Is BusyBody a Racist?

[koalabear]

This thread is about 30 people ignorantly and maliciously demanding that Busybody conform because public health would be better if only the gays would conform?

Chill perg, not 30 people, a few shared accounts.

 

[cjh]

Chill perg, not 30 people, a few shared accounts.

Hey Koala!

Long time no see!

Got any new lawn jockey photos to share with us?

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Look, belief systems are not really the issue, here.

When you insult people based on race once, twice, three times, I can handle it. A hundred times? No more. You're fucking done. You're a clown who takes down his pants and shits on the floor repeatedly, and who thinks that's funny?

As for Vetteman, well, he's a friend of mine. I don't agree with all of his political opinions, and obviously you don't either, but he is nothing like Busybody. He'll be as cordial with you as you are with him.

Naaah. Niggaz need constant reminding theyre digging their hole deeper and deeper with their herding instinct. Its an African thang. Paint a gazelle's horns orange, and the lions will kill him within 2 days. The lion look for targets whats different. Niggaz know this. What the Nigga dont get is, he aint in Africa no mo. The Nigga think the white mens is all lions.

 

[cjh]

Yes, but he only calls those of us with boobs "dear" while doing so.

Why is "dear" bad? Vetteman knows.

I keep waiting for him to call me "dear" and inform me that one day when I am grown I too will understand.

Now run along Reci dear and let the men worry these types of things.

 

[koalabear]

Hey Koala!

Long time no see!

Got any new lawn jockey photos to share with us?

Nope, you stopped sending them to me.

 

[Byron In Exile]

I can't have hamsters any more. When I was little they were cute and adorable and I just wanted to look at them. When I got older I realized all they wanted to escape and bite me on the way out.

They made me cry. Stupid wet tail.

Lol...

When I was a kid, after a couple of dead hamsters, children learning about death, etc., our peeps got us a squirrel.

So much smarter and so much more fun... but not at first.

She would bite any human hand that came near her. It was apparent that she'd been traumatized in shipping... her left leg had clearly been broken... and she was a mess, emotionally.

It took about a year before I could actually pick her up out of her cage and hold her. Best pet besides a beagle, though.

 

[cjh]

Nope, you stopped sending them to me.

It's a sad day when you deny your own acts.

 

[koalabear]

It's a sad day when you deny your own acts.

I denied nothing pereg, maybe you need to click a tab.

 

[Byron In Exile]

Unless you're a woman.

Can you be specific?

 

[Recidiva]

I keep waiting for him to call me "dear" and inform me that one day when I am grown I too will understand.

Now run along Reci dear and let the men worry these types of things.

Well, vette and several others are on ignore for the dear thing. Once a certain tone comes into play...

It's just crossing too many boundaries at once with an attitude that is skeevy enough to make me slam and lock the door.

He's selling, I'm not buying, I'm not answering if the door knocks again. *shiver*

If someone makes clear that they're condescending to me only because of my boob ownership, then I realize they're only talking to the boobs. Since the boobs don't talk back...that's my answer.

 

[Byron In Exile]

I do.

Timeless, classic humor that I still giggle at depending on the clown. It's all in the delivery. Some clowns crap funny, others don't.

Very few clowns can pull this off.

You clearly run in elite circles...

 

[Recidiva]

Lol...

When I was a kid, after a couple of dead hamsters, children learning about death, etc., our peeps got us a squirrel.

So much smarter and so much more fun... but not at first.

She would bite any human hand that came near her. It was apparent that she'd been traumatized in shipping... her left leg had clearly been broken... and she was a mess, emotionally.

It took about a year before I could actually pick her up out of her cage and hold her. Best pet besides a beagle, though.

Hamsters are my favoritest thing, I had literally hundreds of them as a kid. Made my mom crazy.

Had one named Cannibal that when I reached for him he'd bite the tip of my finger and I could lift him out that way. He died of wet tail and I spent about two days nursing him in the palm of my hand. Really tragic.

When my son was born I gave it another try and bred a pair, but the mother ate and neglected her babies and I had little graves in the backyard. Cried every day for two weeks. Can't do it again.

 

[cjh]

I denied nothing pereg, maybe you need to click a tab.

Sure you did.

You stepped away from your own will and acts.

That takes a heavy dose of cowardice.

 

[Byron In Exile]

When you speak to women here, you are condescending and patronizing, not to mention dismissive.

Is this something recent?

I used to follow the board more...

 

[Byron In Exile]

: popcorn,oil,pot:

Lol...

 

[koalabear]

Sure you did.

You stepped away from your own will and acts.

That takes a heavy dose of cowardice.

I stepped away from nothing, your tab must be bent. You are the coward pereg.

 

[Byron In Exile]

I didn't think so.

Dude, you slammed the door after only 20 minutes.

An honest invitation, and that door would not be slammed ever.

 

[cjh]

Well, vette and several others are on ignore for the dear thing. Once a certain tone comes into play...

It's just crossing too many boundaries at once with an attitude that is skeevy enough to make me slam and lock the door.

He's selling, I'm not buying, I'm not answering if the door knocks again. *shiver*

If someone makes clear that they're condescending to me only because of my boob ownership, then I realize they're only talking to the boobs. Since the boobs don't talk back...that's my answer.

I don't think he recognizes the condescension dripping from those comments. I hadn't thought about the accompanying skeeviness. That surfaces in some of his posts when he tries to make up to Kate for coming down so harshly on gays by objectifying her. Weird logic.

 

[Recidiva]

Can you be specific?

Not a mystery that vette resorts to abuse. I called him on calling me dear once. He persisted, I put him on ignore.

It's not equivalent to, but is in the tone of a white guy calling a black guy boy.

It assumes a superior social relationship in the sense that a white guy talking to the black guy assumes that being white is superior to being black and therefore boy is justified because of implied social status.

It's an attempt to belittle by assuming an intimate relationship with a woman and trying to use it in a conversational tone to mimic the conversations a couple might have, of a husband chastising his wife and correcting her. I find it immediately offensive and haven't yet met anybody who does it who isn't either an avowed misogynist or someone who is just willing to tromp on any hot button someone might have. Neither is an admirable tactic and I avoid them.

Vette and I never developed an actual friendship, many of his comments were directed, complimentarily or non-complimentarily toward my ownership of boobs and it always comes back to that in a pinch.

It's jolting enough to want to write him off as a person to avoid it happening again. He defended himself disingenuously, I put him on ignore.

He knows what he's doing.

 

[Recidiva]

I don't think he recognizes the condescension dripping from those comments. I hadn't thought about the accompanying skeeviness. That surfaces in some of his posts when he tries to make up to Kate for coming down so harshly on gays by objectifying her. Weird logic.

I did point it out, and he just did the "I did no such thing, madam!" in the tone of "I am shocked, shocked to discover that gambling is going on in this establishment."

Yeah, I call bullshit.

 

[Byron In Exile]

Yes, but he only calls those of us with boobs "dear" while doing so.

Why is "dear" bad? Vetteman knows.

Yeah, but boobs are fun.

I'm more concerned with the fact that you're casting aspersions upon boobs.

 

[Recidiva]

Is this something recent?

I used to follow the board more...

Not recent. Has always been there. He starts as a respectful gentleman, in a southern sort of yes ma'am tone. I met him first in my Visiting Hours thread.

But once I'd moved into political discussions, the yes ma'am was gone and was replaced with dear.

Both indicate an inability to stop addressing a female as a female and speak to them as if they were just a person.

The strategy is not directed toward men. But to Vette, you're a madonna or you're a whore. It's pretty obvious in its delivery. As a guy you likely don't pick up on it and just think he's being courtly and then prickly.

 

[Recidiva]

Yeah, but boobs are fun.

I'm more concerned with the fact that you're casting aspersions upon boobs.

Boobs are awesome. But with great boobs come great responsibility.

 

[Byron In Exile]

I don't think he recognizes the condescension dripping from those comments. I hadn't thought about the accompanying skeeviness. That surfaces in some of his posts when he tries to make up to Kate for coming down so harshly on gays by objectifying her. Weird logic.

nobody out-skeeves me and gets away with it, by the gods...

 

[cjh]

nobody out-skeeves me and gets away with it, by the gods...

Hah. I've yet to detect skeeve in you.