Is it odd to like older women so much?

[MTBR]

Hey all.

Its not really a problem, but in the past year, all I want is older women. I've had a few relationhips with teenagers (my own peer group at 19), and it just doesn't cut it now.

I had a few episodes with a friend of mine in a nearby town. Literally the most cliche thing, but just sitting around her house and having a laugh with her as I always do suddenly turned to moving into more sexual-based conversation (how I'm doing with girls, etc) and then... The rest. And this happened a few times, and it was fantastic! Loved every second of it.

I think its the maturity, the experience and generally a more solid outlook on life, intelligence, etc.

Just wondered if anyone else had a real thing for older women. Its literally like I can't look twice at people my own age or younger. Anything from early Twenties, right up to mid/late forties and that, mixed with the above and attractiveness (which they all seem to have with confidence, age, etc), and I just fall head over heels.

Just wanted to know if I'm the only one who enjoys older women a lot more then peers.

 

[dreamykitten2]

its not unusual

I am a professional woman in my middle 50's and I have been approached by quite a few young guys mainly in their 20's . It seems its more popular than you think. Kitten

 

[40ishCouple]

I'm a youngish 43 and I get hit on all the time by younger guys. I love it, of course...

 

[Morpheus69]

I think it's the maturity and confidence an older lady generates. I was definitely looking more toward older women when I was younger.

 

[NeverWinterNite]

It's not odd. I think it's very natural.

I have had lots of fun with guys who are in their twenties. Actually, I enjoy it because they can keep up with me.

 

[MTBR]

I think it's the maturity and confidence an older lady generates. I was definitely looking more toward older women when I was younger.

Agreed. Like with my friend, she's so sexy in her confidence with her image. She's not like many teenage girls, getting slapped up. (Not that all teenage girls do this, not for a second suggesting it).

There's something so, so sexy in having that confidence, and I think that only comes with age.

Its not massively older women then myself, either. Even a year older, I still fall for. But there's something so, so great about late thirties / early forties...

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

it's about as opposite as odd as you can get. women reach their sexual peak much later than men do. i don't remember the averages, but i believe it's early 20s for men and late 30s for women. there are many older women out there who prefer younger men because not only are they fun to be with, but they can give them a good fucking anytime they wanted.

and guys like them because they have been through all of life's bullshits and know what they want and don't want. and like Morpheus69 said, older women exude more confidence, which is a big turn on for me.

i have always been attracted to older women. dating back to my late teens. my first crush was on a gym teacher who was in her 40s.

the old cliche holds true in that most women do get better with age.

 

[strapon_tales]

I don't think so at all. Older people, in general, are classier, more intelligent, more at peace with themselves. That appeals to me a lot more than some dyed-blonde tart.

 

[MTBR]

I think it's the maturity and confidence an older lady generates. I was definitely looking more toward older women when I was younger.

Agreed. Like with my friend, she's so sexy in her confidence with her image. She's not like many teenage girls, getting slapped up. (Not that all teenage girls do this, not for a second suggesting it).

There's something so, so sexy in having that confidence, and I think that only comes with age.

Its not massively older women then myself, either. Even a year older, I still fall for. But there's something so, so great about late thirties / early forties...

 

[bigkahuna9]

I dont think its odd at all. It is only natural..in many cases as young guys we come across and older woman who we find attractive as our hormose kick in...be it a friends mother, an older siblings wife, teachers, etc that we encounter. Some innocently some through accidental peaks of lingerie, naked /undressing, or in swimwear. etc. They fuel fantasies that are burned into our teenage minds and are often part of any first masturbation experiences.

Then we often fumble with early experiences with girls your age and find many of them to be no more experienced than you... so the thought of and older woman who is sexually mature, experienced and willing and not judgemental but often times seems to enjoy educating a younger lover seems to be a fantasy on many womens minds as well.

As we age it seems we as guys not only like those same older women but start to look back at young girls andf their lack of maturity and sexual experience as another fantasy....

Each has a bit of taboo associated with it making them all that much more erotic and satisfying if they were to happen.

We always seem to want what we cant have...or maybe we can LOL

 

[amofiga]

The definition of "older woman" certainly changes during one's life. I can remember when I thought 30 was old. Most of the young women I had relationships with when I was in college or just out before getting married were my age. After about 15 years of marriage, I had my first outside relationship with an "older woman". I was 39 at the time and she was 47....older married woman. Wiser perhaps...just a little maybe. She had had other relatioships like this before me. It lasted about two years. About 5 years after that, when I was about 45, I had a similar relationship with a "younger married woman". She was 37 at the time. Seven years older than what I once thought of as "old." That lasted a few years. By the time I reached 49, I again had a relationship with an "older married woman". She was 55 and a grandmother. At one point in my life if you had told me that I would be having such relations with a grandmother, I'd have told you that you were nuts. That lasted several years. Now, I'm over 60. I look back and from my current frame of reference, I think of all of them as "younger women".

Age is always relative. It's also irrlevant to good sex and friendship. What's important is open uninhibited communication, compatibility, and mutual caring. As I think back about myself and my attitudes during the course of my life, I'd say no woman is really a woman till she's at least 35 and been around the barn a couple of times. By the time she's 45, she's just starting to understand life. By the time she's 55, she has some true wisdom and isn't as likely to play those silly stupid head games that the 20-somethings are so good at.

 

[KatieTay]

I think the song "Motherlover" is perfect for this thread.

 

[goodsonformom]

I love mature women, I always have. My first lover was far older than I and she taught me everything.

 

[TexasWild]

I have always loved older women. When I was a teenager, I usually JO to fantasies about older women. Usually they were good looking mothers at the local country club or mothers of friends. Even that I am middle age, I still lust over older women. I saw a nice looking older woman at the grocery store the other day that really turned me on. A big turn on is watching older women seducing younger men and I that I am that man in the video. Long story short, I ended up marrying an older women.

I hope to hear some more stories from guys who also like older women.

 

[lantern88]

I see nothing wrong with it at all i am 23 years old and I love mature women, I find myself mostly attracted to women in their 30s to 50s nothing beats a sexy older woman, their class, intelligence, maturity they way they carry themselves everyhting i love about them

 

[statestreet]

I'm 55 and there are several women in their 60's and 70's I'd enjoy having sex with!

 

[itouchmyse1f]

I am 36 and i work at a college and I'm constantly being hit on and flirted with by 18, 19, and 20 year old guys

 

[jennifer036]

we know what we are doing. kids don't know anything.

 

[CNYCarol]

Heck, my first gf was 13 years older than me.

...and after 2 years, I gave her my cherry.

 

[LordofBlackbirds]

Well my friend, I can honestly say I see where you're coming from. Around where I live, there are a lot of girls my age(19-25) and I can say that they always come with drama, craziness, or some kind of strings attached. The more mature women seem to have passed that phase and there's nothing to worry about. And it's like you said, they have experience and maturity so that's always a plus.

 

[klippert]

I only dated two girls younger than myself.....this isn't the same a just hooking up. My first real sex educator was 42 (divorced) I was a horned up 18.....Mrs K. 6yrs older than myself

 

[ignorantslut69]

right out of college, I "dated" a few older women. Some of the best experiences I ever had.

 

[HeyAll]

No. I love their class and elegence...and just the way they look in general. It's hard to explain.

 

[TeaforMe]

I absolutely love it when younger men flirt with me. Well, I like it when men of ll ages flirt with me..lol...but the young ones can be fun to make blush a little.

 

[Iamnotthe1]

I wonder what is going on these days because I get hit on by men much younger than me also. I'm in my late 40's and I just recently had a 29 year old ask me out. I have dated someone before who was 32. I don't think I could go much younger than that since my own son is almost 20.