Is it normal...

[DannyOcean1974]

Is it normal for an early 40’s father and a late 30’s mother of 4 to not have the kids around for 15 days and only make love twice?

 

[pointless]

sure.

 

[raindancer]

Don't get hung up what's "normal." If you want more sex, pamper your lady.

 

[DannyOcean1974]

Kinda hard to pamper your lady when she’s tired all the time from working a night shift job, and has a hobby that takes up alot of her time when she doesn’t work

 

[raindancer]

4 kids, night shift...well, yes, she is exhausted. And I would guess that her hobby is an escape. But, it doesn't take much to pamper nor does it take much time. Women tend to pay attention to small details. Little things can make a woman feel cherished.

 

[pink]

Do the dishes. Tres sexy.

 

[DannyOcean1974]

4 kids, a husband, a night shift, horses to care for(hobby)... on top of that she signs up for every work related committee you can think of. She doesn’t have time for her family already, but finds time for this kind of stuff

Frustrated
And
Venting

 

[DannyOcean1974]

Pink...

I do dishes and laundry already (no joke)

 

[pointless]

are you going to add a new detail every time you post?

 

[raindancer]

I'm sorry you're frustrated. Have you tried talking to her? And I don't mean fighting or nagging. Maybe she needs to hear that you miss her?

 

[pointless]

communicating?

with loved ones?

dude, gross.

nah, cyber pity fucks are the way to go.

 

[OldJourno]

Take a shower. Change your underwear. Go for the really expensive bottle of KY.
But mostly change your underwear.

 

[DannyOcean1974]

I could write a novel about this... and I understand that it’s only my point of view you’re all getting, but I relly don’t think I’m stretching the truth here. We’ve spoken in depth 4-5 times about my frustrations about the lack of physicality in our life. Things never change. She’s always tired, never makes any effort to initiate any intimacy. She’s so tired all the time that now she’s becoming messy. Doesn’t pick up after herself, leaves stuff around the house all the time...

I’m really at my wits end trying to sort this out. The only thing keeping me in the relationship right now are my 4 kids

 

[HAL_9000]

Priorities, man. Priorities.

 

[raindancer]

Couples counseling.

 

[Saint Peter]

porn

easy peasy

 

[DannyOcean1974]

Funny thing is we watch/read porn together (used to)... its like it doesn’t work anymore

 

[Wings]

What is it that you were hoping to achieve with this thread?

 

[spacekowboy]

E-boning.

 

[Wings]

I prefer D-boning.

 

[spacekowboy]

Good thing that I'm debonair.

 

[Wings]

Precisely.

 

[HAL_9000]

I'm a bone-in guy, myself.

Wait. That didn't sound right.


I like my bone in. Or something. Fuck.

Steaks are better on the grill when bones are involved.

 

[KeithD]

are you going to add a new detail every time you post?

Apparently so, and, in the process, obviate the need to have asked the question at all.

 

[Hypoxia]

Is it normal for an early 40’s father and a late 30’s mother of 4 to not have the kids around for 15 days and only make love twice?

Depends on how busy y'all were with vid.games and pr0n.