Is it weird to want to watch?

bethsboy

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I have a few fantasies...as do we all. But one is over-riding. The idea of watching someone else have sex...to see them actually getting so excited that they they cum. Watching porn movies is so-so...watching the amateur porn is better...but to actually be there and watch sex first-hand would be a tremendous turn-on. I have discussed this with my wife, and we have a great sex life by the way, and I even get really excited by the idea of watching her suck another guy's cock ( which I have also told her...she considered it but says she loves me too much....I think she is just worried that it would end up affecting our marriage...like not being able to let it go, a la "Indecent Propsal"...maybe she is smarter than me after all).

I would not be able to keep from stroking myself if I was watching somebody else...I don't particularly want to participate, but watching would be too exciting. (Though another of my major fantasies is to suck another guy's cock...).

Sorry to run on and take up space, but it's late.....
 
I think just about everybody is turned on by voyeurism. Sex is a private, intimate experience. To have someone in there that's not supposed to be there is such a taboo, and "taboo" is synonymous with "erotic".
 
Watching

I have watched my wife get a massage by a good friend of ours. He willl end up by having her totally uncovered and she is totally nude. He will rub and fondle her tits for several minutess before he starts to suck on them. He continues down to her pussy. He will rub her outer lips for minutes before inserting his finger. He will finger fuck her and pllay with her clit or just rub her G spot until she cums. He does all of this while I watch. It is the hottest thing to see her cum while our friend plays with her.
 
I like the idea of watching another couple having sex "live" in front of me. I also would'nt mind playing with her a bit either, like an erotic massage or a spanking.

Perhaps just having her husband "show her off" to me by fingering her till she cums or making her make herself cum in front of us or a group.

As a voyeur I look forward to meeting an exhibitionist couple whoo would do these things.

If anyone from Amstelveen reads this you would be more than welcome to contact me.

:)
 
Nope. I sometimes think about sitting, naked, in a chair in the bedroom and watch my girlfriend and her husband fuck. Would especially like it if he kept glancing at me while fucking her. Which position would you take while watching? I would prefer him fucking her doggy style with me looking at them from front (where I could watch their faces; like the natural expressions, not the fake ones like porn stars have). :kiss:
 
bouncingbetty said:
Nope. I sometimes think about sitting, naked, in a chair in the bedroom and watch my girlfriend and her husband fuck. Would especially like it if he kept glancing at me while fucking her. Which position would you take while watching? I would prefer him fucking her doggy style with me looking at them from front (where I could watch their faces; like the natural expressions, not the fake ones like porn stars have). :kiss:


The idea of bringing in someone else to what I have always held so intimately, or to watch them as they invite me into such a moment is breathtaking
 
SheraQueen said:
The idea of bringing in someone else to what I have always held so intimately, or to watch them as they invite me into such a moment is breathtaking


I couldnt say it better myself :)
 
Doggy-style is great for both watching and being watched. And great accessiblility! (lol)

:nana:
 
watching

Hi in college I had an apt next to an older single lady, who was a high school teacher. I never closed my drapes and she spied on me all the time. I am sure over 3 years she saw me naked almost every night and masturbate a few times a week. Anyway after a month or so into this, she started leaving her ights on when she undressed too and was showing off for me. On several occations she had men over and I was able to watch them fuck. She used to sit on his cock facing her window and me, I had the perfect view of watching him fuck her and she was watching me naked too. I liked that position because I could see his cock going in her and I also loved how her tits jiggled and how he'd hold and play with them. It was hot!!
 
hotidhoguy said:
Hi in college I had an apt next to an older single lady, who was a high school teacher. I never closed my drapes and she spied on me all the time. I am sure over 3 years she saw me naked almost every night and masturbate a few times a week. Anyway after a month or so into this, she started leaving her ights on when she undressed too and was showing off for me. On several occations she had men over and I was able to watch them fuck. She used to sit on his cock facing her window and me, I had the perfect view of watching him fuck her and she was watching me naked too. I liked that position because I could see his cock going in her and I also loved how her tits jiggled and how he'd hold and play with them. It was hot!!


like they say in real estate...

location location location
 
Watching a man and a woman, or even two women actually is pretty appealing, but the idea of them just looking at me by myself atching them (particularly if I were naked) is a little uncomfortable. Plus, maybe I could learn some stuff.
 
snake0067 said:
Watching a man and a woman, or even two women actually is pretty appealing, but the idea of them just looking at me by myself atching them (particularly if I were naked) is a little uncomfortable. Plus, maybe I could learn some stuff.


I think being seen watching is just as much of a turn on
 
I think in the right sort of situation, all that sort of stuff could be really erotic and goodtimes.

But people have the worst sex hang ups. Even people that want to be sexually liberated. And you have to be careful about setting things up so that what transpires doesn't end up making shit wierd.

That said, as long as I was sure it would be wierd with those involved. I'd probably watch, be watched, participate, or whatever. I think that's sort of the thrill over ampics compared to regular porn.
 
dancing_monnkey said:
I think in the right sort of situation, all that sort of stuff could be really erotic and goodtimes.

But people have the worst sex hang ups. Even people that want to be sexually liberated. And you have to be careful about setting things up so that what transpires doesn't end up making shit wierd.

That said, as long as I was sure it would be wierd with those involved. I'd probably watch, be watched, participate, or whatever. I think that's sort of the thrill over ampics compared to regular porn.


Put me down for all of the above!
 
iamdick100 said:
I have watched my wife get a massage by a good friend of ours. He willl end up by having her totally uncovered and she is totally nude. He will rub and fondle her tits for several minutess before he starts to suck on them. He continues down to her pussy. He will rub her outer lips for minutes before inserting his finger. He will finger fuck her and pllay with her clit or just rub her G spot until she cums. He does all of this while I watch. It is the hottest thing to see her cum while our friend plays with her.

I haven't read all the posts yet...but this one made me smile and squirm...oh YEAH~! :devil:
:D
 
More Real Life

Later. I will continue with some real life massages in the next day or so. They will be real life stories. Stay tuned.
 
iamdick100 said:
Later. I will continue with some real life massages in the next day or so. They will be real life stories. Stay tuned.

MMMmmm....I look forward to it... :devil: :cathappy: :D
 
No

bethsboy said:
I have a few fantasies...as do we all. But one is over-riding. The idea of watching someone else have sex...to see them actually getting so excited that they they cum. Watching porn movies is so-so...watching the amateur porn is better...but to actually be there and watch sex first-hand would be a tremendous turn-on. I have discussed this with my wife, and we have a great sex life by the way, and I even get really excited by the idea of watching her suck another guy's cock ( which I have also told her...she considered it but says she loves me too much....I think she is just worried that it would end up affecting our marriage...like not being able to let it go, a la "Indecent Propsal"...maybe she is smarter than me after all).

I would not be able to keep from stroking myself if I was watching somebody else...I don't particularly want to participate, but watching would be too exciting. (Though another of my major fantasies is to suck another guy's cock...).

Sorry to run on and take up space, but it's late.....

No, I've been to sex clubs. It is highly erotic. Watching porn is about the same thing. Most big cities have them. You just have to get invited or qualify.
 
Hi

hotidhoguy said:
Hi in college I had an apt next to an older single lady, who was a high school teacher. I never closed my drapes and she spied on me all the time. I am sure over 3 years she saw me naked almost every night and masturbate a few times a week. Anyway after a month or so into this, she started leaving her ights on when she undressed too and was showing off for me. On several occations she had men over and I was able to watch them fuck. She used to sit on his cock facing her window and me, I had the perfect view of watching him fuck her and she was watching me naked too. I liked that position because I could see his cock going in her and I also loved how her tits jiggled and how he'd hold and play with them. It was hot!!


In NY, I used to have a telescope. Saw everything. Since I looked, I would masturbate with a vibe in front of the huge living room windows. Nice Monday night. Best viewing times were 11pm-3am.
 
Watching is wonderful, as is being watched. The combo of voyeur and exhibitionism is a hot delight!
 
I just love watching. I loved watching my ex with another man or woman, and we both enjoyed watching other couples do it as we masturbated. I'm divorced now (and no, that wasn't the cause). I like being watched too, and I often invite a guy to come and watch me when I am with a gf who is into that
 
I love to watch, for me it gets me very hot. Watching porn movies does nothing for me anymore, as the real thing does. :devil: So it is not weird to watch at all. :D :nana:
 
Watching is HOT

I found out how hot it was to watch when a friend of ours said he gave a really good massage. H e gave me one and then asked my wife if she would like one. She put on a nightie and came to the massage table. Our friend left the room so my wife could take off her nightie. She covered up with a sheet. Our friend, Bill, came in and started to massage her back. As he continued lower on her back, I started to think that if he started to rub her ass it would be exciting. He finally got to her lower back and continued onto her ass. As he rubbed her ass, the sheet was pushed down. Her ass was totally exposed and Bill & I was turned on. After another 30 minutes or so, he had her turn over. Bill started at her feet and worked up towards her pussy. He kept pushing the sheet higher and higher until the moment of the started to expose her pussy. We were besides ourselves. Bill didn't touch her but simply pulled the sheet down and moved the the head of the table. As he massaged her shoulders, his hands worked their way down the front of her chest. My wife wears a 34DDD bra. By the time his hands were almost down too her nipples, she said, "Oh, what the hell." and removed the sheet. Bill's hands immediately cupped her tits. He massage her big boobs for 15 minutes or more. This had to be one of the most exciting moments I had had to this point. My wife has gone topless in front of Bill many times since then.
 
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