Is it really considered cheating when your spouse doesn't want to do the anything "experimental" in bed? I have several fetishes and fantasies ... the usual anal stuff, being dominated, dominating, roleplaying ... and my wife thinks that they are sick and demented and I am just a bad person for wanting to explore more. Anyone else have a problem with spouse's that just don't like exploration?
Is it really cheating???
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midwestyankee
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Can't say that I have this precise problem.
Has she told you she considers your desires to be a form of cheating? Or does she think that acting on those desires - with her, mind you - would be cheating?
Just curious.
Has she told you she considers your desires to be a form of cheating? Or does she think that acting on those desires - with her, mind you - would be cheating?
Just curious.
capricious_chic
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Eh?
Is it cheating to have these desires or is it cheating to have these desires and act them out with someone who is not your spouse because your spouse isn't into them?
Clarify your question please.
Is it cheating to have these desires or is it cheating to have these desires and act them out with someone who is not your spouse because your spouse isn't into them?
Clarify your question please.
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the fact that you wonder if something is cheating seems to indicate you think it is in fact cheating. and maybe you hope someone here will give you permission or absolution to cheat. which indicates you do not have your spouses agreement to pursue this outside your marriage.
to cheat is to cross a line that you cannot retract. to cross that line is an irretrievable act. are you prepared for that?
having been in a 10 yr marriage that did not allow anything except missionary position (and only 8 times per year), i know the frustration you speak of.
think hard about the true price of what you want.
good luck,
be well, shy
to cheat is to cross a line that you cannot retract. to cross that line is an irretrievable act. are you prepared for that?
having been in a 10 yr marriage that did not allow anything except missionary position (and only 8 times per year), i know the frustration you speak of.
think hard about the true price of what you want.
good luck,
be well, shy
