Is foreplay a lost art?

[Cabeza]

This might sound like a pretty mild fetish but I love foreplay. It seems like a lost art these days. Everyone is really busy, attention spans are ruined by TikToks, etc. Maybe it’s a personal thing because my wife is a busy professional “I have ten minutes penciled in for sex on Tuesday night” person (but what a GREAT ten minutes).

I like playing and flirting and innuendo and taking my/our time. Anyone else?

 

[WerdNerd]

And making out too. A good old fashioned steam up the car windows preferably the back windows make out session would be amazing.

 

[KyleR215]

Gratification now!

I blame CNN and the 24 hour news cycle. We need to be instantly satisfied right now in everything we do

fast information
quick internet
news now
fast food
2 minute car wash

 

[Cabeza]

And making out too. A good old fashioned steam up the car windows preferably the back windows make out session would be amazing.

Yes! I ask my wife all the time if she wants to make out on the couch / in the car / in the movie theater and she thinks I’m kidding!

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

I don’t know about anyone else. I love to touch kiss bite and play around with my wife. We make out all the time and have been married for 10 years.

 

[Cabeza]

Gratification now!

I blame CNN and the 24 hour news cycle. We need to be instantly satisfied right now in everything we do

fast information
quick internet
news now
fast food
2 minute car wash

Yeah I hate it. OK sometimes I like fast food. But I’ll stand by my assertion that taking sex or masturbation slow is better (at least till the last few minutes lol)

 

[Cabeza]

I don’t know about anyone else. I love to touch kiss bite and play around with my wife. We make out all the time and have been married for 10 years.

See that’s what I’m talking about! It’s hot!

 

[WerdNerd]

Yes! I ask my wife all the time if she wants to make out on the couch / in the car / in the movie theater and she thinks I’m kidding!

Mine's the same but she usually says "why don't we just save time if I just suck your cock?" and before I can say anything she unzips my pants to prove her point.

 

[Cabeza]

Mine's the same but she usually says "why don't we just save time if I just suck your cock?" and before I can say anything she unzips my pants to prove her point.

I mean, that’s not the worst outcome

 

[WerdNerd]

I mean, that’s not the worst outcome

I didn't complain or try to stop her

 

[Veronica_Flora]

I’ve been rediscovering this lately with my husband. I’m guilty of rushing to go down on him as soon as we start doing anything. Hugging, kissing, taking off clothes an item at a time. Groping. Waiting until you can’t wait anymore. Would recommend.

 

[Cabeza]

I’ve been rediscovering this lately with my husband. I’m guilty of rushing to go down on him as soon as we start doing anything. Hugging, kissing, taking off clothes an item at a time. Groping. Waiting until you can’t wait anymore. Would recommend.

Isn’t it so nice to increase the tension and desire?

 

[Veronica_Flora]

Yes it is. I would like to find more ways and try new stuff. I have some ideas.

 

[Cabeza]

Yes it is. I would like to find more ways and try new stuff. I have some ideas.

I’d love to hear your ideas!

 

[Veronica_Flora]

Message me.

 

[hulmule]

Yes it is. I would like to find more ways and try new stuff. I have some ideas.

Very lucky husband ! Menopause its been years sadly

 

[AG31]

This might sound like a pretty mild fetish but I love foreplay. It seems like a lost art these days. Everyone is really busy, attention spans are ruined by TikToks, etc. Maybe it’s a personal thing because my wife is a busy professional “I have ten minutes penciled in for sex on Tuesday night” person (but what a GREAT ten minutes).

I like playing and flirting and innuendo and taking my/our time. Anyone else?

I'd say it's not even a mild fetish. What's your definition of "fetish?"

 

[Crownvic]

Foreplay is the best..so exciting..

 

[stargame]

Foreplay is the best..so exciting..

Hours and more ☆☆☆☆☆

 

[MellowingGrey]

My ex use to enjoy a massage, and without bragging I hand a sensual touch. She would lay on her front with a towel over her buttocks. I would get the oils ready and pour some onto the palms of my hands and rub them together to warm it up. I'd start at her neck and shoulders, gently kneading and stroking her delectable smooth soft skin. Slowly I would work my way down her back and sides seductively, touching the edges of her breasts. Making my way furtherdown to the edge of the towel I'd slowly inch it down to reveal the crack of her bum. Arter teasing her upper butt cheeks the towel would surreptitiously be removed to reveal her soft round cheeks. They would be next on the agenda for for my attention, gently kneading and strocking and pulling her cheeks apart. Next would be her thighs , calves and feet. I'd bend one of her legs back at the knee and work on on her foot. At this point I'd slowly pull her leg to one side, then I'd turn my attention to the other foot, againd pull her leg to the side, fully revealing her beautiful pussy. Having finisherd her feet I'd stroke the insides of her legs and work my way up to glistening slit, occasionally gently touching her lips with my finger tips. Having teased her I'd gently I'd turn her over and start on he front, again kneading her shoulders working my way down to her soft lady mounds. Gentely stroking her breasts and squeezing her nipples until the stood to attention. Moving further down her body to her midrift softly stroking running gently with my fingers in a circle round her belly button. Moving on down her body, gently stroking over her venus mons and onto her legs again kneading and stroking one; again pulling it to one side. this would repeated in a similar manner on the other leg. Her pussy on full show by now, and the glistening of her love juices between her engorged lips. I would gentle stoke down between her lips collected her juices on my finger, lifting it to my mouth and sucking of her delectable womenhood. I'd part her legs further and put my lips on hers and gently lick her clit.........


No! I think foreplay is overated. You'll not catch me wasting time on that luvy duvy stuff.

 

[wouldloveto]

I really do not get why foreplay is singled out. I love foreplay, I consider foreplay as SEX. Penetration is just one aspect of sex in my mind. Conversation, making out, kissing, fondling, and the like can be more sexy than the act of penetration, or even climax... um... (maybe not, depends on the anticipation and timing).

Anyway, I love foreplay, always have! I just consider it sex.

 

[dodgeboy2]

The 1st 25 years of out marriage was all about foreplay although it dwindled a bit from years 10 and up but not badly, however the last 15 or so it has dwindled down she says it's not age or anything usually just tired from working etc. although there are sometimes a quick kiss and/or I love you there isn't any real foreplay anymore. When she wants sex it's usually she wants to orgasm 1st, which I have never minded I always wanted her to 1st and enjoyed and still do when she does, but she used to enjoy playing with me or cuddling before we would make love allowing her to calm from her orgasm(s), yes sometime multiple even at her age, but now she just wants me to mount her and sometimes as she puts it "Get it over with". I have tried things to spice it up and maybe return to those younger years to no avail.