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[thiscouldbtricky]

I'm gonna disagree with a lot of what was said in regards to people not changing yadda yadda.

I think it is completely ignorant to say that someone can't change. I've done it. I know people that have. Yes, I very strong motivator is needed. So if your husband is still doing the same shit, obviously whatever threats you made before weren't enough. Cuz that's just talk.
DO something. And if he can somehow gain your trust back, and only then, should you be with him. Otherwise, he will just keep doing the same stuff. You gotta let him know you are serious, and if he can't handle it, then they are right, you don't need him anyway

 

[Bigbobnc]

Hope you got this worked out.

I agree with what someone else had said, be honest, and talking with him about it is the best way to go IMHO. If you can't talk to him and both be honest about what's going on, then there's an issue with the relationship. Of course the hard part is what do you do when you talk to him and he says that it's innocent. Do you ask him to show you the e-mails?

To me if you approach it the right way and explain how it makes you feel, and that because of what's happened in the past you need this re-assurance and that it would go a long way to help rebuild your trust in him is the right thing for all involved.

Of course it's tough to give/get advice over a forum, but I think we are all hoping that it works out for the best, no matter what that might be.

Good Luck

 

[fairyqueen]

Just wanted to let everyone know that we did sit down and we talked over everything, he was honest with me, (I know that because of my "snooping"), he said that he knew he shouldn't have done it (again), he said he didn't know why, other than it made him feel attractive. But we've worked things out and are doing good right now. But thanks to everyone for all of the suggestions and advice. It helped me alot!!!!

 

[Bigbobnc]

*hugs*

Good to hear