AchtungNight
Lech Master
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- May 19, 2006
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In my case, yes. The specific label is “gold star lesbian”. In my honest opinion, this is disrespectful to families of people who have given their lives for American patriotism, aka Gold Star families. It is also an arrogant label in general because it implies that women who would call themselves lesbian should reject men as friends, sexual partners in the case of women who are attracted to multiple genders, and as prospects for other necessary or welcome alliances. It promotes a standard that is difficult to achieve and should not be supported if lesbians and non-lesbians want to live together comfortably in our shared world.
I get the reasoning behind this label. People are angry, they have been hurt, they want to gather adherents who share their emotions. But in my honest opinion as someone who has suffered from intolerance (full disclosure- I’m a socially awkward introvert straight man who has been victimized for my lack of masculinity), such divisive attitudes are not a good thing. I think intolerance such as this should be opposed.
My solution? Women who would love other women should call themselves what they are, “committed lesbians”. Drop their high standards that have potential to shame themselves and others. If committed lesbians are willing to accept men as friends or in other forms of alliance, they should be open to it, reconciling issues with specific people as necessary and not developing prejudice against people who share gender with their oppressors but not attitude. I hope any who reads this will agree this is a good idea.
I need to move on now. My planet needs me. Poochie out. [Simpsons reference]
I get the reasoning behind this label. People are angry, they have been hurt, they want to gather adherents who share their emotions. But in my honest opinion as someone who has suffered from intolerance (full disclosure- I’m a socially awkward introvert straight man who has been victimized for my lack of masculinity), such divisive attitudes are not a good thing. I think intolerance such as this should be opposed.
My solution? Women who would love other women should call themselves what they are, “committed lesbians”. Drop their high standards that have potential to shame themselves and others. If committed lesbians are willing to accept men as friends or in other forms of alliance, they should be open to it, reconciling issues with specific people as necessary and not developing prejudice against people who share gender with their oppressors but not attitude. I hope any who reads this will agree this is a good idea.
I need to move on now. My planet needs me. Poochie out. [Simpsons reference]