Is it porn?

[jeepster610]

After 35 years of marriage, our sex life has become almost nil. But back in the day it was fabulous. Around the year 2000, I purchased a Sony 8mm video camera, and for about three years we made sex videos, hours of her sucking my cock, cumming in her mouth, her recording me masturbating, her masturbating with a dildo, close up fucking, you get the idea. Some time later I converted these video tapes to digital videos, and stored them on a portable SSD. The old Sony finally gave up the ghost, and by the time I finally purchased a digital video camera, our sex life was just about over, so no more making sex tapes.

So now days my sex life mostly involves masturbating, and when I masturbate, I never masturbate to on line porn, I masturbate to our sex tapes. I really get turned on watching them, and cum great. So would this be considered masturbating to porn?

 

[Saint_Ann]

After 35 years of marriage, our sex life has become almost nil. But back in the day it was fabulous. Around the year 2000, I purchased a Sony 8mm video camera, and for about three years we made sex videos, hours of her sucking my cock, cumming in her mouth, her recording me masturbating, her masturbating with a dildo, close up fucking, you get the idea. Some time later I converted these video tapes to digital videos, and stored them on a portable SSD. The old Sony finally gave up the ghost, and by the time I finally purchased a digital video camera, our sex life was just about over, so no more making sex tapes.

So now days my sex life mostly involves masturbating, and when I masturbate, I never masturbate to on line porn, I masturbate to our sex tapes. I really get turned on watching them, and cum great. So would this be considered masturbating to porn?

This makes me too sad.

Yes, it's porn.

 

[aego99x]

I'd consider it "home movies" that just happen to involve sex.

 

[wouldloveto]

I don't think any label matters. You recorded beautiful scenes with your lover, now you get to re-live those times. Good for you!
My wife lost her libido also, and we never taped anything, so I envy you.

 

[jeepster610]

I don't think any label matters. You recorded beautiful scenes with your lover, now you get to re-live those times. Good for you!
My wife lost her libido also, and we never taped anything, so I envy you.

Thank you for that!! That is so true. After she lost interest in sex and didn't want to watch the videos any more she wanted me to erase all of them, which I did. I just forgot to mention that I made digital copies. I know that there are some that would say that I should be shot for not admitting that the digital copies exist but they are worth more than gold to me, and they are not going anywhere. Totally encrypted and secure.

 

[jeepster610]

This makes me too sad.

Yes, it's porn.

So why does this make you "too sad"? Very curious...

 

[Saint_Ann]

So why does this make you "too sad"? Very curious...

After 43 years, my sexlife keeps getting better and better. Anything less than that is inconceivable to me. Any videos I might take now would fall into the granny sex category.

You have my condolences.

 

[Britva415]

would this be considered masturbating to porn?

I don't see why not.

Is this a "settle an argument" type of question?

The bigger issue is less about whether you can be honest about whether you masturbate to porn or not, and more about whether you can be honest about whether you masturbate to porn you told her you destroyed or not.

I saw your rationalization about how "it's not a lie" but

 

[slipprywenwet]

After 35 years of marriage, our sex life has become almost nil. But back in the day it was fabulous. Around the year 2000, I purchased a Sony 8mm video camera, and for about three years we made sex videos, hours of her sucking my cock, cumming in her mouth, her recording me masturbating, her masturbating with a dildo, close up fucking, you get the idea. Some time later I converted these video tapes to digital videos, and stored them on a portable SSD. The old Sony finally gave up the ghost, and by the time I finally purchased a digital video camera, our sex life was just about over, so no more making sex tapes.

So now days my sex life mostly involves masturbating, and when I masturbate, I never masturbate to on line porn, I masturbate to our sex tapes. I really get turned on watching them, and cum great. So would this be considered masturbating to porn?

Porn? It is if you want it to be. More to the point, lucky you for having those recordings to enjoy all over again. Online porn couldn't hold a candle to those personal times. Good on you.

 

[sexymanfun]

After 35 years of marriage, our sex life has become almost nil. But back in the day it was fabulous. Around the year 2000, I purchased a Sony 8mm video camera, and for about three years we made sex videos, hours of her sucking my cock, cumming in her mouth, her recording me masturbating, her masturbating with a dildo, close up fucking, you get the idea. Some time later I converted these video tapes to digital videos, and stored them on a portable SSD. The old Sony finally gave up the ghost, and by the time I finally purchased a digital video camera, our sex life was just about over, so no more making sex tapes.

So now days my sex life mostly involves masturbating, and when I masturbate, I never masturbate to on line porn, I masturbate to our sex tapes. I really get turned on watching them, and cum great. So would this be considered masturbating to porn?

Please provide a link for further assessment

 

[oldguymem]

That is very special you have those moments of joy captured and that you an still enjoy them. A lot of us dearly wish we were able to have done the same. I can remember some times I would give major money to have on film, instead of my failing memory.

 

[jeepster610]

Yes, you are absolutely right. I am so glad that I have these videos now. Had I not made them, or worse, destroyed them as was requested, there would be nothing but memories. Watching these videos is almost like being there again, but not quite. But that's about as good as its going to get, I guess.

 

[alexgriffin74]

Not porn. Your videos are missing/lack the impersonality of porn. If you were to watch a video of the on-stage production of your high school play that you were in, would you say you're watching theater or would you say you are watching YOUR performance in hamlet or whatever. There is a PERSONAL connection here that porn lacks.

 

[SusanHoward]

I don’t have any home movies, but sometimes we’ll see a movie clip I was in!

 

[jeepster610]

Not porn. Your videos are missing lack the impersonality of porn. If you were to watch a video of the on-stage production of your high school play that you were in, would you say you're watching theater or would you say you are watching YOUR performance in hamlet or whatever. There is a PERSONAL connection here that porn lacks.

Thanks Alex, you make a very valid point. I suppose that is one reason why I prefer my own videos over internet porn, even if I didn't realize it. Make a lot of sense.....

 

[NightBirdNYC]

I think you are masturbating to your own lovely memories, made all the more vivid and lossless because of the videos … we all do I think. I think of special moments I have had when masturbating, or things I would like to have happen as well. My hubby and I video our own fun on occasion, and as an exhibitionist I sometimes use my tripod and camera to video my own home alone time. And if I met my demise, I would be happy to know that someone still pleasured themselves as they watched me or us, enjoying the wonderful pleasure our bodies afford us…

 

[Achingluv]

I don’t have any home movies, but sometimes we’ll see a movie clip I was in!

Now I'll just need some of those movie titles for, um, research. Yeah, that's it, research!

 

[CantStopStroking]

After 43 years, my sexlife keeps getting better and better. Anything less than that is inconceivable to me. Any videos I might take now would fall into the granny sex category.

You have my condolences.

Are you saying in your 40s you'd be making Granny porn, or that after 43 years of having sex you'd be making granny porn?

Whatever floats your boat. If you feel sexy doing it and really enjoy it, there is without question and audience for it. I've seen cam performers well into their 70s (if their bios are to be believed, though they do look the part). That said, I've also seen 60 and 70 year old that look like they are in their 30s and 40s.

 

[CantStopStroking]

Not porn. Your videos are missing/lack the impersonality of porn. If you were to watch a video of the on-stage production of your high school play that you were in, would you say you're watching theater or would you say you are watching YOUR performance in hamlet or whatever. There is a PERSONAL connection here that porn lacks.

100% agree with this post. The only videos I have done are with previous partners and they don't exist anymore. That'd be questionable id say from the perspective of your current partner, unless they are into and ok with watching you and a previous partner.

 

[Saint_Ann]

Are you saying in your 40s you'd be making Granny porn, or that after 43 years of having sex you'd be making granny porn?

Whatever floats your boat. If you feel sexy doing it and really enjoy it, there is without question and audience for it. I've seen cam performers well into their 70s (if their bios are to be believed, though they do look the part). That said, I've also seen 60 and 70 year old that look like they are in their 30s and 40s.

Your math is fuzzy unless you think I started having sex at 1.

 

[CantStopStroking]

Your math is fuzzy unless you think I started having sex at 1.

Lol, like I said; I didn't know if the 43 was your age or the number of years you've been enjoying sex (43 + whatever age you started) would presumably put you late 50s/early 60s.

If you're in your 40s, you have at LEAST 2 decades before you hit granny status.