Is girl-girl sex cheating …and would a guy really turn down sex?

[Tab1]

Have you ever really thought about what is sex…I mean what constitutes having sex and what doesn’t? The issue came up on an adult movie I recent say (City of Flesh 6: Lisa’s Little Secret by Stella Films Production). One of the girls in the movie was fooling around with another woman. Her fiancé got angry and broke up with her for cheating on him. Later in the movie, his ex-girlfriend tried to have sex with him, but he refused. The movie made me ask myself whether a guy would turn down sex and whether a woman having sex with another woman is really sex. What do you guys think?

 

[Lappdog]

Well Tab, can't speak for the others, but I for one am too weak to say no to sex - ever! I guess if the offer came from someone repulsive, that would be different - but as a general rule -I say NO a man would not turn down sex!

(Are you offering?? )

Also, girl-girl sex, in my book is a-OK anytime. Guess I'm just an oversexed perv

Lapp

 

[Guttergoddess]

I for one am a firm believer in the Bill Clinton definition of sex. Oral..is not sex...however, if you are doing ANYTHING with another person behind your SO's back, that is cheating.

As to turning down sex, guess bein a girl makes it different, I turn it down all the time. (and not cuz I don't want sex, believe me I do, but because I'm selective.)

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

I say girl-on-girl is cheating. Sex is sex... the fact that you're getting fucked in some way behind your s/o's back is all that matters, and I think it's ignorant to try to make lesbian sex seem to have less meaning than straight sex.

As for would a guy turn down sex, yes, he might if he felt it was wrong. Maybe it's a co-worker, or someone he has a responsibility for (a student), or maybe he's married or in a relationship. Not all men are without morals, and I'm insulted that people seem to think that.

 

[angelsin]

I for one am a firm believer in the Bill Clinton definition of sex. Oral..is not sex...however, if you are doing ANYTHING with another person behind your SO's back, that is cheating.

As to turning down sex, guess bein a girl makes it different, I turn it down all the time. (and not cuz I don't want sex, believe me I do, but because I'm selective.)

sorry goddess have to disagree with you on the oral, the way my lover(s) moan and cum, it has to be counted as sex, as for the other I agree with you 100% if they don't know about it it is cheating, no matter what you are doing.

 

[pa-guy]

doing anything behind your partner's back is cheating. THe severity of the cheating is all up to interpretation by the people involved.

 

[Guttergoddess]

oops..I reread my reply...what I meant to say was a blow job is not sex...however...girl on girl sex is....I know it's silly....but even though I often bring my guy to completion with a BJ...I've always considered BJ's foreplay. (guess that's how I kept my "good girl" status as a teen by giving bj's rather than putting out)

 

[vibes]

oops..I reread my reply...what I meant to say was a blow job is not sex...however...girl on girl sex is....I know it's silly....but even though I often bring my guy to completion with a BJ...I've always considered BJ's foreplay. (guess that's how I kept my "good girl" status as a teen by giving bj's rather than putting out)

what is it then?

i like your av, goddess

 

[angelsin]

I think not!!!

well I have never had a man turn me down, turn me over, turn me around, but never turned me down

 

[short_circutz]

doing anything behind your partner's back is cheating. THe severity of the cheating is all up to interpretation by the people involved.

I agree with this 100%