Is shaving over-rated?

[ElaineWest]

I was just wondering how many men and women feel that "sex will be SO much better if the woman is shaved" is very over-rated?

I have been hearing this for the longest time!! It pisses me off because I tried it and I didn't find that it all that exciting, the sex was already exciting!!!

Now I have all those nice little ingrown hairs as it's coming back and it itches like hell!

My husband thought giving me oral sex with a shaved pussy was very nice but it doesn't matter to him, he is happy when I am happy.

Anyone else find this?

 

[Roll-One]

I think it is very much over-rated.. its a personal thing i think....

It doesn't matter to me , either way, i'll eat it shaved or bushy or trimmed, or shaped. styled, curled or straightened...

 

[wild_jay]

Elaine, sounds like we've had a similar experience.

I finally convinced my wife to try shaving and I did as well. I enjoyed going down on her more and there was certainly a different feel as we had sex. (Not to mention the actual shaving was really great fun, we planned an evening around it. Believe me you really have to trust your partner when they are running a razor over your balls. Good thing I never forgot our anniversary.)

In the end she really didn't like being shaving herself but,loved me shaved, although she left it up to me. I actually prefer it, it is cooler, and anything that makes me look bigger is okay with me.

 

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[Cheyenne]

over rated?

Nope!
It's Magic!

 

[loki]

I find the sight of a neatly shaven pussy very a erotic. It's a beautiful thing, and it fells wonderful beneath my tongue.

 

[Latina]

My bush was shaved for sugery early in our relationship. He likes it BETTER now that it grew back. Says that thick hairiness makes me look more mature and sophisticated, shaved looked like a pre-pubescent little girl. Likes to kiss my bush and run his fingers through it. Feeling him playing in the right general area but not QUITE where I need him to be, is a true turn-on for me, the anticipation and all that.

So neither of us see the attraction in shaving her "down there".

--Latina

 

[Samuari]

shaven may be overrated

Personaly, I like either shaved or neatly trimed. It just shows that she cares about how she looks down there, good hygene.

 

[ANiceGuy]

I've usually had better sex with shaved girlfriends.

Once I discovered how much more fun sex was with shaved girl friends I have not had an unshaved girlfriend. To me it means among other things a girl is really interested in oral and is very into squeezing every enhancement out of making love. Nothing more of a turn off than chocking on a single hair during oral play. If a girl is shaved I know she is going to be holding my by the ears pretty quick! Every shaved girl I've asked said she felt more bare than not. Every bi-girl I've know was shaved to but I don't know if this is normal or just my experience.

ANiceGuy

 

[Skitten]

Personally I like to have mine shaven it is a more erotic feeling than to have all that hair in the way. There is no need for it there so I got rid of it. And if a woman is shaven it is her personal preference yes, but I think it is showing how she cares about herself. I know my hubby likes it better and I would never go back to not shaven it feels and looks better, but that is me personally. I don't think it is over-rated I like it and a lot more women do than you may think but it all has to do with what you are comfortable with. If you are not that is your preference, but it is better than having hair everywhere and its just in the way.

 

[Guest]

I was just wondering how many men and women feel that "sex will be SO much better if the woman is shaved" is very over-rated?

I don't know about overrated or not, but in my personal opinion I think a bald or almost hairless pussy looks sexier. (Same with hairless balls on men.) One of my biggest pet peves is "flossing" when going down on someone! Yuckie!

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[ANiceGuy]

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[Guest]

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[Puddles The Wonder Poodle]

I find the sight of a neatly shaven pussy very a erotic. It's a beautiful thing, and it fells wonderful beneath my tongue.

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[Shelby]

SHAVED...is the way to go. Pussy, balls, everything.
Firstly, the erotic sensation from shaving. Oh la la.

Secondly, from a female point of view, the sensation is wonderful. A shaved pussy against underwear. Oh la la.

Thirdly, watching my bf's cock go in & out is not obstructed by hair. (You guessed it, Oh la la)

And lastly (though not really..just time to stop) as Tiggs said, pulling hair out of your teeth is such a waste of time, and could be an unforunate necessity at the wrong moment.

Little ingrowns & hassle etc.....ask Cheyenne!!!!! Her
remedy is Magic. Thank-you Cheyenne!!!!

 

[Whispersecret]

It all boils down to personal preference on both sides.

Hygiene is not the issue. You can be clean and hairy. I hope that men aren't running around with the idea that women who don't shave don't care about their bodies or aren't clean. For God's sake, that's ridiculous.

And the hair in the mouth factor? I honestly don't see what the big deal is. Spit it out and move on. To me, it doesn't affect the experience all that much.

 

[ANiceGuy]

Choacking puts a hold on romance.

It is very hard to be sexy when you are gagging on one little hair. It also means you have a tendency not to suck as much to avoid the swallowed hair problem. I am much more uninhibited when the pussy is bare!!! If everything else is perfect but she doesn't shave I'll put up with it but we won't have nearly as much fun!! hehehe

 

[Cheyenne]

SHAVED...is the way to go.

Little ingrowns & hassle etc.....ask Cheyenne!!!!! Her
remedy is Magic. Thank-you Cheyenne!!!!

You're welcome, of course. Magic Lotion is just that, it's Magic!

 

[AJPLAY]

For What it's worth

I find that orally it doesn't make much of a difference to me. Shaved is better but not a real factor. However I find after a good work out, when the hair is long or has grown back, the base of my member becomes irratated and sometimes stays that way for a couple of days. Not bad enough to prevent the next session and nothing to complain about unless she wants to go again right away. But if she does then obviuosly it wasn't much of a workout. But that's my opinion and we all know what they're like.

 

[R Nitelight]

BB

Hi!

 

[BlondeBeauty]

Nite

You are crazy!

 

[R Nitelight]

BlondeBeauty

No big secret.

 

[BlondeBeauty]

Just my opinion...

I think that hair "down there" makes me feel more like a woman, but being shaved makes me feel more naughty and fun...honestly, I can't decide which I like better...hmm...guess I'll just let the guy decide...

 

[Samuari]

It all boils down to personal preference on both sides.

Hygiene is not the issue. You can be clean and hairy. I hope that men aren't running around with the idea that women who don't shave don't care about their bodies or aren't clean. For God's sake, that's ridiculous.

Whisper, I didn't say that gals that didn't shave were unclean. Hygene is easier with bare or closely trimed pussies. When you first look at a pretty shaved or neatly trimed pussy (my prefrence), you have no doubt that this women takes care of her self.

What I did mean, was that when you spend the extra time to make your pussy look pretty, it shows that you care about what I see and experance when I am with you. Sort of like fixing your hair after you washed it before going out.

 

[Mr_Neb]

Like just about everything else regarding sex, it really gets down to personal preference. For many years my wife and I didn't do much trimming but just before a romantic evening, by coincidence, we both shaved before our wonderful interlude. I completely shaved my shaft and balls. She left hair on her mons but completely shaved around her opening. What a wonderful difference for both of us!!! That was about a year ago and we have kept the practice up.

For me, being extrememly visual, it makes everything easier to see. She is more exposed to me when we are making love. The unobscurred sight of me sliding in and out of her provides an additional level of enjoyment. I also enjoy watching her go down on me when I am clean shaven. It is so much better than seeing her nose enter that tuft of hair. She is especially wet in her technique too and the feeling of all that wetness sliding down me and onto my hairless balls is a wonderful sensation. The same goes for when she slides my wet balls about her face. It is all so smooth.

When I am licking her, the wet skin to wet skin sensation is especially arousing to me. I get to enjoy her wetness so much more when the contact is so direct.

From her point of view (yes, there is a Mrs. Neb. Go ahead, email her), she says she enjoys fellatio much more now that I remain shaved. She says that everything feels so much smoother on her lips and face and she enjoys that. I can assure you that the frequency of our oral sex practices certainly prove that out! For her, the sensations during intercourse and cunnilingus haven't changed all that much but she enjoys the feelings that her clothes provide while shaved.

Mr. (and Mrs.) Neb