Is it me...am I missing something??

[wildrose70]

I'm sorry but I just can't understand all these women who let someone called their Masters.... tell them what to do...Must be I'm too old fashioned...and still believe in equal rights and trust me ...

Ain't no man gonna tell me what to do...am I the only one that feels this way

 

[pookies]

 

[wildrose70]

Nope..you're not..I'm not so old fashioned..but that would never work for me.
But hey.."Live and let live" All different things turn us on, right!

How true sweetie....if we all liked the same things how dammed boring that would be..

I'm just this hard headed German Taurus woman...the first time a man tried to slap me on the ass I almost decked him

Clothespins make me shudder too...Ouch!!!!!

 

[Pleshy]

to answer your question bluntly... YES! you are missing a WHOLE lot.

In regards to sex there is always one person in control and one person being controlled. Some people get a kick out of being in control and some people get a kick out of being told what to do.

By the way I see just as many guys refering to women as 'mistress' and obeying them so please do not think there is a gender diffrence in the power game because that would be purely nieve.

everyone has thier own form of kink do not judge me for mine and I will not judge you for yours.

 

[wildrose70]

I don't really agree with that..I think lovemaking should be shared by 2 people and not one person in control....but then each his own...
I don't mean to put anyone down for the lifestyle they choose to follow

 

[ShyGuy68]

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[wildrose70]

Whoops guess you can't voice your opinion w/out a picture

 

[Rebellious_Sub]

I don't really agree with that..I think lovemaking should be shared by 2 people and not one person in control....but then each his own...
I don't mean to put anyone down for the lifestyle they choose to follow

Hmm, lovemaking is shared by both partners...even in the Dom/sub relationships.... but it is on another level of communicating (and trust) that also brings about a strong reaction for each of the people involved... Not saying its for everyone, but those who participate actually do enjoy it... To each his own.

~Rebellious

 

[ShyGuy68]

Whoops guess you can't voice your opinion w/out a picture

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[agibean]

I see you've got 41,000 posts

so surely you've been around long enough to have read/participated in at least one discussion about why we do what we do. Unless your post was a joke?

I am a "modern woman" who makes my own decisions and supports herself. And yet, something visceral in me is touched when my husband yanks the back of my hair, pulls me to my knees and tells me to suck him and that as thanks, he will beat my ass.

Just as it works for men who are told what to do by Dommes, and switches take turns, there is some sort of wiring in each of us kinky people that makes us want what we want from our partners. It's that simple, I think. You don't have to understand it, but I'd ask you to respect it.

I may not have 40,000 posts, but I've been at this awhile, and that's how I've found we best get along.

Agi

edited for typos

 

[*curious*]

What on earth makes you think intimacy in a BDSM relationship isn't two people sharing their souls, just because the dynamic is different from yours?

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

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Hello Shyguy how are you..........smiles

 

[wildrose70]

Okkkkkkkkkkk I give up

sorry everyone...it was cocktail hour and I had just looked at a post...and when I have a drink...I tend to run off at the mouth....

I wont post anymore negatives thoughts and stay where I belong or maybe just say so long...been good to know you

 

[SirFace]

I'm sorry but I just can't understand all these women who let someone called their Masters.... tell them what to do...Must be I'm too old fashioned...and still believe in equal rights and trust me ...

Ain't no man gonna tell me what to do...am I the only one that feels this way

2 weeks ago I would have agreed with you. Not anymore.

 

[Rebellious_Sub]

sorry everyone...it was cocktail hour and I had just looked at a post...and when I have a drink...I tend to run off at the mouth....

I wont post anymore negatives thoughts and stay where I belong or maybe just say so long...been good to know you

Don't mind a difference of opinion at all really. Life would be extremely boring if we all just agreed with each other constantly.

 

[SirFace]

And I agree with the rest of the comments made in this thread, they are right where my mind is today. It is a loving, sensual, caring thing and not somebody beating somebody else just cause they can.

 

[wildrose70]

Normally I'm a very peaceful woman...who doesnt make waves if any of you know me at all...
Like I said some times I put my mouth in gear...before I engage my brain!!!

Anyhow...no harm...no foul...everyone enjoy whatever...guess I'm just horny waiting for my lover to get his butt up here....

 

[SirFace]

Personally, Im glad you started this thread. It reminded me of the first thing that came to my mind and I though that attitude would make it impossible for me to enjoy this lifestyle. Boy was I wrong. Thanks for reminding me why I was so freaked out at first.

 

[wildrose70]

Well then

I did something right for a change So all's well that ends well...
Now and then I blow off a little steam...
To an older woman like me that was in a long term marriage and really wasn't even aware of all the things in this world...boy after divorce was a big eye opener

 

[SirFace]

I did something right for a change So all's well that ends well...
Now and then I blow off a little steam...
To an older woman like me that was in a long term marriage and really wasn't even aware of all the things in this world...boy after divorce was a big eye opener

Im no spring chicken either and I am amazed at what Ive learned about bdsm and myself in the last 2 weeks.

 

[wildrose70]

Im no spring chicken either and I am amazed at what Ive learned about bdsm and myself in the last 2 weeks.

Sounds very interesting....you must be on to something new

 

[FurryFury]

If this is truly not your thing, then you are missing nothing except understanding why it is the thing some other people are into. HOWEVER, a couple of years ago I thought, it's okay for them cause you know I LOVE my friends, but so NOT my thing. I like my sex and my violence separate!

Wow, how times change!

Not only do I now know it's my thing. I know it's always been my thing but I just never opened myself up to it.

In any case, if it is or if it isn't your thing, that's okay.

I just feel like I wasted a butt load of time, ya know?

Fury

 

[wildrose70]

Well I think I'm definately out numbered in this line of thinking....and I'm glad you have found what you enjoy.....and it's truly an education...just reading Lit

 

[FurryFury]

Well I think I'm definately out numbered in this line of thinking....and I'm glad you have found what you enjoy.....and it's truly an education...just reading Lit

Thanks!

I'm glad too!

I've also learned a lot here.

I like me better now.

*smiles*

Fury

 

[the captians wench]

Thanks!

I'm glad too!

I've also learned a lot here.

I like me better now.

*smiles*

Fury

ditto

and kisses for fury