Is it normal....

[Miyu-chan]

... for a virgin to be horny most of the times? I come from a traditional asian family but my mind has been wondering into sex-related thoughts for the past few years.

I read erotica, I ( secretly ) watch my brother's porn collection and I masturbate a lot. I'm just wondering if it's normal for a virgin to be so horny.

~ Miyu

 

[Willing and Unsure]

in a word, yes.

 

[SlickTony]

Of course it is. I wish someone had told me this when I was young, but nobody did, but at least I can tell you.

 

[JRaven]

It's hormones

As you mature, hormones are produced in larger quantities. It's what gives women their period and men hair on their face. It also drives sexual desire. Without it, we as a species wouldn't be interested in reproduction.

It's not just normal, it's SUPPOSED to happen! Enjoy!

 

[dollface007]

Yes, it's perfectly normal.

 

[N1Cutie320]

it is totally normail for you to be so horny...it is just a part of life. you definitely need to fulfill your needs and look at it this way you are only discovering what you like and do not like so when the big first time arrives you will be able to guide your hunni to your hunni pot

 

[Mr.G]

Don't let family/religious/cultural/traditional (whetever that is) ethics get in the way of reality.

There are 1.5 BILLION Chinese and 2 BILLION other "Asians" so it's fairly apparent that being horny is NOT an unfamilair feeling for you guys.

It's not for us either ... just that our women swallow a lot more, I guess.

 

[Miyu-chan]

I've been to the chatroom two times... and the first time wasn't a nice experience because when I told one guy that I'm a 21 year old virgin, he thinks I'm a freak.

As horny as I am, I'm too embarassed to go to the next step with my guy friends. Sometimes I wish my upbringing wasn't that traditional. It's really hard being a horny virgin that's too embarassed to make out with a guy...

 

[N1Cutie320]

maybe you should make out with a girl first then...like a close friend who you will not be embarassed around...just a thought. you need to be comfortable with your sexuality before expressing it to others.

 

[Pimptress J]

I've been to the chatroom two times... and the first time wasn't a nice experience because when I told one guy that I'm a 21 year old virgin, he thinks I'm a freak.

As horny as I am, I'm too embarassed to go to the next step with my guy friends. Sometimes I wish my upbringing wasn't that traditional. It's really hard being a horny virgin that's too embarassed to make out with a guy...

Good for you that you are a virgin.
Are you waiting for the right one?

Nothing to be embarrassed about, it is natural for you to be horny, in fact it is a good thing.
As far as the traditional upbringing goes, you need to decide what is right for you, not what you have been told is right for you.
I have a manwhore that specializes.

 

[Miyu-chan]

I'm horny for guys only... so making out with girls is a definite no-no to me. The reason I wanted to watch porn was to look at the guys, not the girls.

Pimptress J :
~ Yes, I'm waiting for the right one. I want my first time with a guy that I love and one that loves me. Maybe I'd be a one-night stand girl after that but that's another story. (^_^)

I'm trying to learn how to be more expressive... This I know I have to learn because during some of my chats, I think I made some of them bored because I don't know how to make them feel horny.

 

[Machiavellian]

Lucky you!

I would like to remind you of how horney young people are -- it doesn't change as you get older - it gets worse.
Virgin or Not.

I wish I was still a virgin - somethings you can't take back no matter how long you withhold === it just can't happen.
No you are not a freak - you are more fortunate than many of us.

 

[blondie74]

I would say that it would be abnormal the other way, if you weren't horny all the time! No worries!

 

[steveee]

I think is normal.....
Do you have bf if you don't mind i am asking.... once u date someone, you should know....

 

[VirginGirl18]

it must be tough for you. I know what its like to be forced to keep your desires inside...its normal though xD although keep in mind of your healthy boundaries...I almost wound up having unprotected sex with some idiot who was using me to get laid o.o