Is it shallow to want to date a thin woman?

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Simple enough question.

look i am not a thin nut. Long as you are healthy. I just consider it shallow for some reason that i have this want. I dunno
 
Not shallow, I guess. It's a choice. The reasons behind it would make it shallow.
 
VermilionSkye said:
Not shallow, I guess. It's a choice. The reasons behind it would make it shallow.


how can you say that?

if you like tall dark haired men is that a shallow reason?
 
VermilionSkye said:
Not shallow, I guess. It's a choice. The reasons behind it would make it shallow.

I think perferences of this type are for the most part subconcious and formed by early experiences. I have always been attracted to big/stout/heafty/beefy men but I have no idea really why I find them so attractive.
 
If you're attracted to a certain body type there is nothing wrong with that.
 
plasmaball said:
Simple enough question.

look i am not a thin nut. Long as you are healthy. I just consider it shallow for some reason that i have this want. I dunno

No; I consider it personal preference or a superficiality related to weight. If you are superficial or shallow on many levels, then perhaps you should analyze yourself more.

I prefer normal - meaty/thicker men and won't date a skinny man. It's not manly to me; it's not attractive to me.
 
As much as I adore really large, strong men; that's not what I chose when it came to having children since I wanted my girl to have a greater chance at being average. My family is quite large and I know how it feels to be a bigger person. If I mixed it up with a big guy the poor thing would have been huge. Both of my kids were over eight pounds as it is.

You do what you want and see what her parents look like if you can. If you fall hard for a chubby one then just help get her back on track a bit.
 
Lushisss said:
Oh please. Time and space shall n'er be a hindrance to our love.


lol but i don't plan to move to cali.

I have never been with a "thin" woman. My gf's have always been on the heavy side. While their wieght never truely bothered me. It was the fact that they were unhealthy.
 
plasmaball said:
lol but i don't plan to move to cali.

I have never been with a "thin" woman. My gf's have always been on the heavy side. While their wieght never truely bothered me. It was the fact that they were unhealthy.
Are you concerned about the g/f you have now? Are you still with that young lady?


and we will to be together damnit!
 
Lushisss said:
Are you concerned about the g/f you have now? Are you still with that young lady?


and we will to be together damnit!


not sure whats going on in my life with women.

Someday we will rub bums.
 
plasmaball said:
Simple enough question.

look i am not a thin nut. Long as you are healthy. I just consider it shallow for some reason that i have this want. I dunno

If you met a woman who had the personality and shared interests that you were looking for, would you automatically write her off because she wasn't thin? If the answer is yes, then I have to say that your desire for a thin woman is indeed shallow.
 
plasmaball said:
not sure whats going on in my life with women.

Someday we will rub bums.
:Kip style:
Yessssssssssssssssssss.




Sorry to hear bout the ladies sugar. :rose:
 
Meat Whistler said:
No; I consider it personal preference or a superficiality related to weight. If you are superficial or shallow on many levels, then perhaps you should analyze yourself more.

I prefer normal - meaty/thicker men and won't date a skinny man. It's not manly to me; it's not attractive to me.
if you are not turned on by heavy set women, then why are you called shallow?
How can one make that judgement??
 
mrmgp said:
If you met a woman who had the personality and shared interests that you were looking for, would you automatically write her off because she wasn't thin? If the answer is yes, then I have to say that your desire for a thin woman is indeed shallow.


not at all.
 
Lushisss said:
:Kip style:
Yessssssssssssssssssss.




Sorry to hear bout the ladies sugar. :rose:


life will sort itself out. If you ever call me! I will expand on it for you.
 
plasmaball said:
not at all.

Then don't worry about it. We all have our physical preferences. I prefer women with meat on their bones and generally don't get turned on by really thin women. But if a woman came along who was everything I was looking for, I wouldn't turn her away because of her size.

Stop worrying about your preference. You aren't shallow.
 
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