Thoggy
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Jan 12, 2007
- Posts
- 408
Hello all..
I posted on this a moment ago on another thread I started but thought I might put it out here in the personals to see what the response is from you fine people.
The question is this (and I will get to the personals bit shortly..)
How does a submissive relationship impact self esteem?
If you are being a submissive little slut for a dominant male (my focus is on submissive women with dominant men) does that make you more or less confident in yourself?
My take on it is that a woman being submissive can actually be quite good for her self esteem. Many women seem to feel that the fact that their bodies aren't perfect means they do not deserve sex lives like they read about. The joy of submissiveness is that she no longer has the control of that aspect. It doesn't matter in the slightest if you think you have fat thighs or a tummy.
You simply need to submit and let me use you for our pleasure. Blindfolded and on your knees, you don't need to think about what you look like or whether the pose is flattering. You are responding to my directions, doing as I tell you, letting me do what I will, what I want.
I think that a woman with low self-esteem could actually find her opinion of herself improved by a proper dom/sub relationship. Becoming more confident in her ability to give pleasure and be pleasured.
So..any women out there who want to help me prove my theory? Explore your submissive side with me and see if you don't begin to feel more self-confident?
I really am all about the giving. Well, that and the taking.
T
I posted on this a moment ago on another thread I started but thought I might put it out here in the personals to see what the response is from you fine people.
The question is this (and I will get to the personals bit shortly..)
How does a submissive relationship impact self esteem?
If you are being a submissive little slut for a dominant male (my focus is on submissive women with dominant men) does that make you more or less confident in yourself?
My take on it is that a woman being submissive can actually be quite good for her self esteem. Many women seem to feel that the fact that their bodies aren't perfect means they do not deserve sex lives like they read about. The joy of submissiveness is that she no longer has the control of that aspect. It doesn't matter in the slightest if you think you have fat thighs or a tummy.
You simply need to submit and let me use you for our pleasure. Blindfolded and on your knees, you don't need to think about what you look like or whether the pose is flattering. You are responding to my directions, doing as I tell you, letting me do what I will, what I want.
I think that a woman with low self-esteem could actually find her opinion of herself improved by a proper dom/sub relationship. Becoming more confident in her ability to give pleasure and be pleasured.
So..any women out there who want to help me prove my theory? Explore your submissive side with me and see if you don't begin to feel more self-confident?
I really am all about the giving. Well, that and the taking.
T
