Is it inevitable for a bottom to feel feminine?

[Samantha47]

Love that butthole

 

[Raybies93]

aren’t we all

 

[Patticd]

When dressed en femme, I only bottom

 

[ZacharyFagg]

There's lot's of very masculine bottoms, who aren't submissive and I know they don't ever feel feminine.
However, us fem types love to bottom because we feel feminine, and want to play the female sexual role.

 

[SissyBrandi19]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

I can only answer for myself and as a sissy CD gurl I strive for femininity but I think it's less I feel feminine because I bottom and more I bottom because I feel feminine. The cognitive precedes the behavior. Once you engage in the behavior, you are now entering a behavioral/cognitive positive feedback loop. Now, a word of caution: If you are teaching Psych 101 and you want to illustrate the linkage between cognition and behaviors? Maybe consider a different example. Or get that CV ready! Because friend, you're about to get that change of scenery you were wishing for!

 

[SissyBrandi19]

The experiences I had with another man many years ago were what made me want to cross dress. I wanted to play the role of the woman and feel feminine, but I wouldn't exactly call it submission. Even though I was bottoming I was the one driving the play, basically he submitted to my desire for his cock. I did want him to be more dominant with me and eventually he did play that role quite well. My SO now is a beautiful, feminine woman but she is far from submissive in bed. I don't think that submissiveness is synonymous with femininity.

You are correct. Femininity does not NECESSARILY equate with submission. In fact, many who love to manipulate a man's cock orally or otherwise, cite the "feeling of power" in that ability to make the cock harder...and harder...HARDER, DADDY! Whoa, whoa....sorry, it's um...been a minute. You were, uh....saying? Oh! I was saying...where was I? Oh yeah...cock. *Sigh*

 

[Samantha47]

You are correct. Femininity does not NECESSARILY equate with submission. In fact, many who love to manipulate a man's cock orally or otherwise, cite the "feeling of power" in that ability to make the cock harder...and harder...HARDER, DADDY! Whoa, whoa....sorry, it's um...been a minute. You were, uh....saying? Oh! I was saying...where was I? Oh yeah...cock. *Sigh*

I agree fully

 

[Raybies93]

Love that butthole

dont we all should have written

 

[rattles1280]

Agree with that. As predominantly a top who likes to switch occasionally I feel submissive but not feminine when I get fucked. Its a different type satisfaction, for me anyway.

Quoting an old post, but this. I’m the same: predominantly top, but a solidly built, confident/authoritative older man will make me feel submissive ( but not a bottom bitch).