Is it cheating
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MonaLittle
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Well, how does your wife feel about you having Phone sex with women?
Oh, you hide it from her?
Oh, you hide it from her?
Cheyenne
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Well, how does your wife feel about you having Phone sex with women?
Oh, you hide it from her?
Exactly. If you do it with your wife's okay, no problem. If you hide it and it feels like cheating? Then it is.
Ulaven_Demorte
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This question comes up often.
The short answer:
What we think is cheating doesn't matter.
What you think is cheating doesn't matter.
What your spouse thinks is cheating matters, THEY get to decide if what you're doing is cheating. Not you or anyone else.
The short answer:
What we think is cheating doesn't matter.
What you think is cheating doesn't matter.
What your spouse thinks is cheating matters, THEY get to decide if what you're doing is cheating. Not you or anyone else.
Saint Peter
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It is cheating on sex to put phone sex and sex in the same category.
MonaLittle
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Saint Peter
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Bert Notorius
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I always ask myself what would Bill Clinton do?
CandiCame
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I
this quote. It's a good descriptor of my cock.Asfaras cheating goes- anything that you lie about is cheating. You can cheat on someone with something that has nothing to do with sex. If you're lieing to your SO, you're a cheater. Deal with it. If you're not, then you're not. I'm not gonna act like I haven't been at a party at 4:00am calling going, "OMG, there's a chick here, and she's pretty hot and she wants to blow me so bad- what should I do?"
And you either get a, "I'm coming to pick your drunk ass up," or "Don't wake me up over this stupid shit." And if you get a, "Go for it," It's not cheating, it's just getting a BJ. If your SO has a problem with it, and you lie about it, or do it anyway, you're cheating. Just don't be a dick, don't be a horrible liar.
lovetoread
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It's not cheating if it's ok for both of you to do it.
So many times over the years I've been on lit, I often heard that its ok for the poor my wife doesn't understand me fellas to cyber/phone but oh noes!!! The little woman better not do it, the poor little husband of course satisfies all of her needs.
Please, grow a pair and let her know what you are doing.
So many times over the years I've been on lit, I often heard that its ok for the poor my wife doesn't understand me fellas to cyber/phone but oh noes!!! The little woman better not do it, the poor little husband of course satisfies all of her needs.
Please, grow a pair and let her know what you are doing.
Stewart_Pidd
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oral phone sex isn't actual sex bro!
Stew
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Ah, a fellow graduate of the Bill Clinton School of Sexual Ethics.
bronzeage
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Yes, it is. Deal with it anyway you want to, but unless your wife is listening on the other line, it's cheating.
The basic rule is, if you have to ask, then yeah.
blunt_trauma
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fyp. yw.
You've probably always assured her she makes great meatloaf too, right?
Friggin' disingenuous pos...
