Is anal sex a pain in the arse (ass)?

[iann666]

Are there any ladies out there that truly enjoy anal sex,most of the women that I know will tolerate it but find it painful even with lots of TLC

 

[SexyChele]

I do truly enjoy anal sex, but it took a very special man to introduce me to it. Most men truly don't know enough to make the situation enjoyable for their partners. Therefore, you will find many woman have tried it, but few enjoy it.

But I can't see what this question has to do with "Personals"...

 

[iann666]

sorry

Thanx for your reply, my mistake about the personals bit , it should have gone to general.......Sorry

 

[sexy teacher]

Not Sure

Hello~
I have to say that I am one of those women who has tried it but was not impressed. The more people I chat with the more I hear that it can be the most pleasurable experience. All agree that if you find the right guy to do it, then you will experience something you could never imagine. Hopefully some day?!

 

[iann666]

sexy teach

thank you for a nice honest reply I would love to be the one ...keep in touch and let me know if your hopes are realised

 

[lilminx]

Yup- I enjoy it lots - as long as it's done with care...

 

[WriterDom]

I've known women that actually preferred it. And many more who were interested that couldn't do it at all. Between the two extremes, I'd say more women enjoy than you might expect. Nuttn bets a vagina to me. Beyond the anus the tightness ends.

 

[MissTaken]

I enjoy anal sex, as well. Of course, like many others gals, it took a few first tries and the right partner. And to be frank, that he enjoys it as much as he does, also enhances the experience for me.

Is it a pain in the "arse"? Hmmmm For me, the little bit of pain during and the occasional discomfort the next day are comparable to the discomfort during a good, rowdy fucking.

 

[notenufsx4me]

this reminds me of a chat i had with a coworker and friend one day. it seems that she want to have anal sex with her husband but he was just to big, no matter what they did it just would not go in and it hurt like hell. after many questions and answers i suggested that if she wanted to have anal sex it was going to have to be with someone else besides her husband and who was not hung like a horse.

 

[Calamity Jane]

I enjoy it. Took a few tries before i discovered just how much fun it could be... the discomfort thing... i agree with misstaken IF it's done with care, the discomfort is minimal.

 

[angel_minushalo]

Absotively, posilutely I truly enjoy anal sex!!!!! But then again, I am one of the lucky ones who has a partner who truly enjoys it as well and does what it takes to make me more comfortable.

However, there are those times when the fine line of pleasure/pain is quite enjoyable if done correctly.

 

[Guest]

Hrm. It's kind of like veggies. If you like them, veggies go down easy. If you dislike them, you better coat the cauliflower in cheese.

 

[iann666]

Thank you

Thank you all for your replies, what a pleasure to hear from so many enlightened people

 

[celiaKitten]

I've always wanted to try anal sex - but none of my past boyfriends ever wanted to.

Hopefully ...... someday ........

 

[BlondGirl]

I am one of those women who enjoys it. It is like chocolate--when you have a craving for it--nothing else really will do. You might eat and get full, but the desire for the chocolate specificly is still there.

 

[iann666]

thanx again

Thanx again for all the informative replies

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

Anal can be just as intense if not more with the right man luckily I have experienced a very patient loving man the only man out of 7 I've slept with that I would let anywhere near my ass!

 

[MissTaken]

Yes. It is intense and intimate. Certainly not something I would do with a clandestine lover.

 

[Skitten]

I am one of those who do enjoy anal sex it is very enjoyable if done with love and tenderness in mind and the right man. Me and my hubby started doing anal about a year ago and it is just wonderful and no it is not painful. It is something that is and can be very enjoyable if done with caring in mind and not rushing. That is where a lot of men do and ruin it for the women involve it has to be started slowly and not harshly and then it will be enjoyable for the both. If you are doing it just for him there is a problem it is something that both people should be wanting and enjoying. A suggestion for you is to read up a little on anal sex and see some different aspects. I really enjoy it and I know my hubby does too if you are just tolerating it you haven't found the right one or he doesn't know enough to do it so the both of you can enjoy.

Anal sex is not just something you do at the spur of the moment, both of you should work up to it and before just takin him into you. Try some butt pluggs and toys so your anus gets used to having something in there. And above anything else use lube and relax. It can be one of the greatest experiences you will ever have.

 

[iann666]

in response to skitten

thanx for that reply which my wife has read and said hmmmmmm
I am probably guilty of being over enthuastic but never uncaring

 

[Skitten]

You are quite welcome trust me on this one as long as you both take it slow it can be incredible. Have fun it is worth it.