Is my wife a size queen now?

[ExpoOpxe]

My wife and I have been together for about 10 years. She’s only been with me. I’m about average size, maybe even below. 5ish long, 4ish girth. She does not yet know I have this fetish or interest.

Well, we tried a dildo out and initially I had to convince her. It is significantly bigger than me. She was convinced it wouldn’t fit, said she didn’t think she could take it. She begrudgingly said she’d try it.

I can’t describe how it went when we finally tried it. She completely lost control of her breath the second it went inside. She became a wet mess. Her moans sounded so authentic and real, and then she started to cum with just the penetration which she had never done before. Afterwards, she completely denied enjoying it and said it was just “ok.”

However, I have been placing the dildo in specific locations where I can tell if she has taken/used it, and I’m not kidding, it seems like she is using is just about everyday before I get home. I am still not sure if I want her to really sleep with someone else, but her secretly fucking herself with this big thing has really turned me on. But it’s hard as well. Do you think she prefers it to me?

 

[1darknightowl]

you have been married 10 years? Instead of placing it locations,just ask her if she likes it?

Does she like it more than you? probably not.

 

[ExpoOpxe]

Well, when I asked her she deflects or says it is “ok” but what I saw said something different. That’s why I was curious to see if she’d use it solo

 

[MaturemanAJ]

As with many men you are interested in your wife having sex with other men specifically with someone with a larger cock than you.
There is nothing wrong with admitting it to yourself and her.
She of course like most women will decide she doesn't want to hurt your feelings or damage your relationship so she will tell you she doesn't really like the dildo and doesn't want other men.

She does however and now you need to decide before you go further can you handle your wife having other man/men in her life. Do you want to risk her leaving you for a bigger cock?
Will she anyway? All questions you have to be prepared to answer.

Now next question do you want to indulge in cock? If you are struggling with your sexuality don't there is nothing wrong with being straight, bi or gay

Answer your own questions and then proceed slowly and see how she responds, insert pillow talk as you have sex and see if she gets extra excited when you ask her if she wants a real cock the size or her dildo.
She will either shut you down, deflect the question or just ignore you.

If you are brave tell her you jackoff thinking about her fucking and sucking a bigger, better cock than yours.

Be prepared however as the answers will just lead to more questions that you might end up not liking the answers to

 

[1darknightowl]

Without knowing the full details of your marriage it sounds to me she is just experiimenting with something new and not comfortable admitting it.

I would bring it into the bedrrom again. Use it on her/ watchher with it and just enjoy her pleasure. Make it a game, I told my wife I was jellous her dildo got her before I did one night.

As for does she want other men? To me it's a giant leap in subject but be prepaired to hear an honest answer.

 

[ExpoOpxe]

Without knowing the full details of your marriage it sounds to me she is just experiimenting with something new and not comfortable admitting it.

I would bring it into the bedrrom again. Use it on her/ watchher with it and just enjoy her pleasure. Make it a game, I told my wife I was jellous her dildo got her before Idid one night.

Totally get the missing context angle. I think something that is relevant and not mentioned in the initial post is that PIV sex between us has never been particularly great for a number of reasons. So. It’s something she has craved for a bit and I think that’s another reason the dildo hits so good for her

 

[ExpoOpxe]

As with many men you are interested in your wife having sex with other men specifically with someone with a larger cock than you.
There is nothing wrong with admitting it to yourself and her.
She of course like most women will decide she doesn't want to gurt your feelings or damage your relationship so she will tell you she doesn't really like the dildo and doesn't want other men.

She does however and now you need to decide before you go further can you handle your wife having other man/men in her life. Do you want to risk her leaving you for a bigger cock?
Will she anyway? All questions you have to be prepared to answer.

Now next question do you want to indulge in cock? If you are struggling with your sexuality don't there is nothing wrong with being straight, bi or gay

Answer your own questions and then proceed slowly and see how she responds, insert pillow talk as you have sex and see if she fets extra excited when you ask her if she wants a real cock the size or her dildo.
She will either shut you down, deflect the question or just ignore you.

If you are brave tell her you jackoff thinking about her fucking and sucking a bigger, better cock than yours.

Be prepared however as the answers will just lead to more questions that you might end up not liking the answers to

I have pushed dirty talk a little bit, referring to the dildo as a “big cock.” IE: “do you like that big cock in you?” and she took to it really well, in the moment. Then afterward it was back to the “oh it’s was ok” thing

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I would keep talking about it here and there don't become aggravating about it. Then say I am totally fine that you like it and that it turns you on

 

[1darknightowl]

I am still not sure if I want her to really sleep with someone else,

These are your words, has she hinted at wanting someone else? As @MaturemanAJ mentioned beware of the proverbial Guinea.

I would keep talking about it here and there don't become aggravating about it. Then say I am totally fine that you like it and that it turns you on

Good advise, if your happy to hear the answer, some directed questions around fantasies during some pillow talk.

 

[ExpoOpxe]

These are your words, has she hinted at wanting someone else? As @MaturemanAJ mentioned beware of the proverbial Guinea.

Good advise, if your happy to hear the answer, some directed questions around fantasies during some pillow talk.

She has not hinted at that, but she has played very much along with dirty talk about the dildo

 

[JoeBeans2751]

My wife and I have been together for about 10 years. She’s only been with me. I’m about average size, maybe even below. 5ish long, 4ish girth. She does not yet know I have this fetish or interest.

Well, we tried a dildo out and initially I had to convince her. It is significantly bigger than me. She was convinced it wouldn’t fit, said she didn’t think she could take it. She begrudgingly said she’d try it.

I can’t describe how it went when we finally tried it. She completely lost control of her breath the second it went inside. She became a wet mess. Her moans sounded so authentic and real, and then she started to cum with just the penetration which she had never done before. Afterwards, she completely denied enjoying it and said it was just “ok.”

However, I have been placing the dildo in specific locations where I can tell if she has taken/used it, and I’m not kidding, it seems like she is using is just about everyday before I get home. I am still not sure if I want her to really sleep with someone else, but her secretly fucking herself with this big thing has really turned me on. But it’s hard as well. Do you think she prefers it to me?

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[robbiewillsucku]

start licking her pussy clean after you fuck her

 

[Ellies_adventures]

start licking her pussy clean after you fuck her

Slight edit, eat her to the big O before you slide in, then follow Robbie's advice and make her cum again. Then feed her the big dildo (vibrator or dildo?) And role-play that it's another guys cock and she gets her 3rd cum for the night. Happy wife.

 

[ExpoOpxe]

We actually watched porn yesterday (which we rarely do) and we both really got into it. I asked her if she wished that it was her pussy getting fucked and she unapologetically said yes, that her pussy aches for that and that she would cum “all over it.” It was exhilarating

 

[Ellies_adventures]

Buy her an even bigger dildo, tell her it's for valentines day, she will say it's not valentines day, tell her you want every day to be valentines day

 

[WonderPonder]

She probably loved it but only said it was OK because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. My wife was kind of like that with fantasies before our lifestyle change. She always said she had no fantasies when I asked her until years later. She had only had intercourse with me and then she finally admitted that she'd like to be with someone else who had a bigger cock.

 

[ExpoOpxe]

She probably loved it but only said it was OK because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. My wife was kind of like that with fantasies before our lifestyle change. She always said she had no fantasies when I asked her until years later. She had only had intercourse with me and then she finally admitted that she'd like to be with someone else who had a bigger cock.

she is coming around to openly admitting she craves and likes it now

 

[Brittttlvr]

she is coming around to openly admitting she craves and likes it now

Hard to get the wife to admit that your cock is inadequate for her fantasies. The porn and the big dildo will get her thinking, for sure.

 

[ExpoOpxe]

Buy her an even bigger dildo, tell her it's for valentines day, she will say it's not valentines day, tell her you want every day to be valentines day

I want to keep it reasonable size because to me it’s hotter if it’s a size a guy can realistically have

 

[Just4you2use44]

has she fucked you since she started using the bigger dildo? That should tell you what she prefers...

 

[Ciceri]

My wife is petite - (90 lbs 4,'10") and can take a big dildo. She already owned one when we met. I was surprised. It put my cock to shame. She says she's taken it anally but I haven't tried it. That's reserved for my member

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

My wife and I have been together for about 10 years. She’s only been with me. I’m about average size, maybe even below. 5ish long, 4ish girth. She does not yet know I have this fetish or interest.

Well, we tried a dildo out and initially I had to convince her. It is significantly bigger than me. She was convinced it wouldn’t fit, said she didn’t think she could take it. She begrudgingly said she’d try it.

I can’t describe how it went when we finally tried it. She completely lost control of her breath the second it went inside. She became a wet mess. Her moans sounded so authentic and real, and then she started to cum with just the penetration which she had never done before. Afterwards, she completely denied enjoying it and said it was just “ok.”

However, I have been placing the dildo in specific locations where I can tell if she has taken/used it, and I’m not kidding, it seems like she is using is just about everyday before I get home. I am still not sure if I want her to really sleep with someone else, but her secretly fucking herself with this big thing has really turned me on. But it’s hard as well. Do you think she prefers it to me?

Epic transformation!!

 

[jimmyturtleman]

My wife told me for over 50 years that my cock was the perfect size for her and that she could never handle anything bigger. She was lying to me. Probably to save me from embarrassment and humiliation for only having a small penis. After being with an old H.S. boyfriend of hers, I watched her facial expressions and listened intently as she described his cock.

"It's BIG, REALLY BIG. And not just long, it's THICK, REALLY THICK." Size does matter to her, and many, many other women.

 

[ExpoOpxe]

has she fucked you since she started using the bigger dildo? That should tell you what she prefers...

She does, but it’s different now. I feel like she used to fake moans (that at the time I thought were real) but now she sort of sits there almost indifferently no matter what I do during PIV.

 

[ExpoOpxe]

My wife told me for over 50 years that my cock was the perfect size for her and that she could never handle anything bigger. She was lying to me. Probably to save me from embarrassment and humiliation for only having a small penis. After being with an old H.S. boyfriend of hers, I watched her facial expressions and listened intently as she described his cock.

"It's BIG, REALLY BIG. And not just long, it's THICK, REALLY THICK." Size does matter to her, and many, many other women.

I imagine it does vary from woman to woman. But generally, given that women are generally attracted to size psychologically with height, frame etc it only makes sense that the same would hold for cocks. Then, add the mechanical/physical difference girth makes to stimulation and it seems like for more women then not it would be a huge plus