimes soft licks..circling the tip...others sucking and pulling the entire areola. If i get it right i am rewarded with my wife climaxing from it. at a minimum she will start to rub her pussy to take her over the edge

 

[littlecordelera]

I prefer teeth through thin cotton, like a T-shirt or pajama shirt.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

My experience with nipple play has varied over the years. If I’m not aroused they are sensitive and it’s uncomfortable to have them played with. If I’m in the mood they are full of delicious sensation. I like them rolled between fingers, sucked on hard, having a tongue flicked over them, and having clamps on and pulled sometimes rather roughly. I’m general I like a more firm pressure and not so much soft touches or teasing. That can get painful or uncomfortable in a bad way, not a good way.

Well now I’m getting tingles thinking about all of this.

 

[sea7688]

Do many ladies cum from just nipple pleasuring?

 

[YoungFarmGirl]

Most comments, in this thread, refer to sucking/biting. I hope no-one minds if I tell of my fetish which is slightly different.

I lay back to front, between the legs of a girl or on the hard erection of a boy who can slide inside me, without causing discomfort.

Then leaning back, with my hands beside their hips, they reach around my chest, gently squeezing my breasts. As I become aroused, I beg them to softly touch my hard nipples with a single finger from each hand.

Moving their finger tip round and round on the top of each nipple, slowly, hardly touching at all. Then adding some cream (E45 or similar), the touches become so soft and I start to feel my whole body tingle. The nerves in my breasts and my pussy begin to respond and it is not long at all before I near faint with an orgasm.

If I am with a boy and he cums inside me as I am close to my climax.....well, need I say more.