Is giving a handjob more about sex or power?

[hotoldrguy]

I have the impression there are a lot of women that enjoy giving men a handjob. I have always wondered what they feel they get out of it. Does it give you some arousal and sexual stimulation? Does it make you feel in control and dominant? Or something else.

From the male side and men feel free to post, it is obviously sexual but I think at least for me it is also submissive.

What do you all think?

 

[fma20fma]

hi

safe and best protection from unwanted bump.

 

[cara_cumslut]

I can't speak for all women but I personally love giving a handjob because I get so turned on giving pleasure. Hearing a man groan as he enjoys my hands on him gets me off hard so for me it's just all a turn on. However I can totally get the dominance thing, too, and can see how that would work for some!

 

[done_got_old]

I have the impression there are a lot of women that enjoy giving men a handjob. I have always wondered what they feel they get out of it. Does it give you some arousal and sexual stimulation? Does it make you feel in control and dominant? Or something else.

From the male side and men feel free to post, it is obviously sexual but I think at least for me it is also submissive.

What do you all think?

I've only done one.

 

[Crownvic]

Giving pleasure..arousal...and control.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I have the impression there are a lot of women that enjoy giving men a handjob. I have always wondered what they feel they get out of it. Does it give you some arousal and sexual stimulation? Does it make you feel in control and dominant? Or something else.

From the male side and men feel free to post, it is obviously sexual but I think at least for me it is also submissive.

What do you all think?

For me, receiving is not so much submissive as it is passive.
I can just lay back and enjoy the sensations. No need to work at anything.
Also, of course, it is safe.

 

[missswannie]

The growing in your hand and using your thumb to catch all the precum. It feels good seeing the instant feedback on how they are enjoying it.

 

[Jada59]

I just love the feel of a cock in my hand and love knowing how much pleasure he's getting.

 

[SophieUK]

I think there is a power element but there is a certain visual appeal ...

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I just love the feel of a cock in my hand and love knowing how much pleasure he's getting.

Oooh.
You should get a job at a massage parlor.

 

[Crownvic]

I think there is a power element but there is a certain visual appeal ...

It’s a beautiful thing...

 

[AlwaysFara]

I prefer mouth jobs.

 

[done_got_old]

I prefer mouth jobs.

Me too.....

 

[numeniusa]

I prefer mouth jobs.

Me too.....

Same question could be asked, though...

 

[numeniusa]

I have the impression there are a lot of women that enjoy giving men a handjob. I have always wondered what they feel they get out of it. Does it give you some arousal and sexual stimulation? Does it make you feel in control and dominant? Or something else.

I've thought about this a little bit since I saw the question. For me it can be different things at different times.

For example, quite often the morning after a good late night fuck, my man will wake up with enormous morning wood and be ready to go again. A handjob in those circumstances (when I don't want to go again myself quite so soon) is a sort of service, but an enjoyable one to perform. Sort of celebratory, in a way. An echo of the night before.

As part of foreplay a non-completing handjob is fun - I like the way it builds his arousal, I very much enjoy edging him, and I think that is slightly about the power, in a 'I could push you over if I chose to do so' kind of way.

I like how it looks when my hand is wrapped round his cock, that's arousing. And the movement of my fingers, the spreading around of pre-cum, his response.

Overall I think it's mainly a 'pleasure in someone else's pleasure' thing.

 

[Nellie60]

I have the impression there are a lot of women that enjoy giving men a handjob. I have always wondered what they feel they get out of it. Does it give you some arousal and sexual stimulation? Does it make you feel in control and dominant? Or something else.

From the male side and men feel free to post, it is obviously sexual but I think at least for me it is also submissive.

What do you all think?

For me its not wanting to be submissive. I get a lot of pleasure from seeing how excited a woman can get when she really gets into it. I love the diffrences in their techniques and experience. And of course all the visuals and other phyiscal sensations.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I enjoy giving hand jobs because it means I can read with the other hand. It has got so much better since the introduction of the kindle

 

[Nellie60]

I enjoy giving hand jobs because it means I can read with the other hand. It has got so much better since the introduction of the kindle

And if no kindle?

 

[AmberLGreen]

And if no kindle?

Have to keep stopping to turn the page

Plus the Kindle is easier to clean

 

[Nellie60]

Have to keep stopping to turn the page

Plus the Kindle is easier to clean

Are you good at making a mess ha ha

 

[Nellie60]

Have to keep stopping to turn the page

Plus the Kindle is easier to clean

And if you were just focused on the job at hand ( not intended) do you find it pretty exciting?

 

[Trubbycat]

A good handjob is amazing.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife began giving hand jobs in college to try to keep her date satisfied without having sex. She also did it when on her period and she wouldn't allow sex. I had promised not to have sex with her until marriage because I didn't want to risk getting her pregnant. She gave me handjobs while I fingered her, and that was our substitute for actual sex. She wasn't a big fan of blow jobs, so she tried to get her date to settle for a hand job.

 

[Trubbycat]

When my wife and I first got together her handjobs weren't great, in fact t felt like she was yanking my dick out by the root. As time went buy her technique improved and she became quite skilled at it. She would quite literally have me in the palm of her hand. She was edging me without ever having heard of it. Damn I miss those days.