Is spontaneous bareback better than planned?

[LaotianLass]

I do it bareback with a guy if I know him pretty well and trust him. I like it a lot better. The sensation of bare skin inside makes it so much sexier and more intimate. Also I like how it feels raw and natural an wild, the fucking itself but ESPECIALLY when he cums inside.

It makes me very emotional and sometimes I get overwhelmed and I cry.

I usually decide beforehand. But I have just let go on the spur of the moment and that's a veru special thing to experience and share.

 

[EmmAgain]

Oh I’m way too chicken. Even though I’ve been on BC since day one (IUD then Depo), STIs terrify me. If it’s a hook-up, I’ll go a few strokes bareback for a pic, but otherwise… it’s shields up, rubbers on.

 

[LaotianLass]

Oh I’m way too chicken. Even though I’ve been on BC since day one (IUD then Depo), STIs terrify me. If it’s a hook-up, I’ll go a few strokes bareback for a pic, but otherwise… it’s shields up, rubbers on.

I certainly respect that

 

[LaotianLass]

I mean, you have to take responsibility for your own safety. I'm surptised how many guys are ready to go raw, no questions asked, and will pressure a girl to do it.

 

[Sexysally1234]

yes I've had many a guy tear my clothes off and try and drive it home

 

[Seasider62]

yes I've had many a guy tear my clothes off and try and drive it home

Were any successful ?

 

[m_and_em_stories]

I do it bareback with a guy if I know him pretty well and trust him. I like it a lot better. The sensation of bare skin inside makes it so much sexier and more intimate. Also I like how it feels raw and natural an wild, the fucking itself but ESPECIALLY when he cums inside.

It makes me very emotional and sometimes I get overwhelmed and I cry.

I usually decide beforehand. But I have just let go on the spur of the moment and that's a veru special thing to experience and share.

My partners seem to share this view from what they've told me including the emotional aspect. I've somehow always had my female partners suggest we stop using them before I do, and then I was paranoid about pregnancy Ah to be young(er) again.

 

[MillennialNerd90]

I mean, you have to take responsibility for your own safety. I'm surptised how many guys are ready to go raw, no questions asked, and will pressure a girl to do it.

Unfortunately a lot of guys have problems with boundaries

 

[m_and_em_stories]

yes I've had many a guy tear my clothes off and try and drive it home

I have 1 friend, and only 1 friend that has such an instantaneous on switch that she loves it 'raw' as she calls it, which is 0 foreplay, tear clothes off and go at it.

She is the only girl I've met that also shares my libido. Unfortunately we're TOO alike in a lot of other ways and together would be a complete nightmare so we both decided (while naked and cursing not having a condom) to not sleep together and haven't.

I don't know any other women that would enjoy that outside rare situations from what I know of them.

 

[XoStAndrew]

I've enjoyed going bare both spontaneously and when it's planned.

I love the anticipation when I know "tonight's the night" and we've communicated and agreed and we're ready. This is usually how it happens for me. That "first time" feeling us just exquisite.

On the other hand...the thrill of being with a hot, aggressive guy and losing control and letting it happen...the risk, the danger, it's wildly intoxicating and addictive. I've only done it this way a few times, but those times rank among my most memorable experiences.

What do you think?

Damn good question....I would never go spontaneously bare with a fling. But, if we've dated for a while, and it happens, it's a thrill.

 

[lily_wall_]

I'm worried about disease, not so much about getting pregnant.

The younger stupid me used to go bareback with guys I met a few minutes ago, like I haven't even seen their face in proper light. It scares me just thinking back and how lucky I am to not get any disease.

I still do it but the supposedly wiser me thinks or pauses before going bareback with a guy I literally just met

 

[kreemi_pi]

I'm worried about disease, not so much about getting pregnant.

The younger stupid me used to go bareback with guys I met a few minutes ago, like I haven't even seen their face in proper light. It scares me just thinking back and how lucky I am to not get any disease.

I still do it but the supposedly wiser me thinks or pauses before going bareback with a guy I literally just met

Sister, aint no argument with any of that.

Young and stupid me is lucky to still be walkin' in this world.

Lotta people would say I'm still young snd stupid about bareback but I'm way smarter than i used to be.

But my god, MY GOD I just fuckin loooove doin it rough and RAWWWW

 

[Live4themoments]

In my fantasy life I would always go bareback when possible. However, in my reality life I have only done bareback with a select few. Those were long lasting relationships of many years and I felt confident I could trust them. In my situation the problem that arises is even if I trust them to be truthful and faithful (to me lol), the majority were married women at the time. I could trust them but had no faith in their spouses. Their husbands could be having affairs, catch a std, and pass it to wife, then she passes it to me. Since I was married at the time I could pass it to my wife then all hell would break loose. Forget about single women since I would expect no reason for them to be just with me during our relationship. Just safer and less worrisome for me, but that's just me.

 

[kreemi_pi]

In my fantasy life I would always go bareback when possible. However, in my reality life I have only done bareback with a select few. Those were long lasting relationships of many years and I felt confident I could trust them. In my situation the problem that arises is even if I trust them to be truthful and faithful (to me lol), the majority were married women at the time. I could trust them but had no faith in their spouses. Their husbands could be having affairs, catch a std, and pass it to wife, then she passes it to me. Since I was married at the time I could pass it to my wife then all hell would break loose. Forget about single women since I would expect no reason for them to be just with me during our relationship. Just safer and less worrisome for me, but that's just me.

That's most people. And it should be.

 

[Live4themoments]

Sister, aint no argument with any of that.

Young and stupid me is lucky to still be walkin' in this world.

Lotta people would say I'm still young snd stupid about bareback but I'm way smarter than i used to be.

But my god, MY GOD I just fuckin loooove doin it rough and RAWWWW

I can almost hear a little growl with RAWWWW. My fantasy life has kicked in overdrive

 

[kreemi_pi]

I can almost hear a little growl with RAWWWW. My fantasy life has kicked in overdrive

grr