kristydoll
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Aug 17, 2002
- Posts
- 205
I am almost hesitant to post this, but the term "24/7" gets under my skin (and not in a good way). In all honesty - is there really such a thing?
BDSM is my lifestyle and always will be. I live it daily...real life...and in the same home as my partner. Although I am "submissive", I would never say I am "24/7". To me, this is not logical or a possibility.
There are times when I must be in full control. It is not that I "won't or can't" submit, but at certain times, and in certain areas, my submission does not include these areas. I submit to "Him", as this is my choice and what truly makes me happy, but, in turn, he also understands that in some things, I do know best and does not try to control these areas. These areas usually involve my business and my children. I do work at home, but when I am in "work mode", I am not willing to submit at the drop of a hat. In this respect, I do not think - to me anyway - that 24/7 exists. We all at times, need to be the one in control.
This is my experience....and I admit....my own "dislike" of that term. Do others really feel they are living "24/7"?
kristy
BDSM is my lifestyle and always will be. I live it daily...real life...and in the same home as my partner. Although I am "submissive", I would never say I am "24/7". To me, this is not logical or a possibility.
There are times when I must be in full control. It is not that I "won't or can't" submit, but at certain times, and in certain areas, my submission does not include these areas. I submit to "Him", as this is my choice and what truly makes me happy, but, in turn, he also understands that in some things, I do know best and does not try to control these areas. These areas usually involve my business and my children. I do work at home, but when I am in "work mode", I am not willing to submit at the drop of a hat. In this respect, I do not think - to me anyway - that 24/7 exists. We all at times, need to be the one in control.
This is my experience....and I admit....my own "dislike" of that term. Do others really feel they are living "24/7"?
kristy