is Bigger better????

[Ck Me Out 2005]

i have heard so much about the size of a man, that i was wondering if its really true. does it feel better or is just the idea sounds better? i know i enjoy looking at a nice big thing (i'm male) but then wonder how much use can you get out of it. movies i've seen the guy only seems to enter maybe half way, i like to watch movies were it goes in all the way and you can hear the sound as it slap. i like it when you are in all the way and hear the slapping sounds as you slam in.

 

[DG_Heracles]

It is my understanding that most women don't thinks size is a huge issue. I know my wife thinks that anything over 9 is way too big. It turns out that I am facinated with anything in the range of seven to ten; thick is good. Most of my masturbation fantasy over the past couple weeks has been centered around this.

 

[Recidiva]

I have to say one of the best lovers I had wasn't the best endowed, it was what he did.

And I did have a lover with a Dong of Death and that was just bloody painful.

So some people have a prejudice, but to me it's about how it feels.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I like the LOOK of a 9-incher... anything more than that just terrifies me.

I've had everything from 4.75 inches to 9 inches (and sucked on an 11 incher... wouldn't fuck it though). My PREFERENCE, is somewhere in the 6-6.5 range.

My honey is 8-8.5 (depending on the day), and honest to god, after 4.5 years together, he still hurts me with that thing EVERY SINGLE TIME. No matter how prepared we are, no matter how excited and lubed up I am, it still stretches me to hurting. Now, I'm a masochist, so I don't mind the pain, but still.

 

[DG_Heracles]

I like the LOOK of a 9-incher... anything more than that just terrifies me.

I've had everything from 4.75 inches to 9 inches (and sucked on an 11 incher... wouldn't fuck it though). My PREFERENCE, is somewhere in the 6-6.5 range.

My honey is 8-8.5 (depending on the day), and honest to god, after 4.5 years together, he still hurts me with that thing EVERY SINGLE TIME. No matter how prepared we are, no matter how excited and lubed up I am, it still stretches me to hurting. Now, I'm a masochist, so I don't mind the pain, but still.

What was your reaction the first time you realized how big your honey was?

 

[DG_Heracles]

Is it possible the fascination with size is primarily a male thing?

 

[peanutsx39]

Just nicer sometimes.....

[My Husband isn't very large, a little under 6 inches I believe and not very thick But I have been with guys that were smaller and larger before.
Although I didn't seek out men that was well endowed I just happened that way a few times for me,........But as for me,.Yes, I enjoyed the larger better I would say. Not just because of the fullfillment part, But for me it's so hot playing with and doing oral on a guy that is well endowed. It was always a turn on for me anyway.
But I will also agree that size isn't everything,..That's for sure, Most all of my orgasms are from oral.
We have a larger Dildo that we play with during or love making sometimes, I think it's 8 inches and kinda thick. I enjoy playing with it when Im in the right mood, ........Yes,..There is a difference,...For me anyway.

 

[Recidiva]

Is it possible the fascination with size is primarily a male thing?

Primarily, yes.

Women though, do play the game as well.

I think it's a prejudice, because in my experience, if a guy thinks he is a big deal because of his size, he's a loser in bed.

The smart money is just on someone who uses what they have to their best advantage.

 

[NymphGoddess]

Is it possible the fascination with size is primarily a male thing?

Not necessarily...My first lover is 9.5'' and because of how good a lover he was I LOVE big...but my lover now is about 7'' or so and he's amazing!! For me it's partially size but a LOT of it is what he does...and not just what he does with his hard cock.

 

[vanelane]

For me, somewhat bigger can be better for intercourse, but I prefer average size for oral because I like to try to swallow it whole. Overall it's definitely skill that matters.

 

[Raimondin]

For all you size queens

http://penissizelinks.com/

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[Wolfman1982]

size shouldn´t matter.

Women and to men that prefer big COCKS, I can only say this, I got a damn small one, and like one Danish standup comedian said : It only takes 8 CM to make a child(I think his name is Jacob Tingleff, or Thomas Harttman since it was on their DVD together called "farvelagte frustrationer"), so whats the fuss ? Ok I have a bit bigger than that, but not really that much bigger.

People: it is really not the size that matters, it is what you can do with what you have, and not what you don´t have. And all that 9 ninches and all that kinds of shit, makes me sick !

What is it really with you and sizes ? if every women had the best fit with a 9 incher, then men would be born with a 10 inch, since then we would complain about how fucking irritating it was having 2.54 CM too much meat. Heck, if I was the best pussy licker, I wouldn´t care for the world if I even won over lesbians at championships. Heck I would instruct them in how to please a woman with their mouth alone.

But because we don´t live in a utopian world. We all complain about sizes inches or centimetres, when the standard a couple of years ago was 12 Centimetres, but I don´t know if that was erect. Or flacid, but still some people now complains, and tell "no it is 15 Centimetres" bla bla bla etc. and what ever /doh

Wake up, there are cocks, and pussies of all sizes, so let us not complain so much, but let us love/fuck alot more. Than this size matter , sorry if I sound fuckedup, but I think I have a grip in the right end.

 

[PredatorSmile]

For all you size queens

http://penissizelinks.com/

http://a1204.g.akamai.net/7/1204/1401/04011318011/images.barnesandnoble.com/images/7280000/7280563.jpg

Raimondin, I read that book at the beginning of my current relationship, when I had many questions about the male anatomy ( I only dated chicks before) and it was a great read. I can proudly say that I am close to someone who owns a d!ck and I love him very much. I am very familiar with "The Captain" ( his nickname for it, don't ask) and we continue to please each other every day. Thanks for reminding me.

 

[Nabokov]

In many ways, penis size reflects a similair issue with woman's breast size. Some like them big, some like them small, most make due with the size their lover happens to be. It is really how you use it that matters, but I have to admit that I would prefer someone with at least an average cock.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

What was your reaction the first time you realized how big your honey was?

I drooled. He's got a beautiful cock.

And then I cried, when we tried to make love the first time.

 

[Missouribiguy]

I don't think size really matters to me. I more interested in the person. Still, I do admit that, image wise, a eight inched erect penis looks better than a five, but I thought which i would rather I should take for my first time. to anything from four to eight inches is good enough (with a good but not overly excessive thickness).

 

[LoboBoy]

I like anything from avergage to huge.

I have never been with a guy who has a tiny one...but my BF has (on a one nighter) and he said it was just bad. The guys cock was maybe 3inches. He felt shallow but he said it was like going down on a little boy...freaked him out.

 

[DG_Heracles]

Primarily, yes.

Women though, do play the game as well.

I think it's a prejudice, because in my experience, if a guy thinks he is a big deal because of his size, he's a loser in bed.

The smart money is just on someone who uses what they have to their best advantage.

Most women I speak with say the same thing. My wife holds this view as well.

As a male, I am turned on by large penis' but it is purely a visual thing. The fact that most men are very visual is the basis for my assumption that it is primarily men who make a big deal out of size.

 

[LoboBoy]

Most women I speak with say the same thing. My wife holds this view as well.

As a male, I am turned on by large penis' but it is purely a visual thing. The fact that most men are very visual is the basis for my assumption that it is primarily men who make a big deal out of size.

For sure! I am about 7inches.

My BF and I both drool over the huge cocks in porn ...but truth is, when we fuck...I have to start so slowly for him. I wonder if he's thought about what it'd be like if I had one of those 10inch cocks we see in porn!

lol It'd split him in half the poor boy!

I, on the other hand, can take anything

 

[NymphGoddess]

For sure! I am about 7inches.

My BF and I both drool over the huge cocks in porn ...but truth is, when we fuck...I have to start so slowly for him. I wonder if he's thought about what it'd be like if I had one of those 10inch cocks we see in porn!

lol It'd split him in half the poor boy!

I, on the other hand, can take anything

I guess it depends a lot on how suave the guy is too though...my first was 9.5'' and I just LOVED it!!

 

[sunandshadow]

Well, as a short woman I just don't have room for more than 5 1/2-6" of anything to enter my body. And from what I've heard, it's really frustrating for a guy to be in a relationship with someone he can't sink his dick all the way into (unless he's a total bottom or only likes oral I guess). So if I really liked someone I'd hope they weren't too hung for them to fully enjoy me and me not to be in pain from them slamming into my cervix (ouch), or too thick for me to be able to take comfortably, although I guess women are more stretchy as regards girth than length.

So yeah, IMO bigger is usually worse, not better.

 

[DG_Heracles]

I guess it depends a lot on how suave the guy is too though...my first was 9.5'' and I just LOVED it!!

I gotta tell you, there is something very erotic about a woman that loves a big dick.

From time to time my wife will announce that she is in the mood for porn. While she has never stressed the importance of a large cock, occasionally she will comment on how a large cock on the screen is really turning her (It is important to note, however, that she needs to be turned on by the guy on screen first. It is also important that the woman involved appear to be experiencing genuine pleasure). I LOVE these moments.

 

[Wolfman1982]

no comment, other than a big YUCK

the "perfect" slong to those who thinks that bigger is better.

Loboboy: Could you take this ?

 

[NymphGoddess]

I gotta tell you, there is something very erotic about a woman that loves a big dick.

From time to time my wife will announce that she is in the mood for porn. While she has never stressed the importance of a large cock, occasionally she will comment on how a large cock on the screen is really turning her (It is important to note, however, that she needs to be turned on by the guy on screen first. It is also important that the woman involved appear to be experiencing genuine pleasure). I LOVE these moments.

It's awesome that you two have those moments...I wish I could have with my ex...he's about "average" size...but had a MAJOR complex about it!! If I ever said anything about a "big cock" where he could hear, he'd go balistic.

I know I like big...but my lover now is just a bit over average...and he's just amazing as a lover! so...it's not all about size...

 

[chun_gong]

Is it possible the fascination with size is primarily a male thing?

Well...I am a female fascinated with size asthetically. It's nice to see something larger than normal and wonder just how you could take it! When I was with men in the past, there were very definite physical preferences for me - preferences considered "out of the average range".

I liked to really FEEL a man inside of me - girth and length. So, for intercourse I liked anything over 8.5 inches long & the thicker the better. (I like a little pain.) But, if it were anal sex, length didn't matter & medium to slender made the experience more comfortable - no matter the mood. Then I didn't have to be dying for an out of the world, stretched to the max experience to take a "fat one". We could just enjoy it & improvise if I wanted something thicker.
Orally, the man just needed to be satisfied. But, I have to admit, the challenge of an extra long cock was always fun!

Honestly, size didn't matter, it was really the experience. Everything else could be "solved" some other way. I just have strong preferences in the case of a perfect world.