Is it true that some straight women fantasize about another women?

[YourSecretDesires]

Now I can't tell whether you're seriously saying "touching yourself is gay?"

One can say that seriously without gaslighting. Doesn't make it right, but it doesn't mean it's gaslighting.

One can also say it without meaning it, and still not be gaslighting. Were you just being cutesy, or do you mean it?

If you read the post, you'll see that's not what I said. You're welcome to your own interpretations, it really does not matter one way or another since it was an opinion.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I've been known to fantasize about women now and then.... or now.

I have fantasized about watching you with another woman.

 

[lil_jenni]

To my way of thinking, the premise is still problematic. The issue as I see it is that straight vs non-straight is being treated as a binary system rather than a spectrum.

Someone at the straight end of the spectrum may not have any same sex fantasies. And if a person does have even a modicum of same sex fantasies, that person likely is not firmly at the straight end of the spectrum. She may be really close to straight, or as a friend of mine once put it, "functionally straight," without being fully straight.

The problem is we try it shove folks into boxes based on outdated theories of sexuality, then create exceptions rather than recognize the whole model is lacking in nuance.

 

[Jerryluvsoral]

My theory is that everyone is a little bit bi. Can't prove it though. I mean you love yourself and touch your own privates, no?

I love your illustration

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

I mostly fantasize about guys. I really love the D.

I just find male fragility and posturing really tiring.

As a result, as I gotten older I've started fantasizing more more about women.

 

[YourSecretDesires]

To my way of thinking, the premise is still problematic. The issue as I see it is that straight vs non-straight is being treated as a binary system rather than a spectrum.

Someone at the straight end of the spectrum may not have any same sex fantasies. And if a person does have even a modicum of same sex fantasies, that person likely is not firmly at the straight end of the spectrum. She may be really close to straight, or as a friend of mine once put it, "functionally straight," without being fully straight.

The problem is we try it shove folks into boxes based on outdated theories of sexuality, then create exceptions rather than recognize the whole model is lacking in nuance.

100% agree!

 

[MiaBabe23]

I love looking at beautiful and sexy women, enjoy watching lesbian porn, and have enjoyed fantasies and rp involving women. I also once drunkenly kissed a friend
But I’ve only had that sense of deep, animal attraction and need towards men, and only ever felt romantically drawn to men
I suppose I’m straight but curious - I wouldn’t discount the idea of something with a woman - but I agree, the labels do try to stuff us into boxes

 

[YourSecretDesires]

I love your illustration

Can't take credit for that. I probably should give it where it's due but I forgot to include the artist's name.

 

[DEPRAVED_WHORE]

What's turns a straight women into a bi/gay women?.......One more drink!

 

[Deleted member 6780262]

What's turns a straight women into a bi/gay women?.......One more drink!

Can definately help

 

[Deleted member 6780262]

My wife has a fridge magnet that says "Wine makes my clothes fall off". It has worked for her with both men and women!

Sexy ladies ,nice boobs and vodka, that's my kryptonite

 

[Iwant2havefun]

No, I can safely confirm that my wife doesn't fantasize about other women. Simply put she's not interested in them.

but do you REALLY know??

 

[marriedpervs]

What's turns a straight women into a bi/gay women?.......One more drink!

A tongue kiss on the dance floor

 

[lil_jenni]

I mostly fantasize about guys. I really love the D.

I just find male fragility and posturing really tiring.

As a result, as I gotten older I've started fantasizing more more about women.

The same for me, except I've turned the corner, and my fantasies that don't involve my Hubby mainly involve other women... And even the ones with Hubby do not infrequently involve other women too...

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

I'm STUNNED to think that you haven't at least enjoyed plushie rides together with another woman.

I wish

 

[magic_rat]

My mistake, due to lack of attention, I admit. I was thinking in one thing and wrote another. Now changed the word “every” for “some”.

to which the answer is obviously yes, as is the anwser to the question do some (insert gender, group, nationality, religion here) fantasise about (insert just about anything here).